[ SECRET POST #3097 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3097 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Why are guys at cons such fucking creepers?

I wasn't ever dressed terribly sexually, and yet creepy gross assholes spent the whole time ogling me.

[(Anonymous)]

"Why are guys at cons such fucking creepers?"

I think you've answered your own question.

[(Anonymous)]

I would have bolded at cons

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, most people at cons are socially maladjusted to the extreme. In a lot of cases, it's literally the only social function they ever attend, so you kind of have to expect bizarre/antisocial/creepy behavior. Try not to let it get to you too much.

[(Anonymous)]

This. About five years ago, I was at a con and a young girl literally ran up to me, shouted, "You're really hot," in my face, and sprinted away.

[tabaqui]

So? They need to learn to not act like ignorant creepers. Sorry, being 'socially maladjusted' isn't an excuse for staring, eye-fucking, groping, leering, or any other behavior that is offputting and creepy.

[(Anonymous)]

Did anyone actually touch you, or say anything to you? Was it limited to just looking at you?

[(Anonymous)]

Eye rape!

[(Anonymous)]

You know, any time a comment comes out smelling like they're on the side of defending the right to leer at women whenever they want, I'm not quite convinced they're on the side of justice.

[(Anonymous)]

Someone sounds a little full of themselves.

[(Anonymous)]

I dunno, guys at conventions are pretty lechery.

[(Anonymous)]

How is it full of yourself to be looked at?

[(Anonymous)]

So people looked at you??

[(Anonymous)]

Not OP

I don't know why everyone sounds so surprised by this. OP never said they thought it was harassment, only creepy. It's people's right to look at you if you're in a public area so long as they don't approach you or threaten you, but they totally can do that in a way that you perceive is creepy. It doesn't have to be that one side is wrong. /shrug

[(Anonymous)]

You've obviously never been creepily oggled

[(Anonymous)]

Very poor social skills and lack of self awareness, combined with almost no reinforcement from their friends that ogling women like you've never seen tits before isn't cool.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry this happened to you. And ignore everyone saying it's not a big deal. This is harassment, and conventions need to put a stop to it.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm curious as to how you're going to enforce people not looking at other people? When does a glance turn into a look turn into an ogle? Serious question.

I understand what OP is talking about re: ogling, but I am interested in some concrete suggestions on how you expect convention managers to put a stop to it.

[(Anonymous)]

this never happened to me at any con I was at. I'm not denying your assertion, I'm just surprised.

[dethtoll]

It's a convention. What did you expect?

Honestly the truest description of what cons are like comes from this guy. I don't even do shrooms and agree 100% with his observations.

[(Anonymous)]

Nerd boy culture can be quite sexist.

[herpymcderp]

Simple. You're at the Con so they think you might be on their level and into nerds.

It's just the way it works.

[(Anonymous)]

Because all guys are pigs, will never change, and deserve to die violently.

[(Anonymous)]

"wasn't ever dressed terribly sexually"
"creepy gross assholes"

I'd like to hear you elaborate.

[(Anonymous)]

All guys are creeps. That's why they all need to die. Slowly and painfully.