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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-08 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2379 ]


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Re: Ugly

(Anonymous) 2013-07-08 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know, I don't think there are any traits that make a person 'inherently ugly' or anything. I can only think of one person off the top of my head whom I think is seriously ugly physically, and I think that opinion might be aggravated by the fact that I think he's a terrible person all round. If I liked him, I might not think he was that ugly?

It always makes me a little sad though when I see people who obviously think they're lost causes and have given up. Especially when they've given up hygiene, too. I'm always like 'come on, if you washed your hair and got a new t-shirt, it seriously wouldn't be so bad!', but of course you can't say that to people so I keep it to myself.

Re: Ugly

(Anonymous) 2013-07-09 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
I gave up a long time ago. Not about hygiene, ewno, but about dating. One summer this random guy starting talking/whispering to me really low. Really, really low. It was so hard to hear him, that I didn't know he was there until I turned around to see what the sounds behind me were. We were both at a bus stop, right outside a subway station.

Anyway, he was obviously really shy/nervous, and I could sort of make out that he was asking me to go have coffee with him, or something like that. I kind of just ignored it, because yeah, it confused the hell out of me. I got on the bus, he walked away, etcetc. Later I randomly came across this thing on a message board: FFB. It's when shy guys purposely hit on unattractive/fat women to build up their confidence (because fat women are 'easy'). They sleep with them until they've built up enough confidence, sex wise, for a 'real girlfriend'.

I still am convinced that's what he was doing. I never get hit on. Ever. Pretty much convinced me to keep out of dating and whatnot. :P

Re: Ugly

(Anonymous) 2013-07-09 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I know you've likely heard this before, but it's pretty likely that you have actually been hit on and just never noticed. I used to feel bad about myself too, and was convinced that I never got hit on. I worked out my self-esteem problems in the end, and, in retrospect, it seems really obvious that there were people who did hit on me. I just genuinely never noticed.

I'm not kidding, I didn't even have a clue. I even went on actual dates that I didn't realise until years later were dates.

Re: Ugly

(Anonymous) 2013-07-09 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Random strangers don't actually talk to me. Well, there was this one time, late at night, where I was waiting for the bus after work. An older man was there, also, and he spent twenty minutes trying to convince me not to take the bus-as I was 'too fat' to take public transportation/that walking would be better for me/etc. I don't think that counts though, lol!