[ SECRET POST #4220 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4220 ⌋

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Comments

[fscom]

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[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry, but I'm not going to mince words here - this is an absolutely ridiculous point of view, to say that he's "derailing his career". You're right that it's not your business. It's also just a horrible fucking way to view the world. What on earth does it matter that his GF is a "virtual nobody"? How on earth is this going to "derail his career"? Look at yourself, look at your choices.

[(Anonymous)]

Mid- to late-20s isn't THAT young to have a kid, men don't get their careers derailed by children that often, and if he's making money it will probably work out fine.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh no, a baby! Where's the meaning in that, compared to a Hollywood career!? /S

[(Anonymous)]

And with an older woman, no less.

Absolutely horrifying.

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, to be fair, a career CAN be more meaningful to someone than a child. Not everyone cares to have children. Not saying that's the case here since I don't know the guy though.

[morieris]

Damn I can guess who this is.

Also, eh. He's got plenty more work as a clown ahead of him!

[(Anonymous)]

I gotta know

[(Anonymous)]

Really? I didn't even know he was dating someone, much less that far along.

[(Anonymous)]

How on earth would this derail his career? Are you under the impression that young male stars are frequently blacklisted in Hollywood if they happen to knock up their non-celebrity partners? Because I'm pretty certain that does not happen.

[(Anonymous)]

Lmao, my fucking thoughts exactly! JFC if anything it'll help his career. Derail it???? Are you nuts, OP?

[(Anonymous)]

If a male star wants to be around for the pregnancy and babyhood, that's going to limit what kinds of projects they can take on, though. Becoming a parent tends to rearrange your life a LOT. It's no different just because someone's job is acting.

[(Anonymous)]

*gasp* Older than him?! And a nobody too?! *gasp*

Look, OP, if it was the woman who was the rising star, I could MAYBE see the worry that it could have an impact on her career. MAYBE. Regardless, this is a shitty attitude.

Congrats to the potential parents-to-be.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh please. He's a man, it isn't going to have any impact on his career at all unless he decides on his own to take time off to focus on his family.

[(Anonymous)]

Does he WANT kids?

I'd think that's the important question to ask here and nobody is asking it on either side

[(Anonymous)]

I think most people ITT are aware of the question but assume that if he's having a kid then the answer is probably yes

[(Anonymous)]

No, that's another road to creepy speculation about the lives of strangers. Unless it all comes out years from now in divorce court, just assume the adult knows what he is doing with his life and has made choices he wants to live with. We don't need to ask the question and he is not in need of rescue.

[(Anonymous)]

As someone in the biz I think you should sit the fuck down. Becoming a dad won’t derail his career, and you are awfully caught up in a fantasy if you think it would.

[(Anonymous)]

I have a feeling like somebody is going to say some truly wild shit to argue against this idea at some point today

Maybe not though I guess we'll see

[ninety6tears]

Mid to late twenties? And a guy? Yes, this is clearly genuine innocent concern that this will prematurely affect his career for even five minutes.

[(Anonymous)]

This feels like the kind of secret someone would make because they’re mad their actor crush is starting a family with someone who’s not them or possibly the person they ship the actor with.

[(Anonymous)]

Don't worry, if a baby is coming, he'll just hire a nanny like the rest of the fine Hollywood folks.

What???

[(Anonymous)]

If you mean his priorities might change, fair enough, they might. However, even with that, he's a grown adult and it's up to him to determine that. Also, if you think people should pick relationships based on what will help their career (based on the 'virtual nobody, that's also not up to you and kind of cynical. And, why on earth does it matter that she's older? Even if she is significantly older and/or has some sort of powerful position, that doesn't mean she is necessarily taking advantage of him. Are men the only ones allowed to be older in a m/f relationship?

[(Anonymous)]

he's male. it won't effect his career in the slightest. you are free to unclench.

[(Anonymous)]

I dead thought you were gonna write "this pregnancy will ruin my chances of getting with him!" which made me lol at your statical probability of actual getting with him.

All things asidr, there are plenty of actors with children who only had children while their star was rising. Look at Hilary Duff, Chris Pratt, I'm sure others. Also, you don't know how the couple plans on raising their child etc