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Depends. Just text? Go for it. Sending naked photos of yourself?

Hahahahahahah those are all going on the internet when you break up. I'll enjoy your tits next time I'm browsing 4chan though, so thanks for that.

You're kind of a shithead, aren't you?

Just telling it like it is. Most people assume that stuff gets deleted after the breakup but it really, really doesn't.

Hell, there are whole sites that will pay cash for your ex's nudes. For OP's sake, I hope they cropped their head out.

Have you ever thought that maybe everyone isn't a scumbag like you? Not everyone is a manchild or womanchild who needs to go on the internet to upload personal photos of their ex that were given during a time of trust to get back at them because they can't deal with a simple breakup.

Some states are starting to crack down on revenge porn too. So good luck with that.

I have never uploaded anyone's nudes to the internet, but I've seen literally thousands of other people do it and thousands more do it and make money off of it. Say what you will, but the amount of times I've seen it happen outweighs my faith in some random anon's significant other of "over a year".

You have no idea what the relationship is like between the OP and her boyfriend, or what he's like for that matter. Anything over a year is considered a long term relationship and it's practically normal for adults to start putting in serious commitment after the first year mark. Also the OP has only spoken positively about him and her relationship, so it's more likely that he's not a dirtbag. Everyone in the world =/= 4chan.

Nope, and I don't care. Also, everyone in the world is more like 4chan than you realize, especially when they're angry and spurned.

Like, you know in the event of a breakup.

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dethtoll - 2014-02-26 03:10 (UTC) - Expand

Here's the thing: you never really know how someone is going to behave during a break-up. They can be perfectly fine and normal during the actual relationship, and then, in a moment of hurt or anger, do something really awful after it's over. OP's bf might not be a dirtbag. But that doesn't mean that he's incapable of doing dirtbag things, or that he won't betray her trust should they split.

It sucks to think about, and it's something that we shouldn't have to think about, but unfortunately, it's reality.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-02-26 05:41 (UTC) - Expand

Yeah, not everyone's a scumbag, but people change when they get angry and want to hurt the person who hurt them.

You can "tell it like it is" (or like you think it is) without being a shithead js

Yep.

The reality is that that happens often, and that OP is being delusional if they think there's no chance of it occurring just because they trust their partner currently.

The fact that you're responding to this right now lets me know my message had an impact, which is exactly what I meant it to do.

Uh, okay, first off my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. I didn't put that in there because it sounds silly to care about six more months like as if I'm accumulating relationship points based on how many months it's been. We have lived with each other for more than a year, and both of us have the same personality type on the Meyer's Briggs test and we both deal with our exes in the same way. Meaning that we just take time for ourselves until we feel happy again; we're both not vengeful people who would put our exes nudes on the internet. It's destructive behavior and he and I are both peaceful, happy people.

Just because you seem to know these vindictive people doesn't mean my boyfriend is. So no, you won't ever be seeing my tits. And not that it's any of your business, but my boyfriend has excitedly brought up marriage and children recently and keeps asking for my feedback on it. So if all goes well, I'll be saying fiance instead.

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I would never send people pictures I don't want on the internet, so no impactful message needed. It just doesn't look good on you to go "Dur hur, I'm going to enjoy looking at your tits."

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diet_poison - 2014-02-26 15:17 (UTC) - Expand

Are you trying to imply that your message would not have had an impact if you'd been nicer about it?

Or that I'm responding to the message itself rather than your shitty attitude?

I don't disagree with what you're saying - I just think you don't need to be a huge prick about it to get your point across.

"telling it like it is"

shithead confirmed

That phrase really is reliably diagnostic, isn't it?

Yeah, it's sort of like referring to one's self as a taxpayer or beginning a sentence with "I'm not racist, but..."

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dethtoll - 2014-02-26 20:36 (UTC) - Expand

So you don't care where the naked pics come from you will enjoy it if it's there? That's a really messed up way of operating.

This. I think it's dumb as fuck to take naked photos of yourself for exactly that reason. All it takes is one pissed-off ex or one hacker and bam, your nudes are plastered all over the net for the world to see.

ok but what about those of us who dont care, how is sexting pictures "dumb as fuck" then

like

You might not care about nudes of you out there, but employers/family/other relationships might. More than a few people have lost their jobs over that nonsense.

Honk probably doesn't give a shit about douchecanoes who are going to judge her for a nude leak and wouldn't want a relationship with one. The chance of family and/or employers coming across these nudes is slim to nothing, and if these were posted without her permission, she could get law enforcement involved if it affects her job. There are some states out there that now have laws against revenge porn.

laws don't make it magically go away if someone posts it, though. even if the pictures get pulled off one site, they'll still be out there circulating on the internet. and hey, if a job sees it and wants to fire you for it? they have every right to do so. people have been fired for things they posted to facebook and twitter before.

if you don't think employers google you then you're either stupid, hopelessly naive, or both.

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