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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-21 03:55 pm

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blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I love this assumption that keeps coming up that feminists just ignore the extremists in our movement

I don't know about badass_tiger but most non-extremist feminists I've seen will either ignore bad behavior, or outright be an apologist for it and try to downplay it in some way ("it's punching up!" etc).

I don't like the "guilty by association" argument but they're not wrong that many feminists do not respond adequately to the extremist elements in the movement.
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[personal profile] nonnymouscawitz 2016-02-21 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
We must be hanging out in different circles then because every single time I see an extremist, I see other people piping up to say 'shut up, you're making the rest of us look bad.'

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
This has been my experience too. Hell, I often post comments (here and elsewhere) saying, basically, "I am a feminist and this is not my veiwpoint." I do it specifically because I believe it's important to make it clear that many (I'd say the vast majority of) feminist's aren't foaming-at-the-mouth radicals.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
What community can you name that is NOT at fault for ignoring or not responding adequately to their extremist elements?

I can't think of a single one. Aren't all of them equally guilty, therefore making it pointless to point it out?
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
What community can you name that is NOT at fault for ignoring or not responding adequately to their extremist elements?

There's not very many groups that have extremists doing things like bullying people into suicide attempts, so it's hard to think of many to compare it to. Want to name a few?
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
If personal experience counts as evidence, most feminist I've talked to criticize radfems too. Most of the feminists here are appalled and disgusted at TERFs and radfems, but you seem to be purposely ignoring that because it doesn't fit into your narrative.

Even with your examples of Christians and animal rights activists, what are they doing to stop their extremists? What can they do besides denounce them? Why don't you hold them at fault for not doing more to stop other Christians or PETA from hurting people? Why are feminists only at fault?
blitzwing: ([magi] aladdin)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Most of the feminists here are appalled and disgusted at TERFs and radfems, but you seem to be purposely ignoring that because it doesn't fit into your narrative.


Is there something about radfems that makes them inherently extremists? They're feminists that don't believe being trans is a real thing, correct? That's a doctrinal difference, it's not the same as being an extremist. You could, theoretically, be a casual, shallow radfem, couldn't you?

Being disgusted at others in your group for disagreeing with you on doctrine isn't the same as being appalled at extremist elements.

In fact, what you're really implying is a group divide--that they're not of the same group, or are at least in opposing sub-groups. Hating an opposing subgroup isn't the same as being willing to call out extremist elements in your own doctrinal group.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
No, a TERF is the one that thinks trans people are gender traitors or evil men trying to sneak into womanhood. A radfem is by definition a radical feminist aka extremist. Usually hates men and such. But they fall under the umbrella of feminism, like it or not (and most of us do not like it and are appalled that they continue to say they're feminists when they aren't for gender equality at all).
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
But they fall under the umbrella of feminism, like it or not (and most of us do not like it and are appalled that they continue to say they're feminists when they aren't for gender equality at all).

To me radfems/+TERFs and modern feminists have too big a doctrinal difference to be considered of the same group. Their beliefs are very divergent and based on very different theories. I don't even think of radfems when I think of feminism.

Add in that both are very willing to play No True Scotsman and insist that the other group doesn't qualify as feminist, ("one must be intersectional to be a feminist, and so if you're racist/sexist/transphobic/etc, you're not a feminist.") and it's easy to see why it doesn't count as an instance of calling out extremist elements in your group: if you don't believe a person is a member of your group/shares values with you, then how does it count as calling out someone within your group?

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-02-21 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
If you don't think TERFs or radfems are extremists what's your definition of extremism in the context of feminism? To me "extremism" implies taking something too far (to the extreme) and radfems are pretty much the definition of that (thinking that men are evil, men should be controlled/lashed back against, men don't deserve consideration because sexism exists, stuff like that).
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blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
If you don't think TERFs or radfems are extremists what's your definition of extremism in the context of feminism?

Radfems are basically biological existentialists, yes? That's not necessarily an extremist opinion. What is extreme is for them to advocate that male babies should be killed at birth, which some of them do.

The problem with the nonnies' mention of radfems being called out by intersectional feminists as an example of extremism being called out is that intersectional feminists call out *all* radfems because they believe they have a harmful/evil/misguided ideology. Not because "that's one of our people taking our beliefs too far.

An extremist intersectional feminist would be one with extremist views based on intersectional feminism's tenets.

(*I assume I'm using a correct and accurate term with "intersectional feminist" but if what I mean by that is unclear let me know.)



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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-02-21 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Radfems are basically biological existentialists, yes?

Er...? Radfems are the sort of feminists who believe either that women are superior to men or that men don't deserve equal status because of their collective crimes. If that's what you're going for then sure? I think it's definitely an extreme application of feminism. Society treats women as worth less than men. Feminists think of women as equal to men. Radfems elevate the status to above that of men, which is an extreme application of the goal of feminism.

