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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-26 06:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #2885 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2885 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Avengers]


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[Terminator: Genisys]


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[Red Dwarf]


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[Gracepoint/Broadchurch]


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[Doctor Who]


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[All The President's Men]


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[The Great Mouse Detective]


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[Supernatural]


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[Transformers: Prime]












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(Anonymous) 2014-11-26 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you mean it was shitty since the reboot or shitty from all time? Because while I can see the former (though I don't agree), I'll sideeye you for the former.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-26 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so confused

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(Anonymous) 2014-11-26 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Come on, be honest... how good was " The Trial of a Time Lord"?
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[personal profile] cloud_riven 2014-11-27 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
But what about the latter?
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2014-11-26 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Your family is trying to relate to you! They think they've found something you both like and that makes them happy! How terrible for you.

Look, if I can come to terms with the fact that my family loves fucking Big Bang Theory, you can come to terms with this. Stop being a selfish pissant.

Your stories probably suck if your voice is in them.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-26 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
+1
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+2

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
What a bitch. No wonder Noodles dumped your fat overbearing ass.

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+3

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
It can be patronizing, too, and I can see why OP would find it very irritating because the family isn't paying attention to what OP really likes and why. I wonder if the family even ask OP what OP thinks of any of it, just assumes OP loves everything in a huge spectrum of interests.

If the family really wanted to relate, they would ask OP about OP's interests, what OP likes and what OP sees in their interests, not just assume something the family likes is tops on OP's list and expects OP to sit and waste time watching something for the sake of "family."

This family isn't relating, they are defining OP into a little box.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-26 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
lol, you better not be implying that the show was good during the RTD era. Farting aliens anyone?

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-11-26 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
You know what I'm reading here? "My friends and family tried to reach out to me with what they perceived to be a common interest, and I shot them down."

I doubt it was really about that specific show in the first place.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
This feel a little bit passive aggressive. The show has to suck before you can stop watching it? You can't tell them you just don't care for it? If they still liked it, would you still have to watch it? o_O

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
They are both bad, but Moffat is the lesser of two evils.

RTD
-Horribly forced 10/Rose Romance
-Absorbaloff
-Sex Slave Concrete
-Fear Her
-The Doctor moping over rose for a whole Series
-Human Daleks
-Retconning the Masters backstory down to "LOL DRUMS" and trying to turn him into a sympathetic character
-Jesus Doctor
-10th Doctor saying he "forgives" him and telling how "beautiful" he could be and offers him to travel in the tardis forever with him
-A MAN THAT NEVER WOULD
-Rose not developing at all as a character and still fanwing over the doctor even after years away in the alternate universe
-creating a sex clone of the doctor to pawn off to rose so they can have a happy ending and having them kiss
-The Master flying in the air and shooting lightning bolts out of his arms
-Skeleton Master
-IM HUNGRY
-Completely going against the mythology and making the doctor say that regeneration is like Death and having him go out like a bitch
-I don't want to go

Moffat
-River Song
-Lets Kill Hitler
-Love is a promise

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Can't wait for somebody to kill this sexist, racist, rapist asshole.

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[personal profile] a_potato 2014-11-27 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Huh? Why not just...be honest with them? It's a TV show. You were never under any obligation to watch it or pretend to like it.

Since they want to find common ground with you, why not suggest that you all try watching something that you do like? There's got to be something out there that you all can sincerely enjoy together.

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(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
I don't get moffat hate. His arcs are pretty dumb and have bad resolutions, but his baseline 'average' episodes are much better than their RTD counterparts.

Moffat era 'bad' is also a lot easier to swallow than RTD cringe in general.
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[personal profile] cloud_riven 2014-11-27 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
I wanna get this right. Your folk do the thing where they see a NERD thing and remember you're a giant fucking nerd, so they try to hang out with you based on misread interests, and end up legit enjoying it anyway. And you, like a typical awkward nerd, read too much into it and feel obligated.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
Hm, I was in the same boat until Capaldi converted me, s8 has actually been surprisingly good? I've seen some griping about the grimness but with Breaking Bad as my last major fandom it's been a surprisingly smooth transition in terms of quality acting and decent character development.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
Look OP, at least you know they have their hearts in the right place. They're trying to get involved in your field of interests and they may have misfired, but it's a lot more then other families do. It may be petty, but I remember when I had a Joker obsession a few years ago and would buy merchandise for myself, my family took the piss out of me for it. You're lucky, OP.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
Why not just be honest from the get go? After a couple of episodes just tell them it doesn't appeal to you. I'd think that'd save you more trouble in the long run.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 09:57 am (UTC)(link)
Moffat didn't make DW shitty.

Now get off your high horse and stop being so childish.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe the type of things that appeal to you doesn't appeal to them?
This happens a lot to me, I like things that the majority of people around me don't. This even applies for Doctor Who. I like the show as a whole (NuWho-wise), but I enjoy Moffat's era of the Doctors (Capaldi and Smith) more than RTD's, while plot-wise, I think they're both fine but I usually prefer Moffat's too. I agree that Moffat's women aren't better than RTD's, though.

I think there is a lot of contrast between RTD's and Moffat's era, so if you did give Moffat's era a go and didn't like it, then I see no point in you having to continue to watch a show for the sake of your family, tbh. I mean, I love my family, but why would I need to forcefully watch shows I don't even like for their sake, that's my time wasted.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-27 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
You've could avoided this crazy resentment if you actually told them that you'd thought it mediocre. I mean sure they mightn't have believed you initially, but you going 'hmm, nah' for a little while and leaving the room when it was on would have given them the hint.

And if they complained about your lack of interest, present them with 'THING YOU ACTUALLY DO LIKE' and let the pieces fall what they may.

Instead: you sulked. GENIUS.