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⌈ Secret Post #2677 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Scribbler]

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[bioshock infinite: burial at sea]

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[True Detective]

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[fire emblem/super smash bros]

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[World of Warcraft]

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12. [SPOILERS for Hannibal]

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13. [SPOILERS for Bioshock: Infinite]

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14. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]

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15. [WARNING for rape/abuse I'm assuming? Ramsay/Theon stuff]
http://i.imgur.com/Xo0GSkI.png

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16. [WARNING for mental illness/hospitals]

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17. [WARNING for depression]

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18. [WARNING for eating disorders]

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19. [WARNING for rape]

[Game of Thrones]

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What are some things friends/family members/significant others have done or made you do you can't believe you put up with?

(Can be as specific or vague as you'd like.)

When I was a teenager, my mom used to volunteer me to help the neighbors or family. Never asked. Just, "Oh, the Regos are going out tonight. I said you would watch Vanessa." When I used to protest she would, "Well, then you go tell them why you can't help them out. Why are you being so selfish." And in the end, I always gave in and did the work.

dude, I would have gone to them and been like "hey, my mom volunteered me for this but I have an obligation. If you need to contact me directly for next time, here's my cell #." well at least I think I would have done that, but my mom never did that to me. It sounds super obnoxious. :|

Wow, that was shitty of her, I'm sorry. My mom would pull that kind of thing too, not with babysitting duties but with other stuff-- make commitments or decisions for me without consulting me, than getting all offended when I didn't want to do it.

Sorry she put you through that OP. Parents are weird sometimes. Hopefully it was limited to that, and she isn't still making you take responsibility/volunteering you for something that clearly isn't your responsibility.

In high school, a friend of mine made me dump a guy for her. Another time (and another guy) I had to say she'd taken weird pills and was acting strange so she'd know how much he loved her. I have no idea why the hell I played along either time - I think the first time I figured he deserved better anyway, the second I thought he'd know we weren't serious, but mostly I still wanted a friend. :/

I had a few "friends" who figured out they could "borrow" money (and once, my library card, which she used to check out more books than I knew it was possible to borrow at one time) from me as often as they wanted because I would never say no and would always believe them when they said they forgot to bring the money to pay me back. I never thought they were taking advantage of me on purpose. They were too nice to do that!

I guess it's a good thing this was in elementary school, so it was just allowance money for candy and junk.

There are a couple that really bother me still. One was the guy who would follow me home repeatedly even though I told him I was not interested in hanging out. He would insist on 'escorting' me. Later he broke into my house because I 'told him he could come over', even though I'd said nothing of the sort. Very thankful he's no longer in my life.

The other one was just your standard faire creepy guy. Inappropriate touching, inappropriate jokes, lots of butthurt when I finally clued in that people don't treat their friends this way. He probably still doesn't get why I want nothing to do with him.

My SO had unprotected sex with another woman. He expects me to forget it ever happened and 'stop living in the past'. It hasn't even been six months since it happened.

No. No no no no. People who think they get to decide when the people they hurt should get over and move past what they did to them. No. He's already made plenty of shitty judgement calls, he doesn't get this one.

Apologies are not a magical reset button. Trust has to be earned all over again and it's going to be hard this time because now the victim is going to question their own judgement because they believed in you the first time AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED!

Ugh, I'm sorry you're dealing with this. :(

Here, have something lighthearted and funny:

Thank you for the penguins!

Unless he's gotten himself tested for STDs, shown you the results and apologized profusely AND demonstrated he's sorry and it won't happen again, I'd dump this fucker pronto. He's not interested in making this up to you, he wants you to forgive him without him going through the effort of not being a douchebag. You deserve better.

Embarrassingly I snooped at the woman's facebook and she doesn't seem to be the type to have an STD, but then again she mentions many times how intelligent, smart, and gifted she is and yet she had unprotected sex with a stranger....yeah. I know people make mistakes, but it would be stupid to assume he was the only person she jumped into the sack with unprotected/sober :/

NAYRT: Wait, you both didn't get tested? There's no thing as "not the type to have an std". You have unprotected sex, you're that type, period. I hope you're using condoms, anon :/

I don't have unprotected sex since I'm not ready to support a child. We haven't had sex since I found out, and for a few weeks before then. (Supposedly when it happened, should have been a red flag...) He refuses to get tested because he 'feels fine' and she was a 'nice girl and I was the only person she had sex with in a long time', as if that would mean she couldn't have had it for years....eh. It's only been a few months and it's still hard. I probably will end it eventually if he doesn't or starts showing signs...

Oh, I'm glad you're being careful with your health. And I know it's not my place to say so, but he sounds like an idiot who doesn't understand STDs and a jerk who doesn't care enough about you to keep you safe. Anyway, I hope you get to a better situation, anon *hugs*

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