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If someone is too ignorant to know that feminism has different branches, or feels threatened by the term, they're not someone I want to associate with.
That's great for you, but that certainly doesn't work for me because I have co-workers and family and friends of friends and friends of family. And honestly it seems more important to me to engage with those people (about feminism if they're ignorant about it) than shut myself away, which is what I would have to do (either literally or at least mentally).

Sorry. Honestly I have people like that in my life too. I try to be just polite to them, if we end up becoming closer and friendly, and they're open to a discussion, I can try to change their minds in little ways, and I've had some successes. If they're not open to discussion, that's when I disengage a much as possible. I don't know. Some people are a lost cause imo. I still don't think, if you feel the label of feminist is right for you, that you should give it up for their sake.

I pretty much agree with you here. I'm going to label myself as I see fit and how I choose to. Fuck other people who make snap judgments. Does this cause problems with some people? Sure, but they're not exactly people I like or want to spend my time with anyway.

Essentially, other people don't get to tell me who I am or how I have to label myself.

Edited 2014-01-01 02:20 (UTC)

Yes, that's what I was getting at!

I was typing this edit when you replied: Anyway, sorry, I'm kind of rambling right now, but what I'm trying to say is it's not your responsibility to make all of your coworkers and friends-of-friends see the light. Just be yourself, stick to your values, and try to make as much of a good impression as you can.

When I say "don't associate with them" I mean "don't invite them out to pizza after work". You don't owe them anything! :)

Ahha, sorry for commenting so soon to you then.

But it seems like we're exactly on the same page.

lol it's fine!!

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