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(Anonymous) 2013-08-04 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)She wasted her own life and made a bad joke out of herself. There is nothing disrespectful about noting that someone is a loser and making an example out of that someone.
No one should admire her. No one should defend her. No one should be like her. She made her own choices, and they were all shitty ones, and she paid the price for them.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-04 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)Also totally unappealing in pastry.
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I don't see anyone saying they admire or want to be like her. Obviously the woman made a lot of mistakes and yes she did pay for them, but if you don't see what's distasteful about this whole thing I don't even know what to say to you.
(Okay, I will say this.)
It's spiteful and wrong and could get out to her family and friends (who I'm sure were going through enough pain; no one needs to see something like that).
She's dead. There isn't anything funny about that no matter the reason for her death, and if nothing else the loss of a human life (no matter your feelings toward her), should mean something.
That's all I'm going to say about the subject.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 12:19 am (UTC)(link)I don't feel any worse about someone mocking Amy Winehouse's death than I do about the Darwin Awards for mocking the deaths of others. And, thing is, if someone on F!S had posted a story from the Darwin Awards in the comments prior to me saying any of this, most of those who are currently incensed would likely have joined in a chorus of "wow, how stupid" and "hahaha." You would not have thought about the fact that the person featured in the tale had friends and family, and that the mockery would most likely have gotten back to said friends and family.
Winehouse was famous.
That's the only thing that makes her different. It's the only thing that makes you care.
But it shouldn't.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 12:39 am (UTC)(link)baby's first nihilist post
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 12:42 am (UTC)(link)Try again.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 02:54 am (UTC)(link)Yes, death can sometimes be funny, and it definitely happens to us all. But sometimes finding irreverent humour amusing does not negate or mean one doesn't have the right to draw the line and respect the dead.
To counter what you said, if was at a themed party and someone had a zombie cake of a recently deceased unfamous person whom know one at the party had known, I would still be horrified. To mock a personal death for the sake of it is senseless, no matter who it is.
You said "Winehouse was famous. That's the only thing that makes her different. It's the only thing that makes you care." I think it's actually more accurate to say that Winehouse's fame is the only thing that makes people think they have a right to mock her death, because celebrity makes people seem less real.
But it shouldn't.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 12:13 am (UTC)(link)Like, shit, it even looks gross, why would anyone want to eat that?
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 12:41 am (UTC)(link)It's icky because it's gross.
It's gross because it's tasteless.
It's tasteless because it's disrespectful.
It's disrespectful because it's bad.
It's bad because it's icky.
It's icky because...
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 04:47 am (UTC)(link)All you Hannibal fans out there understand.
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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 02:51 am (UTC)(link)If that cake is the issue, it probably makes me like NPH even more. n
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