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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-12-20 05:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #4369 ]


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[personal profile] hey_hey_hey 2018-12-20 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
You mean lesbian?

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a useful term, get over it.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, this response is...bad. Stop drinking TERF koolaid 24/7 and admit bi, trans, queer and pan and ply exist already.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
turn left fandomsecrets nooooooo

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Queer ladies who aren't lesbian exist, stop being gross and exclusionary

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I 100% get you, I don't think she's the bee's knees, but the context is important here. She was basically one of the very first completely open lesbians in show business when she came out (or, at least, the first that was given any real publicity), and she did a lot of road paving with her shows. As a somewhat-older lesbian, I may not adore her as a personality, but I'm grateful for the work she's put in.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, Ellen absolutely deserves her status as an LGBT icon. Without her, who knows how much longer the movement would've taken? Her coming out was pretty extraordinary, and the fact that so many people do love her - straight and gay alike - did a lot for LGBT people.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
100% agreed

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I read she doesn't adore the cutesy perky "Ellen" persona either. Like of course you find it affected, because it is.

"Ellen DeGeneres Is Not as Nice as You Think
Feeling boxed in by her reputation for kindness, the comic is weighing whether to leave daytime TV, as her wife wants, or to stay, as her brother urges."

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/12/arts/television/ellen-degeneres.html

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
We need more nice celebrities. Even it's fake nice.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't really care about her either way but her recent bullshit on International Men's Day really made me actively dislike her.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Rumors are she's difficult and watching her game show makes me think she's got a mean streak a mile wide. D:

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I hate the term wlw

woo el woo

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dubya el dubya

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I used to think it was some kind of inscrutable emoticon.
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[personal profile] ayebydan 2018-12-20 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I totally understand and respect what a trailblazer she was you can respect that without also adoring her and watching her show all the time ect. I've had a few people be scandalized that I don't like Ellen. Especially my straight friends. Women who love women don't all sit around in flannel watching Ellen on repeat. Though, if that is your thing have a badass time doing so. Sadly she's just become lumped in with the stereotype and it is creating resentment in some. I'm more irritated than some but other queer friends get right snooty about it all.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-20 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I think she's probably as likable and harmless as someone can get while being that embedded in hegemonic American monoculture

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MTE.
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[personal profile] nightscale 2018-12-20 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't super love her or dislike her honestly, I appreciate her impact in media for LGBT individuals, but I don't like her show enough to watch more than the occasional youtube video here and there.
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[personal profile] rosehiptea 2018-12-21 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
This. Though I'm not really into talk shows at all in the first place.

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[personal profile] bur 2018-12-21 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
On a tangentially related note, I always get confused when I pop into a conversation about mlm because I have to wait for context to figure out if they're talking about LGBT stuff or multi-level marketing. I mean, if it's at work I can ASSUME it's multi-level marketing, but I don't KNOW it's multi-level marketing.

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(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
No, you're right. Ellen can be annoying.

(Anonymous) 2018-12-21 06:58 am (UTC)(link)
I don't like her because she's now mostly a safe part of the tv establishment. She's an older white lady who has made being a visible lesbian on tv more socially acceptable and mundane. While I have some admiration for the fact that she's been something of a pioneer, both as a comedian and a tv host, it's her whiteness that has given her that opportunity. Never forget that.

Getting a queer person who isn't a lesbian or isn't what's considered part of a gender binary, and/or - heavens to betsy - all that plus brown skinned? On television? That'd be something. Ellen is white, safe and cute.

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Merry Christmas