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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-14 07:00 pm

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blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-03-14 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
...Why are you still talking to this person? They sound unpleasant. They go on angry rants about other people's ships and believe in a strictly designated top and bottom in m/m relationships (which is almost always rooted in some creepy sexist or homophobic beliefs).

Edited 2016-03-14 23:14 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
and believe in a strictly designated top and bottom in m/m relationships (which is almost always rooted in some creepy sexist or homophobic beliefs)

Uh, no.
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-03-15 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
"Uh, no."

Got something to back up that assertion?
Edited 2016-03-15 00:14 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Nayrt
Maybe it's just their kink and only for certain characters, not real people. But I agree if they're attacking others for not following their topping order they're probably hella creepy.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
A brain? Seriously, I'm willing to bet that for 90% of people it's a visual thing. I just like to imagine the bigger guy getting nailed.
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-03-15 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously, I'm willing to bet that for 90% of people it's a visual thing. I just like to imagine the bigger guy getting nailed.

And do you go around telling people that "X must top!" and it's "disgusting" and "wrong" if they put Y on top?

Because that's what we're talking about here. Not people who quietly have a preference. Read the secret.
Edited 2016-03-15 03:28 (UTC)
philstar22: (Default)

[personal profile] philstar22 2016-03-14 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh. This person sounds annoying. I certainly have preferences with some pairings. And I personally wouldn't read a fic with Dean in a dominant role (bottom or top doesn't matter) because it doesn't fit how I see the character. But I'm not about to tell other people not to write what they want. You don't like something, don't read it. It doesn't make it wrong.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I can't see Dean really topping in the dominant sense, either. Giving it to PowerBottom!Sam? Sure. But Sam would definitely be running the fuck.

(Again, preferences. Someone wants to read about fragile little 6'4 Sammy Winchester being totally dommed by his older brother, rock on with your bad self, there's plenty of porn of that, too.)

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 07:05 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think most slashers are familiar with the concept of "power bottoms." There is this assumption (which is based on a a lot of really heteronormative crap) that the person with the power in the relationship is the one who is doing the penetrating. The notion of the more dominant partner asking/telling his partner to penetrate him is completely at odds with this narrative.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 02:38 pm (UTC)(link)
So basically people only kink on stuff because they're too stupid to know any better?

That's some condescending bullshit right there.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-14 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry you're stuck with such a friend tbh
doilycoffin: (Default)

[personal profile] doilycoffin 2016-03-14 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, there are some people in the spn fandom who are so strict about who tops that it gets ridiculous. I've seen a lot of comments on fics where people rant about being "blindsided" because the "wrong" character bottomed and then berate the author for not warning them. I've unfollowed bottom!sam and bottom!dean fanatics on tumblr because some of them have gotten weirdly rude about the whole thing

Personally, I'm a fan of switching when it comes to Wincest (I do lean a bit towards bottom!Sam though...I have a thing for the bigger/stronger character getting fucked. Not that Dean is small by any means)
nightscale: Starbolt (Jurassic park: Ellie Sattler)

[personal profile] nightscale 2016-03-15 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
The extreme outrage over top/bottom dynamics in fandom will forever baffle me, I've got preferences sure but it's not enough to make me pitch a hissy fit over having a fic with the dynamics shifted(and honestly I like some variation even when I do have preferences).

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
I don't have outrage, I just am sad when the top/bottom dynamic I prefer is not used as I can't really enjoy the sex scenes. No use in complaining though, it just sounds whiny.
nightscale: Starbolt (Jurassic park: Ellie Sattler)

[personal profile] nightscale 2016-03-15 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Oh I can understand being disappointed over it and wishing that your preference was the most common in fandom, it's the people who act like they're personally victimised by a fic not having the character they want topping that make me O_o.

But then I imagine they are just a loud(and confusing) minority and I'd bet that most people who have a strong preference over who tops/bottoms simply carry on as is and don't cause a fuss.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
I've never understood it, either, but then, I don't have any strong preferences and my weak preferences* can be sidestepped easily by a good author.

*which pretty much only come down to which character I think would be more experienced with or more amenable to being penetrated early in the relationship - established relationship fics can do whatever - not which I think would be hotter, because I've never shipped a m/m pairing where I saw any difference in hotness based on who tops vs who bottoms.
nightscale: Starbolt (Jurassic park: Ellie Sattler)

[personal profile] nightscale 2016-03-15 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the same really, like I do have a few m/m pairs where I find one topping a little hotter than the other(and I can't explain why either, it just is) but so long as I'm enjoying the fic I wont care if the roles are reversed.

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
ah yep. I agree with you.

I have strong preferences, but that is what they are: preferences! there is nothing wrong with it happening the either way, or switching, or whatever.

I mean, I pretty much only write bottom!dean, but hell, one of the things I love about fic is there is something for everyone!

(and I gotta say, that I have mainly seen the rants you are talking about, from bottom!sam fans. scary folk)

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
LOL @ Seme Hands

(Anonymous) 2016-03-15 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
I gotta wonder how many old skool Gundam Wing fans are in the Supernatural fandom now.
litalex: Jon Stewart in princess drag (PrettyInPink!JonStewart)

[personal profile] litalex 2016-03-15 05:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Dare I ask which is it that your friend is into?

Personally I like them to switch, but that's just me.