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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-25 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2488 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2488 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sherlock/Irene Adler]


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[Twin Peaks]


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[Kick-Ass 2]


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10. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]



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11. [WARNING for rape]

[Dramatical Murder]


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12. [WARNING for child abuse]
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Eh, it depends for me. If it's just a run-of-the-mill pairing? Then full speed ahead, go for it, have your fun.

But I will call people out for shipping something that is inherently squicky or fucked-up and treating it like it's cute and fluffy and adorable without acknowledging that it's screwed-up (and by that I mean things like abusive relationships, things with major power imbalances, incest, etc.).

By all means, ship what you want. I only have a problem with it when people try to deny that their pairing is anything other than rainbows and kittens.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
Even if people ship something squicky and fucked up, why does it matter? It's like Wincest fans- they already know their pairing is taboo so they don't need anyone to slap their wrists and tell them why it's wrong. It's like, who cares? Ship and let ship.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
"But I will call people out for shipping something that is inherently squicky or fucked-up and treating it like it's cute and fluffy and adorable without acknowledging that it's screwed-up"

think you missed that line, anon.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
No, I read it but I don't think it matters. People don't have to apologize for their weird ships any and every time they mention them.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
i don't think people should have to apologize for them, but i also think it's pretty skeevy when people act like a ship that's, say, dubcon incest is somehow sweet and cute and has nothing wrong with it. it's not the pairing but how the people treat it to me, if that makes any sense. in the case of something like an abusive relationship i can see why someone might be upset by people romanticizing it and acting like it's totally okay because they're ~in love~ or whatever.

if you're going to make it all happy and fluffy then why are you shipping a pairing that is by its very nature kind of fucked up?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
If you have a problem with the pairing, then feel free to write all the essays you want about why you feel the relationship is wrong.

But when you start telling somebody who ships that pairing that they are wrong and they should feel bad about what they ship, then you become a shitty person. Some people have vastly different shipping preference and it's nobody's business but their own. They can have fun as long as they are not hurting anybody (and shipping is harmless because it's fictional scenarios).

Basically, you don't have to agree with or like a shipping, but never tell a person what they should or should not ship. No one should have to conform to your standards, especially on something like shipping. Unless you are their parent or significant other, you have no right to criticize what someone does for fun when they aren't hurting anybody.