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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-12-20 05:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #4369 ]


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[personal profile] hey_hey_hey 2018-12-20 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
You mean lesbian?

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a useful term, get over it.

nayrt

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
asking seriously: WHY. what part of "lesbian" and "gay" are loaded or not neutral?

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
It doesn't include bi girls is the reasoning.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Then, LGBT?

wlw sounds like something you would have seen on craigslist in the prostitutes section.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, if that's where you liked to spend your time, I guess you'd know?

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, this response is...bad. Stop drinking TERF koolaid 24/7 and admit bi, trans, queer and pan and ply exist already.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
That is why LGBT exists or queer. Ply? Like...3 ply toilet paper?

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
That is why LGBT exists or queer.

By this logic, we don't need a word for "trans" because they're included in LGBT

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Not really. Honestly, trans should not be apart of the LGBT phrase OR queer. Trans is not a sexuality. They should get rid of the T.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
To every anon in this thread: Please stop using the q-slur as an umbrella term. If someone is ignorant enough to use it as a term for their own identity, fair enough, it's their prerogative; but don't use it to describe the community as a whole, because it really is a slur and an awful one at that. Thank you.

Same anon

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Here, in case someone wants a well-thought out explanation for my statement above: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54pnDjkUuuU

(Anonymous) 2019-01-02 03:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Then gay is also a slur and shouldn't be used.
Queer studies exist. Queer has been a reclaimed umbrella term for years - decades.
It's offensive for you to call someone "ignorant" for using the term that they choose for themselves.
Fucking Tumblr and TERFS are the reason for this handwringing over a term that's been used to promote marginalised sexuality as "queer culture" and "queer communities". LGBTQ+ - q is queer as well as questioning.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so confused by this exchange, who is denying those people exist?

and "ply"???

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure they mean "poly"

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
turn left fandomsecrets nooooooo

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Queer ladies who aren't lesbian exist, stop being gross and exclusionary

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
I feel like tumblr is leaking, lol

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
How are they wrong tho

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
Good, it's about time us bisexuals can start telling people to stop erasing us outside our own queer echo chamber.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
No, seriously, the tumblr "THAT'S GROSS YOU SCUM" attitude is seriously more unhealthy, problematic, and obnoxious than someone assuming by default you're lesbian if you say you like women. It's textbook SJW.

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[personal profile] hey_hey_hey 2018-12-21 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
Ellen is a lesbian. Why is it "gross and exclusionary" to assume the expectation is for other lesbians to like her?

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
It would be fine if OP had said lesbians, but it's also fine that OP said wlw, and it's gross and exclusionary to imply that OP was wrong to do so

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Bitching about "wlw" as shorthand for "lesbian and bi women" is, unfortunately, frequently a "radfem" dogwhistle for attacking bi women.