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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-12-14 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2538 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2538 ⌋

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[personal profile] unicornherds 2013-12-14 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think this is something to feel weird about. I mean, can't really control your feelings, but I think there are a lot of things people love to read about that would never want to happen in real life.

I'm with you in never wanting to be pregnant. I love kids, but the idea of being pregnant and giving birth is seriously one of my biggest nightmares/fears. I'd freak the fuck out if I ever found myself pregnant. It would def never be a voluntary thing. Though I do want kids at some point. Maybe.

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(Anonymous) 2013-12-14 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm in the 'maybe' camp to. I'd probably want to adopt an older child anyway because I'm not a big fan of babies.

I don't understand why people hate on people for saying that they don't want to have children because of whatever. Having kids doesn't magically make you a more responsible or enriched person. Having a child just to fill up some bullshit checklist of 'life goals' that everyone supposedly needs to complete is one of the most selfish things you could ever do.

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[personal profile] unicornherds 2013-12-15 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
I love kids, and babies, I just don't know if I'd be very good at that type of commitment. I think I'm better as the nanny or aunt. I mean I like the idea of having a kid that's my own to mold, but realistically idk. If I'm ever in the position and had a partner I'd really like to try fostering.

Yeah, I don't get that type of mindset. I don't really get hate on people for having different life goals or wtv anyway. I guess I've been lucky that my family doesn't really pressure about that type of stuff. They'd be delighted to have more grandkids/nephews/nieces, but it's not like they're pushing for them or anything.