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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-19 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2605 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2605 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Slenderman]


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[Saints Row 3]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Welcome to Night Vale, My Mad Fat Diary]


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[The Middle]


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[Steven Universe]


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[Kyuhyun and Seohyun]


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[Disney]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Thor: Dark World]


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[The Avengers/Clark Gregg]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Hannibal]


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[Fate/Stay Night]















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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 036 secrets from Secret Submission Post #372.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
How about the message be, "Your body and your health are your own business, and nobody has the right to make you feel bad about the way you look"? Can that be the message instead?

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think it's a good idea. Message should encourage healthy habits. You can't say "it's your body, so go ahead and eat fast food, smoke, drink alcohol, ignore sports and have unprotected sex".
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[personal profile] sarillia 2014-02-20 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
"Ignore sports"? I've seen this sort of comment before but that's a new one.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Ignore sports as in 'don't practice any sport'.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
You do realize that it is possible to be 100% healthy and in shape without ever having played any sport.

Sports are not the be-all end-all of exercise, for fucks sake.

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[personal profile] sarillia 2014-02-20 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Most sports would seriously injure me so I'll stick with my other exercises that don't aggravate my arthritis.

Since I'm not a special snowflake, I'm going to assume that there are plenty of others like me who are ignoring sports with good reason.

Honestly, I don't care if they only have bad reasons either. People are allowed to make their own choices even if they're unhealthy. I'm not even going to touch the complexities of the intersections of weight, body type, and overall health. Try talking to an epidemiologist some time instead of basing your opinions on flawed general knowledge.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
A question: do you consider any and all types of exercise to fall under the category of "sport?"

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(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Mental health is just as important as physical health, so I don't see the point of a "message" that harps on one while damaging the other. And sending the message, "Your body is not okay, and you're wrong unless you're actively trying to change it" is damaging.

Besides, look at the catalog of things you just listed. They're all actions, behaviors. Discouraging behaviors is different from discouraging traits. By all means, encourage healthy habits, but stay away from shaming people about their bodies.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
+1 Mental health is important, and it is also very tied into how people treat themselves. People who have been treated poorly on various levels are often more likely to abuse things like drugs, alcohol, and yes, even food.

I don't get why people think treating other people poorly yields positive results, obesity has been a problem for years and if bullying did the trick, then many people would have been skinny long ago.

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starphotographs: ...I'm not that bad, though. And I don't even light things on fire! Well, not regularly... (Izaya (devious))

[personal profile] starphotographs 2014-02-20 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
You can't say "it's your body, so go ahead and eat fast food, smoke, drink alcohol, ignore sports and have unprotected sex".

Oh, can't I now? :P

Well, okay, yeah, it's a mouthful. You don't need that many specific examples. So I'll just say "Livin' my own life, unconcerned with yours."

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
Make sure you're not overweight, nevermind that it will cost you your mental health, sense of self-worth and confidence, and make you hate your body so much that you cease to be able to see it even remotely objectively and use punishing it as a coping method? Yeah, brilliant, that worked out great for me. So grateful to the people who were concerned for "my health".

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
That's a great message if you don't live in one of the countries with socialized healthcare. It's a great message if you're one of the millions of Americans who leaches off of others for your healthcare. But if someone else is paying for your healthcare, you should feel like shit if you don't take the best possible care of yourself because your health is not your own business, it's other peoples' financial burden.

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(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
You're a piece of shit. Go kill yourself.

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(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
DO NOT TELL ANYONE TO KILL THEMSELVES. EVER. FOR ANY REASON.

(frozen comment) I don't agree with OP but..

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
can you not?

Seriously telling someone to kill themselves is a shitty thing to do. Honestly you sound just as bad as OP right now.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-02-20 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
fuck. OFF.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
...the fuck?

"it's other peoples' financial burden"

You sound greedy. If money is your first priority, then I don't think you need to comment about health issues since your wallet will come first. Thinking about your wallet won't help people live healthy lives.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
...or my household income is $90k a year so I'm in the tax bracket that got the hardest by Obamacare at the same time that Obamacare pissed all over the US Constitution and made my affordable healthcare illegal so now I'm getting fined for not having healthcare and can't get my insulin refilled and have a bill for $196k because I had to go to the emergency room when I went into a coma last month and probably have to file a chapter 11 bankruptcy. Yes, money and health and healthcare are very much tied together in my mind and right at the forefront right now.
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(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
Well, hello, Fox News Correspondent.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Hi, I'm overweight, obese even, but I"m healthier than most of my slender friends. So...there goes that theory!

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
how do you figure you're healthier than your slender friends?
being obese is really, REALLY unhealthy. unless your slender friends all have terminal illnesses or something, i really don't see the logic in that statement. and i've seen it used so many times before. it's like the go-to defensive statement or something.

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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2014-02-20 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
Plenty of people already feel like shit about that and don't go to the doctor at all until they're half dead, even though preventative healthcare is far cheaper than emergency, so shame about lack of money is ultimately costing everyone far more money in the end. So good job making people feel guilty for their health, it seems to be working out smashingly.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
lmao you obviously don't realize that people that don't go to the doctor for preventative care end up costing the taxpaying public more than if we'd just pony up and let people get healthy. When a person can't get care until it is literally life-threatening and they have to go to the hospital, which lands them with astronomical bills that they absolutely cannot pay, who do you think pays for those in the end? So which sounds better to you; silently paying for $30,000 bills that you don't even know about, or ponying up a couple of dollars per paycheck knowingly for a $100 one?

But we don't like to talk about that, do we? No no, let the poor fucking die in the streets, we don't care about them. It's their fault for not working harder.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
This is so stupid that I hope you're trolling, for your sake.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
this is such a selfish outlook. i come from a country where this system of healthcare has been the norm for decades and it means that nobody is losing their house if they break their leg, people can go and see a doctor when they feel something's wrong instead of being too scared to go bankrupt because of it, etc etc. it's called social healthcare for a reason, and it's not "leaching off of others". you pay for your own healthcare too.