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⌈ Secret Post #2483 ⌋

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RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

Me and my girlfriend have had several attempts at taking this step in the past and they've all failed, but tonight it actually happened.

8)

But I'm kinda torn.

On the one hand, I want all the high-fives. I feel great. It felt great. we both really enjoyed it, and it's set aside an awful lot of issues I've been harbouring over the years.

On the other hand... we were rather stupid. Yeah. Oops.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think you want to use the phrases, "lost my virginity" and "I'm kind of torn" in the same sentence. The imagery....yeah...bloody sheets....

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

Hahaha. Yeah, oops.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

Oh good, I'm not the only one who went there. I was very worried when OP started "but I'm kinda torn" - thought this was going to go in a very different direction.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

How were you stupid? Not where protection? Do it in parents' bedroom? Filmed it then accidentally sent the video to all your friends?

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

The first one. Yeah. I'm somewhat concerned about that.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

I am slightly younger than you and still a virgin. This give sme hope.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

Terrifying, isn't it?
The constant self doubt and fear?
It apparently comes to an end, even for barley functional losers like me.

(frozen comment) Get some!

[(Anonymous)]

Wait, you're teh menz?

This must be the only place someone would talk about their girlfriend, and I jump to the assumption they're a woman.

(frozen comment) Re: Get some!

[(Anonymous)]

I am indeed teh menz. After today I am definitely teh menz.

(frozen comment) Re: Get some!

[(Anonymous)]

This must be the only place someone would talk about their girlfriend, and I jump to the assumption they're a woman.

Haha, me too.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

C'mon man, you've been apparently planning or trying for this for awhile and you and your girlfriend were still unsafe and unprepared? That's just sad and stupid.

But, congrats on the sex! Glad that it was a good time had by all, other than the stupid.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

yes. yes it was.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

in my twenties...still a virgin. Waiting till I'm married.

Yeah.....also it might be because I look young and well due to a developmental disability , matured slowly, but most people around me IRL tend to think I'm super innocent, it feels like. It gets annoying sometimes.

Hell, some of my assholish classmates in high school were always trying (and failing) to get me into inappropriate situations because they seemed to assume I didn't know what sex WAS (kid: *puts whistle near his crotch and calls out to me* "hey, wanna come blow my whistle?" *me: ... *makes "ew" face and goes back to happily sketching and planning fanfic*)

But surprise, I'm not as 'innocent' as a lot of people around me seem to think.

(Sometimes I wonder if it says something bad about me that I'll be amused when the people who knew me IRL in school read my stuff and go "...you wrote this?")

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

Be honest.

Are you moe.

Are you kawaii.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

30 and a virgin here and yeah, I get real sick of the "innocent" assumption crap. That got old in high school.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

The whole concept of virginity is really stupid to me. It's also super heterocentric... ask anyone, and most will define losing it as being penetrative vaginal sex; must be with a real penis, no toys. But then about about two men? They might say "oh well, butt-sex counts". But what about two women? Does it not count unless there's a dick involved?

And then what about rape victims and rapists who had never had sex before the rape? Does THAT count as losing it? Would it count more than two women going down on each other?

There's basically no such thing as virginity because sex is not ONE act, it's a whole spectrum of acts and you can have had lots of sex without ever getting penetrated.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

da

um, thanks for the barely on topic soap box rant??

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

thank you.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

Actually, most people don't define virginity as PiV sex where hymen "breaks" anymore. Hell I didn't even know that definition existed until I was in high school.

But yes, there is such a thing as virginity. It's a concept created by the human mind, instilled in society, affecting the way people think and act. If there were no such thing as virginity, this thread would not exist.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[diet_poison]

I think maybe it depends on what kind of sex you want to have.

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[(Anonymous)]

If it's heterocentric then why give a damn if you're not hetero? It has a meaning in the context of straight sex , which doesn't necessarily apply in the context of other sexual relationships. PiV sex is always going to have a distinction amongst straight sex acts because of the reproductive associations (though this doesn't negate the fact that a lot of straight women prefer other kinds of sexual activities).

Since nobody else did

[insanenoodlyguy]

You sing this next time you get the chance.

http://youtu.be/lQlIhraqL7o

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[tei]

Well, it sounds like you're not gonna have a baby this time, just a scare. Just consider it time and anxiety well spent making sure you learned your lesson.

And congratulations on your sexual debut! (This is what the nurse at the sex clinic place told me to call it?????)

Re: RIP - My Viginity - 1985-2013

[blunderbuss]

Woah, you're only a year younger than me. That gives me some measure of hope too.

Anyway, congrats!