An extremist intersectional feminist would be one with extremist views based on intersectional feminism's tenets.

Can you give examples of what beliefs you're talking about here that are different from those espoused by radfems?
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-22 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
"Gender essentialism is the idea that men and women have inherent, unique, and natural attributes that qualify them as their separate genders."

I say "sex essentialism" instead only because of radfems/TERFs views on gender and transgender people.

But basically, radfems/TERFs are gender/sex essentialists, and intersectional feminists are usually not. Gender essentialism itself isn't an "extreme application of feminism" because it's not a uniquely feminist viewpoint in the first place. Many religious fundamentalists are gender essentialists, for instance, and aren't feminist in the slightest.

Can you give examples of what beliefs you're talking about here that are different from those espoused by radfems?

Are you familiar with the concept of intersectional feminism?
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-02-22 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
So when you said "biological existentialism" what you meant was "gender essentialism". I really don't know if I was supposed to pick up on that since the former term is one I've actually never heard. I am familiar with the concept of gender essentialism and reject it because it's pretty contrary to feminism. The idea that people cannot be trans is only one component of gender essentialism and arguably the only one TERFs definitely espouse (some might buy into it more, but I think it varies from what I've seen), and also, I was talking about radfems in general, not TERFs specifically, but if you want to talk about TERFs we can do that. However, from the standpoint of talking about radfems in general as taking the tenets of feminism to the extreme, I still think that is true.

Are you familiar with the concept of intersectional feminism?

Yes...can you give examples, please?

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
TERFs are biological existentialists. A TERF is a subset of radfem.
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[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Shit, I meant "biological essentialist". That's what I get for using auto-correct.

Now I'm kind of curious if there are any actual biological existentialists...

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
What the fuck? It may be a doctrinal difference, but it's an extreme one. Therefore, TERFs are extremists. Fuck's wrong with you?

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Christian - KKK
Christian - Anti abortion terrorism
White people - white power groups, stormfront
Animal rights - PETA, ALF
Islam - ISIS
Feminists - TERFs & radfems
Men - MRA

I could go on? Do you want me to?
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-21 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure most Christians these days aren't apologists for the KKK. Most white people seem disgusted by neonazies and blatant white supremacists.

ALF rarely comes up but I've known lots of environmentalists that were willing to express their disgust for PETA and never made excuses for it.

Feminists - TERFs & radfems

Funny you mention TERFs & radfems. You're making it look like a doctrinal split once again--modern feminists VS radfems. That's not an indication that feminists are willing to call out extremist elements within their own group, that's evidence of two subgroups with opposing doctrinal beliefs being willing to label the other as evil and misguided.

Men - MRA

That one doesn't even make sense. That would be like you going "Women - Feminism". Very few men identify as MRAs. We're talking about people calling out extremist elements of groups they belong to.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
You're making it look like a doctrinal split once again--modern feminists VS radfems. That's not an indication that feminists are willing to call out extremist elements within their own group, that's evidence of two subgroups

You are literally making up your own interpretation of feminist reality that does not mesh with the understanding everyone else in this thread is operating on. Yet you seem to expect we're going to accept your interpretation over our own, and engage with you in a way that adheres to your own contrarian view of these issues.

But, like, no, we're not going to do that (at least I'm not). Because, from what I can see, most of us don't agree with several of the basic suppositions from which you are basing your arguments.
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-22 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
(at least I'm not

Of course you're not. You made a list and every single item was shown to be based on faulty reasoning. I'm not surprised you're creating an excuse so you can to bail out and avoid acknowledging you were wrong. Don't worry, I don't judge you for it nonny.
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(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
Lol, nice try. I'm a different anon from the one who made that list.

I agree with their examples, and I think your ability to think clearly and logically is extremely compromised by your huge bias in this area, but I'm not the one who tossed out those examples. Or have you not realized that almost everybody in this thread disagrees with you? It's not just one person ganging up on you blitz; your warped ideas about this subject really are just that unpopular.

Also, I just want to take a moment to appreciate how hard you're projecting here, accusing me of creating excuses to bail, when you are basically saying "YOUR ARGUMENT IS INVALID BECAUSE YOUR LIST IS WRONG AND YOU'RE BUTTHURT I PROVED IT!" when A) it's not my list, B) that was my first comment in this thread, and C) saying those items were based on faulty reasoning does not make it true. So remind me again...who's creating excuses to bail? I'd say "I don't judge you for it" blitzy, but I'm really not that disingenuous.

Bottom line: People in this thread have already contested your illogical viewpoints, multiple times, and I've been watching you do all kinds of amusing contortions in order to deny the validity of their arguments. So no, I don't think I'll repeat their well articulated arguments for your willfully deaf ears. I'm happy to simply point and laugh.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-21 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Would you just let up on the "feminism is evil" bit. It is really annoying and makes you look like a fucking loser moron.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-22 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2016-02-23 07:15 am (UTC)(link)
And an MRA too!