[ SECRET POST #2395 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2395 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[The Most Popular Girls in School]


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03.
[Welcome to Night Vale]


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04.
[Gerard Way and Frank Iero]


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05.
[Mastumoto Jun]


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06.
[Macdonald Hall]


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07.
[Downton Abbey]


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08.
[Generator Rex]


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09.
[Neil Oliver]


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10.
[Star Trek]


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11.
[Star Trek: TNG]


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12.
[The Vampire Diaries]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 025 secrets from Secret Submission Post #342.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

03. http://i.imgur.com/lsjoyZe.png
[Welcome to Night Vale]

[kaijinscendre]

If she stopped being friends with you, I doubt she will search you out...And if she does, maybe you two can renew your friendship. The worst that can happen is status quo is maintained. The best is you become friends again. What will most likely happen is she will never notice.

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, worst case would be she actively goes after the OP in fandom, particularly if she thought the OP followed her in...but I kinda doubt that would happen since it's been a while.

[morieris]

And if she did? She wants nothing to do with you, as you said. She'd see you and probably move on?

[(Anonymous)]

Unless your friend is on the stalkery side, she probably won't.

[(Anonymous)]

Even if she does she'll probably won't do anything.

[forgottenjester]

If she hates you why would she care? Besides, if she ever does ask you can just say, "No, I'm not them. I don't know what you're talking about. Sorry." She can't prove anything.

[(Anonymous)]

You underestimate how far some people will go when they hate someone. /speaks from experience

[forgottenjester]

No. I really don't. Trust me on that one. /also speaks from experience

It's just that OP hasn't said that the girl wanted anything from her or that it was an angry friendship break. She just said the girl didn't want to be her friend anymore and the OP deleted her tumblr and started a new one.

The OP says exactly zero about harassment.

[(Anonymous)]

True - but that doesn't mean there couldn't be - and, iirc, you were the one who brought up hate which was the part I was responding to, not the OP specifically.

[forgottenjester]

We won't know either way unless the OP clarifies.

:/ I just said hate. I didn't mean it in an internet overdrive crazy mean kind of way. I guess I should check my word choice.

[applesock]

Don't let you ex-friend be a deterrent if you want to participate. If she has a problem with it, it's her problem, not yours and she can move on to something else.

[(Anonymous)]

*hugs OP* I've had a fandom friend do the same thing to me. Then she started rumors about me when we participated in the same circles, even though that was a few years later. I hope that doesn't happen to you.

[sootyowl]

Hopefully she won't figure out it's you. And if she does, hopefully she'll be a good enough person not to harass you. Most people only quickly browse another person's tumblr any who when they check it out. There is a good chance she'd never figure it out.

I hope your past friendship doesn't stop you from enjoying tumblr and fandom, OP.

[transcriptanon]

[Picture is the logo of the podcast "Welcome to Night Vale". It's a town during night, with a water tower, an electricity pole and a barn or house with an antenna over it. The crescent moon overlooks it from a purple sky. The moon looks as it's part of a sinister eye.]

In the past couple days, Welcome to Night Vale tumblr fans have been reblogging posts about it written by an old friend of mine that I no longer talk to. A few months ago, when it became clear she no longer wanted anything to do with me, I deleted my old tumblr and made a new account to avoid her.

Now I'm kind of afraid to participate in this fandom at all, because she was my best friend for almost a decade and I'm sure she'd recognize me by my blog if she ever saw it.

[elaminator]

Hmm, do you talk a lot about your personal life on tumblr? If you aren't going into extreme detail about things I think you'll be fine. (And even if you do, who's to know if she'll ever look at your tumblr?)

I doubt she would ever be sure of your identity even if she suspected it was you, and if she dropped all contact with you then she probably won't go to the trouble to harass you or anything even if she did find out.

Imo you shouldn't avoid the fandom altogether (though it would be understandable if you did), but if the thought of her finding you worries you that much maybe don't reblog her posts? (Though if her posts are extremely popular she probably wouldn't notice that either.)

[(Anonymous)]

If you guys had a bad falling out, then I might be a little bit worried.

But if you have a completely different handle than what you used to use and you guys didn't break off the friendship at each other's throats, then I wouldn't be too concerned. I guess it just depends if the friendship dissolved amicably or not.

Either way, try not to let her participation in fandom deter you from yours. I guess just try to get involved in circles that she's not in.

[silverau]

That sucks, OP. If you can, try not to be too scared and just enjoy it. Why let her ruin your fun?

[cassandraoftroy]

Even if she decided she didn't want to have anything to do with you ever again, it's not like she took out an internet restraining order. She has no reasonable right to expect you to avoid fandoms that she's in, if you're interested in them too. Just don't interact with her directly, and if she wants to have a tantrum about the fact that you exist in a public space that she also occupies, that's her problem.

[(Anonymous)]

Steve Carlsburg!!!