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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-29 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #3313 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3313 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Darren Criss]


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[Blind Spot]


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10. [SPOILERS for Undertale]





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12. [WARNING for incest, underage?]



(Free! Iwatobi Swim Club)


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13. [WARNING for rape]



[Jessica Jones, Star Wars, Faults, Dredd, Cucumber Quest]


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14. [WARNING for suicide, etc]





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15. [WARNING for incest, bestiality]



[how to train your dragon/race to the edge]

























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #473.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-01-30 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Tell me your non-fandom secrets, F!S!

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
I think refusing to vaccinate your children should be considered child abuse, specifically medical neglect. I don't necessarily think your kids should be taken from you, but I don't really know what I would recommend either, other than education?
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-01-30 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I think of abuse as different from neglect but otherwise yeah I agree. Unless your child *can't* be vaccinated (allergy to vaccine ingredients, chemotherapy/otherwise immunocompromised, etc.) they should be as routine medical care and not doing it should be considered failing to provide medical care.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
This is actually fandom related, but no where else to post it. I'm excited about Fuller House. And I rewatched Full House recently and enjoyed it. I'm an adult women who usually hates cheesy things. But I still can't get over my excitement.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
I'm excited about Fuller House too. I still like Full House and fall asleep listening to an episode nearly every night. I know it oozes cheese, but it's the ultimate comfort show for me.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
I don't trust myself as an educator because I self-harm, but it's happening anyways. On Monday.
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[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-01-30 01:46 am (UTC)(link)
You self-harm. You don't actively harm other people. You are not a danger to your students. I hope you're getting help for this, though, or at least confiding in someone you care about. I would hate to see you sabotage yourself.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-01-30 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
Well, as an educator, I'm guessing ou need to leave a lot of your personal life at home anyway? And on the bright side, you might know the signs if one of your kids is troubled? Good luck on Monday!

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
My boyfriend's hair is thinning, and judging by family history he will likely be bald within the next few years. I feel like an awful person because, while I will love him just as much bald as I do now, I desperately love his hair and do not want to see it go. That makes me feel shallow.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2016-01-30 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
And I'm honestly terrified that I will be in this situation one day. And I really hope that my love would be strong enough to overcome the fact that hair is a huge part of physical attraction for me, possibly even the number one thing that attracts me to people.

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-01-30 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I have the same problem and i feel you, anon. It's such pretty blonde hair, too :(

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-01-30 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I have the same problem and i feel you, anon. It's such pretty blonde hair, too :(

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
It could be worse.

I don't think you're shallow unless it becomes a dealbreaker.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
Make him use Rogaine? Out of love, you understand.

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I'm extremely scared of flying. I'll be going to Europe in a few months if nothing catastrophic happens and I'm super excited because I'll be visiting places I've only read about, but I feel a little ill every time I remember I'll have to go on a plane to get there. I flew from the US to Mexico once and I was a wreck nearly the whole time and that was just a three hour flight. I was calmer on the way back home, but only because I was sick and doped up on cough medicine. I know it's an irrational fear, but I'm worried I'll have to drug myself to get through the flight.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
I don't see what's wrong with drugging yourself in this circumstance.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes I sleep literally all day. I can sleep 18 hours at least and maybe only get up to eat or use the bathroom.

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I lie about going to school and where I live so I seem more normal to my coworkers.

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I lied about my background, and I really shouldn't be in this job.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
I got a new job but I haven't told anyone except my parents because I'm paranoid I'll get fired.

I really don't like telling people about job stuff because my industry is very up and down and it's pretty common to be let go (even if the company wanted you, it's basically a shit happens situation.) And while I know people understand this I still have this nagging thought of how badly things could go.

I hope the job goes well though, if it does I can save up some money.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
I get angrier and angrier about an old relationship.

It's weird. The anger isn't specifically AT him. I've realized that he's a fucking banal boring twit and I sincerely think I might forget his name in the next five years. I already had to correct myself from using his old online handle rather than his actual name when talking to somebody about something. He's not a real person to me anymore. I'm angry about what he did to me and the other women. I'm angry at him as a life event, I guess.

And the thing is, the more my life moves on and gets better--success, new relationship, etc--the worse the anger gets. Like the relationship: I'm now realizing what I WASN'T getting with the jerk. Do you have any idea how much more fulfilling sex is with a person who actually respects you? I didn't know there was a difference. I thought I was the problem. Do you have any idea how appalling it is to realize you would have professionally limited yourself for someone who never cared about you? I would have sacrificed it.

The thing is: I know this isn't healthy. But not being angry would be letting go of my self esteem. I have the right to be angry about someone wronging me. It sucks, basically.

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[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-01-30 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes I think I would be a happier person if I was capable of holding onto dislike for other people. I know it sounds paradoxical, but if I could consistently not like someone, it would be easier to convince myself that their opinion of me doesn't matter. As it stands, I don't like someone for half a day or so, then I start liking them again and feeling guilty that they don't like me.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes I wish I was just a housewife to a financially successful man.

I identify as a lesbian. (And I'm poor as shit, but that's almost an aside.)

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-30 08:19 am (UTC)(link)
I'm an adult who has been self harming for years and at this point I legitimately don't see a reason why I should stop cutting myself. I do see why I should stop burning myself, but not cutting.

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