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fandomsecrets2013-07-08 06:51 pm
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Re: Ugly
(Anonymous) 2013-07-08 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)It always makes me a little sad though when I see people who obviously think they're lost causes and have given up. Especially when they've given up hygiene, too. I'm always like 'come on, if you washed your hair and got a new t-shirt, it seriously wouldn't be so bad!', but of course you can't say that to people so I keep it to myself.
Re: Ugly
(Anonymous) 2013-07-09 12:01 am (UTC)(link)Anyway, he was obviously really shy/nervous, and I could sort of make out that he was asking me to go have coffee with him, or something like that. I kind of just ignored it, because yeah, it confused the hell out of me. I got on the bus, he walked away, etcetc. Later I randomly came across this thing on a message board: FFB. It's when shy guys purposely hit on unattractive/fat women to build up their confidence (because fat women are 'easy'). They sleep with them until they've built up enough confidence, sex wise, for a 'real girlfriend'.
I still am convinced that's what he was doing. I never get hit on. Ever. Pretty much convinced me to keep out of dating and whatnot. :P
Re: Ugly
(Anonymous) 2013-07-09 12:18 am (UTC)(link)I know you've likely heard this before, but it's pretty likely that you have actually been hit on and just never noticed. I used to feel bad about myself too, and was convinced that I never got hit on. I worked out my self-esteem problems in the end, and, in retrospect, it seems really obvious that there were people who did hit on me. I just genuinely never noticed.
I'm not kidding, I didn't even have a clue. I even went on actual dates that I didn't realise until years later were dates.
Re: Ugly
(Anonymous) 2013-07-09 12:25 am (UTC)(link)