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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-02-03 05:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #394 ]


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Secrets Left to Post: 15 pages, 375 secrets from Secret Submission Post #057.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, [ 1 ] not!secrets, [ 1 ] not!fandom, [ 1 ] repeat, [ 1 2 ] too big, [ 1 ] personal attack, [ 1 ] we went through this yesterday.
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[identity profile] paperclipchains.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey moron, there were a million ways for loverboy to keep it from happening, too. Like he can't put on his own fucking condom? Come on.

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[identity profile] viserys.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not saying the guy isn't at fault, calm down for a second. Just saying that even if he's the horniest sex-fiend on the face of the planet, in the end, I think the girl usually has more control (or lack thereof) on the situation.

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[identity profile] paperclipchains.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Right. And I'm saying you're wrong like a wrongasaurus and should perhaps think critically about why you believe that.

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[identity profile] germania731.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
nicely handled.

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[identity profile] germania731.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
also, i agree. hey, we can be Wrongasauri together!
RAAAWWWR

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[identity profile] paperclipchains.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, you can.

Wrongsauri are pack animals.

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[identity profile] ronsard.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the girl usually has more control (or lack thereof) on the situation.

You didn't just say that.

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[identity profile] paperclipchains.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
It's wrong and there's an awful lot of literature out there that discusses why that particular myth has been perpetuated for so long.

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[identity profile] viserys.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
It is, I think, entirely a matter of opinion. Feel free to link me to some of said literature, though. I'm interested.

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[identity profile] ronsard.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
This, I suppose, is what I'll be telling the teenage victims of acquaintance rape we counsel at the Women's Center come Monday morning.

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[identity profile] moebot.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Why should she have more control?

I find the idea that men are horny, mindless, sub-human sex fiends who can't control their raging erections long enough to think the consequences of their sexual encounters through to the extent a woman can extremely insulting on behalf of men.

You are buying into really frustrating stereotypes that insult both sexes.

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[identity profile] viserys.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not really buying into anything, my opinions on this subject are entirely based on people I know or have known in real life. I can't even say I need to find a new social group, either, as there are several. I don't consider it insulted when, in my experience, it's the truth.

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[identity profile] moebot.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, uh, if every "truth" was based on personal experience and opinions, the world would be in a whole lot of trouble.

That line of reasoning is often used to excuse negative opinions about entire groups of people. It's a really slippery slope you have to be careful of, and if you're going to take that stance, I can't even bother trying to reason with you, because there is no way I can logically counter something like "I know a few people like this, so it must be true for everyone."

So good luck in trying to defend your position further with other people. Something tells me you're going to need it.

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[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe you could try, I dunno, actually doing some reading and seeing if there is any evidence to support your opinion -- or if, in fact, most of the evidence disproves it? Call me crazy, but while many of my opinions have a personal aspect to them, they're also based largely on evidence and logic.

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(Anonymous) 2008-02-04 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
:( Sexist cunts make me sad.

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[identity profile] bakkhos.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, finally someone who thinks the idea that men are animals is in fact demeaning to men! You wouldn't believe how few people agree with me on that. D:

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[identity profile] paperclipchains.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
Technically, we're all animals.

but I also agree.

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[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Just saying that even if he's the horniest sex-fiend on the face of the planet, in the end, I think the girl usually has more control (or lack thereof) on the situation.

...wait. What? Are you saying that, in general, women have more control than men and should therefore be the ones to control or stop any sexual activity?

What you're saying is sounding very reminiscent of the awful abstinence-only seminar -- given by a preacher, by the way -- that I had to sit through.

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[identity profile] viserys.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess I should sign up for the clergy then! Which is hilarious, since I'm an atheist. 8D

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[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2008-02-03 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
So I'm not mistaken in what you're saying?

Men and women have equal sex drives, although obviously men are made to feel more comfortable about being outspoken about it. Likewise, they both have equal control over their sex drives. And the idea that men have less "control" over their sex drives -- aside from being insulting to men as well -- is a very dangerous one, because it leads to the thought process that if a woman dresses a certain way or flirts in a certain way and she is raped, it's partially her fault, because the poor man just couldn't "control" himself with her dressed/acting like that.
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[identity profile] jewbrat.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 04:17 am (UTC)(link)
"I think the girl usually has more control"

LOL you're hitting a high scale on the wrong-o-meter there, buddy. :') yes the girl is usually the one saying no (gee, i wonder why? maybe it's because it's an invasion of OUR body.) but that doesn't mean she's more or less responsible for the actual act of sex. it takes 2, baby.

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[identity profile] madra-liath.livejournal.com 2008-02-04 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Just saying that even if he's the horniest sex-fiend on the face of the planet, in the end, I think the girl usually has more control (or lack thereof) on the situation.

I agree. Let's go back to blaming women for having kids out of wedlock while the fathers of said kids are conveniently never mentioned.

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[identity profile] celtic-thistle.livejournal.com 2008-02-10 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
What the fuck.