[ SECRET POST #2442 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2442 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

This. For me anyways. Maybe sex and sexual attraction is just an abnormally low priority for me, but I just think it's unhealthy to center a huge amount of your identity around it.

[(Anonymous)]

Actual non-wanky question tho: do you identify as straight, or no?

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I identify as gay, but if someone asked me to describe who I was that would not even be in the top five things I would say about myself. It's not the most important thing about me.

[(Anonymous)]

Most people don't put their sexuality in the top five things they would use to describe themselves.

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SA

I identify as asexual, which I fully admit may be my problem empathizing with this. I understand that sex is important, and that socially who you have sex with is important, I just have a very very hard time understanding why and understanding why it's so important to some people.

[littlestbirds]

I feel the exact same way, so I don't think it's because you're asexual. Unless I'm wondering if they want to have sex with me personally, I don't know why it's important.

[(Anonymous)]

I couldn't agree more. Sex is not the central tenet of most people's personalities or daily lives.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't identify as anything? I mostly date dudes, but I have a way harder time defining "dating" than most people do, so who really knows.

[(Anonymous)]

Agree.

[(Anonymous)]

People end up hyperaware of their own sexuality because that's what others around them are forever noticing, criticizing, and trying to make them feel bad about. Sometimes people choose to take extra pride in, and therefore have extra focus on, their sexuality just to fend off everyone else's insistence that they be ashamed of it and hide it away for whatever reason.

[deaalmon]

This. So much this.

Thank you for saying very succinctly why this sort of thing is important to some people.