[ SECRET POST #3329 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3329 ⌋

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Comments

[iceyred]

Honestly, it sounds like you're afraid of your sexuality and are acting out against it by telling yourself that people finding hot people hot is wrong. You might want to talk to somebody about that.

I might be wrong, but finding hot, scantily clad people to be sexy is not wrong.

[(Anonymous)]

When we live in a literal rape culture of women being constantly treat like sex objects, where there is not a woman in the western world who looks "hot" for any reason other than cultural brainwashing? Yeah, I think celebrating that widespread abuse is kinda fucked up.

That said, just like how those women have been brainwashed into embracing the empty beauty stereotype, OP has also bee brainwashed into worshiping it, so there are no violators in this scenario, only victims.

[(Anonymous)]

lol

r u srs

[iceyred]

You made me lol. Good job.

[(Anonymous)]

That's sick. There is something wrong with you.

[(Anonymous)]

This can be a very hot (pardon the pun) topic and I am sure that I am going to piss some people off. I am not sure why we are treating the view of another person as "hot" to only one side of the gender pool here. This is not a one side thing. I do agree that it is okay to be attracted to someone especially if they are dressing that way. When someone (either gender) is dressing attractively in scantly clothes, they do expect people to be looking at them. It is okay to look and respect, but unlike many men do, you should not objectify them. They are more than their looks and are people who should be treated like people. That being said, this is not only something that men do. Women objective and think men are hot as well. It is the level on which that thought is acted upon. Many men will go over board well beyond cat calling and acting like a buffoon over this attraction to the person and start thinking the other person is owned by them or believe they are owed something due to the way the other person is dressing to be attractive. Women also do look at men though sexual eyes and fantasy. If you don't believe me, just look at the covers of all those romance books that are targeted to women. Men like Fabio are on the covers of these books solely for the gaze and fantasy of women, just like other publications for men. And there is a lot of literature for women that objectify men as well. I am still baffled on how popular 50 shades of grey has gotten. But that is pretty much the same reason that Penthouse is popular. We all view others with a lens of sexual attraction at times. The problem comes when that becomes acted upon. Men tend to have more direct creepy behavior and that is where the problem comes in. Men sometimes treat women lesser because of this and many other reasons. Women do not have this overt creepy behavior most of the time. Unless it is at a strip joint but that is a different environment. Please stop thinking that objectification only comes from the male side of things. That is definitely not true. It is okay to look and compliment but do not stare and ogle. That is when things start becoming problematic. And like previously mentioned, don't think you are owed anything or have any control over this person. They are a person more than their looks and they are an individual with their own personality that needs to be respected. If you start objectifying the person and only can think about the sexuality perspective, than there starts to be a problem and you need to probably talk to someone with that. And definitely do not touch or otherwise assault them. If you do that you deserve to be in jail unless that is what the other person has explicitly stated that is what they want.

[(Anonymous)]

holy wall of text batman

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah
Sorry about that. Typed that on my phone and my enter apparently was not registered correctly.

[eyeshine72]

I second the idea to talk to somebody. It seems in your quest to speak out against the objectification that women face, you took in some toxic messages about overall human sexuality.

[(Anonymous)]

"human sexuality" is a pretty consistant weapon used against women, tho.

[(Anonymous)]

"human sexuality" is also something women themselves possess and like to express and like to see cause responses in others, brainiac.

[(Anonymous)]

and like to see cause responses in some others

Most likely the kind of guy who react like fanboys to a bit of exposed skin is the exact type of guy that we need less of in this world.

[(Anonymous)]

Right?! Everyone in this thread sounds like such 'nice guys'

'Oh, women want the attention!' Not from you little man, not from you

[(Anonymous)]

Quit replying to yourself you pathetic little worm

Go ahead. Keep strawmanning anyone who says sexuality isn't pure ebil as "nice guys".

[diet_poison]

because that's the only kind of response a woman can get in regards to her sexual appeal amirite

[eyeshine72]

It's also an integral part of human existence and acting like it is always and intrinsically harmful and morally abhorrent is not very healthy imo.

[(Anonymous)]

Not always, just usually. And most of that is when it is directed to women as a target of it.

[(Anonymous)]

I also think that usually is not the case. It is only when it is acted on in an inappropriate manner that it becomes a problem.
Some men just tend to be creepy about it and drives some of the behavior at times as a general stereotype.
And this is also not limited to men by the way, please stop acting like the coin is one sided. While one gender might be worse at it, it is a human problem. Not a male problem.
And people dress in certain ways so that other people will find them attractive. Take people preparing to go to the bar as an example. Both genders will dress up to be able to draw attraction from members of the other gender. And it can be viewed as a competition to win over other members of the same gender that you dress better than others to win on the attraction game. Again, the problem though, is how these people (again both men and women do this) react to the other person and their actions based upon it. It is okay to find someone attractive. It is not okay to only think or act upon them based on that sexual drive.

[(Anonymous)]

Man, you must SUCK at being a lesbian.