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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-04-13 03:53 pm

[ FS Anon Meme ]

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with recaptchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

(Today's post is below.)

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Reading these threads bums me out out because apparently no one cares enough about me to hate me or like me. And I'm a singed in regular. I guess I'm either not enough of an asshole or not nice enough. Story of my life online and off.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm the same boat.

Pretty sure I could stop using my account all together and no one would notice.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah same here. Oh well.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't know that. Some of us just don't post to these things because we find them tacky. If people are responding to you, they probably like you.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

Lol no. People rarely respond to me. I'm pretty inane, I think.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I dunno what to tell you, then. Talk to people more? Nobody noticed me until I made the effort.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I've made plenty of effort, trust me. I'm kind of in the shadow of some of the "bnfs." :) I'm just feeling lonely and shitty today, I think.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you befriended one of the "bnfs"?

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
It helps to talk to the other named users on other places. Most of them are friends outside of f!s too...

You are more likely to reply to someone you know a bit better than someone you don't if the comments are similar.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I know I'm more formal with people I don't know very well because I don't know if they'd get my sense of humor or think I was being a jerk. But the only way to get to know them is by talking to them a lot (and, to be honest, going to the streams).

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-14 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the opposite. I've already picked a friend's brain on a topic, I already know what they think, so I don't know want to hear more of the same.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll join the rest of you in this ship. I tell myself it's better to be ignored than have people notice you because you are obnoxious.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
ehhhhhhh i think all it really means is that nobody really, really hates you, since that's how this thread's leaning. i'm sure people like you. i'm sure i like you.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Were you in the compliments thread? I bet if your name came up, lots of people would recognize and like you. :D

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I couldn't post that day, but typically I'm never mentioned in the "what posters do you hate/like" threads.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Me too, but the way I reason it is that I'm either not prevalent enough nor have a consistency that I would be known for. Then again, while I would love to be mentioned to stoke my ego, I don't actually want to have a sycophant or hate train.

And even though I like briefing these threads to see if anyone noticed me, and then feel a bit disappointed later, I get more disappointed when an obvious friend mentions me. There's something insincere about it, and I can't even bring myself to circle jerk in these threads in the first place.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-13 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Ayrt

This is actually exactly how I feel. Exactly.

Re: What do you think of different f!s members?

(Anonymous) 2014-04-14 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I was actually surprised to be named in that thread when only like ten people were chosen. I think it's just the people that particular anon picked out.