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Multiple orgasms in women. I have heard of these but never experienced one myself. I can usually get off again after about 15 minutes. Is that what they mean by multiple? I use a clitoral vibrator (insertion either makes me have to pee or just does nothing). Is this a normal thing that can be done? If so, what am I doing wrong?

It's not a woman birthright or something, so it's possible you're just not someone who is inclined towards multiple orgasms. I'd personally think two in fifteen minutes is considered "multiple," but I'm not sure. I can generally have three in five minutes if I really get going, so I probably fit the bill better.

I CAN sometimes get off again within two minutes, but I usually lose the will to do so by masturbating, so I generally only experience it when I'm with a guy. Oral sex, especially.

"Multiple" is used in two (maybe more, I don't know) different ways. 1) Having two or more orgasms in one sex session, which is what you describe. That's pretty common, ability-wise. You just have to try a couple of times. Or 2) Having a second orgasm without the first one ending, which is much harder to achieve, and many (most?) women don't get there.

There's no special, guaranteed trick I've heard of to get a #2 multiple. Some women find penetrating dildos (not clitoral stimulators) help, due to g-spot stimulation in conjunction with clitoral. You could also masturbate to orgasm, and then slow down instead of stopping, that way you don't come all the way down from it. That's kind of a crap-shoot; half the time it's just too overstimulating for me, and gets a bit painful.

It's a normal thing (not being able to do it is also normal) but I'm not really sure it's a goal that you can set for yourself and work toward.

I don't know where the transition between single and multiple really is. I mean, I can prolong an orgasm quite a bit, or take a little break and continue having it, so would that count as one or two?

I dunno, I only have to wait a minute or two, depending on the intensity. And then I can go for maybe 5 or 6 of lessening intensity with a similar break between each.

Not sure if it's "normal" but yeah, I know a lot of women who can orgasm several times without much time in between. When I was younger (as in maybe 17 or 18), I used to time myself and see how many orgasms I could have within a certain period of time. My all time record was 10 in 11 minutes but it was fucking exhausting and I don't think I could do that anymore

Everyone is different, but for me there isn't really any time in between, there's one and then it just kind of... keeps going. I usually don't count but I think I once got to 20 something before losing track. I don't know how long it would last because I always get to the point where I'm like 'alright, that's enough' and just stop even though I'm kind of in the middle and not technically 'done'. It's kind of hard to describe.

But yeah, I definitely don't think it's normal or that you're doing anything wrong. Some people are just weird, I guess (me, not you).

Oh, and I also use a clitoral vibrator, for the record. Vaginal penetration doesn't do anything for me either. ~~Anal, on the other hand...~~

When I got the okay from my doctor to stop taking Effexor (because it was doing more harm than good), I went through a two-week period of time where I could have about eight or nine orgasms in a session, each within about thirty seconds after the previous one ended. It was the only pleasant part of withdrawing from Effexor.

Just like with everything else, each woman is different.

Me? I'm highly orgasmic, so a "normal" session usually includes several smaller orgasms that eventually build up to a larger one. How big/intense that larger one is depends on a variety of factors, and with a partner, I've found I can reach what I *think* is the best I'm going to get.. only to driven to an even higher level which is just mindblowing. I think I've only managed to hit that mark a couple of times purely solo. It's definitely rare.

Also, the way my body is wired, I can tell the origin of each orgasm. My vaginal ones are satisfying, but not truly intense. Clitoral ones are more intense, but not as satisfying. G-spot ones are more intense than clitoral, but not as satisfying as vaginal. The mindblowing ones mentioned above? Happen when all three go at once.

It's all about learning what works for your body, and how to "play" it to the best of your ability. Try different things (like maybe fingers ir a dildo rather than a vibrator). Also, that feeling like you have to pee? That's g-spot stimulation. Next time, just put a towel under yourself and go with it. You may be pleasantly surprised. :)

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