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Re: When Creators Do Bad Things
(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 12:06 am (UTC)(link)Like calling someone names, using slurs, behaving badly etc. really isn't that bad in my eyes, especially if they apologised for it. Abuse, violence or rape (if actually proven, not just rumoured) is much worse.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 12:21 am (UTC)(link)As far as I *know*, the biggest thing this person did was sign the petition, so I guess part of me is hoping they regret it and they realize that it was a mistake.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 12:19 am (UTC)(link)the thing with that is that practically everyone in Hollywood supported Polanski. And I'm not saying that justifies it. But I think, with people who are supporting Polanski, you're talking about people condoning and participating in unjust systems and industries and cultures. And I think that's a lot harder to judge and condemn and a lot more complicated and muddy.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 01:40 am (UTC)(link)I honestly don't know what to feel as a fan of his work, because I want to believe it was a genuine mistake (it *feels* out of character from everything else I've seen from him, because he seemed sensitive to those issues, and he never rubbed me as a bad guy in interviews) and he wouldn't do it now, or he regrets it. But at the same time I know that's rationalizing so I can remain a fan, and I haven't dug any deeper.
But as far as I *know*, he hasn't done anything else bad, so I'm leery but want to think that there's more to the story than "GDT is actually a horrible person who condones child rape".
But at the same time I know it's bad for me to think that, so.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 08:10 am (UTC)(link)The're the most jarring names, because otherwise IIRC they've been pretty good on social issues.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 05:56 am (UTC)(link)There was also a lot of noise being thrown up about how old did she look, did her mother push her at Polanski, and so on. I had found a transcript of her testimony online and it was pretty clear from the part I read, before I just had to stop, was that what happened wasn't consensual and she was drugged. Even if she had been an adult, it would have been wrong, so it really does come down to Polanski's actions and not quibbling about her age.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 06:28 am (UTC)(link)After I had looked into it, I was amazed and appalled, because that story just wasn't really talked about. I thought, at some point, a few years ago, that more people knew about it, but then Whoopi Goldberg said the most ridiculous thing - that it wasn't rape rape - and I realized that no, a lot of people don't know. It was rape in so many different ways - she was unable to consent because of her age, she was unable to consent because he'd plied her with drugs, and she said no. And it's not like he could point to laws in Poland or France, because an adult having sex with a 13-year-old is and was illegal in both (even if there was that gross French petition against the age of consent laws).
He was a 43-year-old man who drugged and raped a 13-year-old girl and I have to believe that some people didn't realize.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 06:36 am (UTC)(link)I just can't believe all those people who sighed the petition - including women who've confronted Weinstein and people with kids of their own - just thought child rape was okay. I don't understand why they did it for any other reason.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 06:56 am (UTC)(link)It's not that they thought that child rape was OK. It's that they didn't think about it. They didn't allow themselves to think about it at all, or they refused to really think about it and consider the details and convinced themselves that they could just assume what happened must not have been that bad. Because they didn't want to think about it, because they just wanted to convince themselves that it was probably fine, and if it wasn't going to be fine someone would have done something, and he was their friend or peer or coworker, so therefore it must be fine.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 07:38 am (UTC)(link)I don't know. There are people who don't want to believe that someone that they respect could have done anything quite so bad, so they listen when he says something like the charges were trumped up, or he was railroaded, or the facts were distorted, or whatever.
Why does anyone work with Mark Wahlberg (racially motivated physical assaults)? Do they believe that he's changed or reformed or paid for his crimes? I don't know. Why are people okay with Dr. Dre (assaults and battery)? With Christian Slater (assault and sexual assault)? With Jay-Z (stabbed a guy)?
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 08:59 am (UTC)(link)Yeah. And regarding the petition specifically, the wording in it presents his arrest as 'a case of morals'.
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(Anonymous) 2018-02-08 09:27 am (UTC)(link)The way I heard it, the girl was fourteen but was an active, working prostitute who looked much older and went to the party specifically for the purpose of having sex with Polanski. Polanski had sex with her, which was very wrong because her age made he unable to consent, but she was, by all appearances, a willing and active participant the whole time. It was only the law, years later, which decided to charge Polanski for statutory rape. Also, Polanski was super fucked up at the time because his wife and child had been killed, which didn't make what he did okay, but the fact that he may have been out of his mind with grief did factor into the situation in a general way.
Because this was the account of things that I'd heard, there was a while there where if someone had asked me to sign a petition I might have, depending on what exactly the petition was trying to accomplish. If it was a petition to absolve him of all guilt, I wouldn't have. But if it was a petition to place him on long-term probation, sentence him to ongoing psychiatric sessions, and award his victim some kind of settlement - but dismiss the possibility of incarceration - I probably would've.