[ SECRET POST #3155 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3155 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Neckbeards, MRA, TERFs, SJW, bronies?

[(Anonymous)]

When I was about twelve years old, my father was friends with a guy who'd gone through a divorce and lost custody of his children. When we were over at his house, he mentioned to me a scientific development they were working on to synthesize sperm, and I joked, "Maybe we can get rid of men altogether!" He then pulled me into a separate room and treated me to an hour-long lecture about misandry, how awful and sexist women are, blah blah blah. Not a good impression, guys!

Re: Neckbeards, MRA, TERFs, SJW, bronies?

[(Anonymous)]

The beloved cutesy Australian cartoonist Michael Leunig whose cartoons appear (or appeared) in my city's major newspaper, once got published a cartoon of lesbian mothers saying "and then we used his skin as a lampshade". Which is a Nazi genocide reference. As a lesbian mother myself, I've heard this terrifying hateful shit from a number of men.

Re: Neckbeards, MRA, TERFs, SJW, bronies?

[(Anonymous)]

I was 12 years old and just making a little joke, not even about a specific man, but men in general - but by god, from the reaction, it was like I suggested women should kill him specifically.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry but...what did you expect honestly?

I mean saying all women are awful is not cool.

But joking about getting rid of an entire gender is...not really a good joke. If some guy joked about getting rid of all women or some group i'm a part of, I'd take it pretty damn personally too.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I agree. It's a shitty joke. But we tend to make shitty, non-socially aware jokes when we're twelve. The correct response is to explain to the child why it's wrong and answer any questions they might have, not give the kid an epic scolding intended to somehow counter misandry with misogyny.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Anon was TWELVE. When you're that young, you're not making those types of comments because you've given the subject a lot of thought, you're just cracking a joke and probably parroting what you've heard other adults say. The appropriate response to that is a gentle, brief explanation that this isn't a nice thing to say even as a joke, NOT an hour long lecture about misandry and how awful women are.

It's one thing to take a remark like that personally, but if you don't consider the context and realize that you're talking to an ignorant kid and not a raving man-hating feminazi, then that's on you, not the kid.