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⌈ Secret Post #4704 ⌋

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[linked for porn/nudity (illustrated), Star Trek]

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05. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]

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06. [SPOILERS for Wayward Son]

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08. [WARNING for discussion of sexual abuse]

[Chris Hardwick/Chloe Dykstra]

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What are some of your favorite fic kinks? What are some of the specifics you like?

Femdom, focus one one partner's pleasure, praise kink (either sub or dom getting praise or in fics without BDSM, don't care, just like praise), bondage, D/s where the dom takes care of the sub, D/s where the sub has ideas and plans and is enthusiastic, D/s where the sub is not the character you'd expect and doesn't have to submit but chooses to because they want to, hair pulling, blow jobs, one partner is naked and the other isn't, semi-public sex where they risk being caught, sounding, pegging and magic cocks in femdom, anal sex in femslash and het in addition to slash, shower/bath sex, mutual masturbation, multiple orgasms in slash (and femslash and het too, but less common to have it written about men and that's where I particularly like it), noisy men, breast play and breast fucking in het and femslash, threesomes and moresomes, enthusiastic participation by everyone involved.

That's what I can think of right now. I've got a lot.

I want like... actual obedience in dom/sub stuff? It feels like no one manages to get it right at all, and I know a lot of that is inexperience so I can't exactly blame them, but it does make me ache for it a little bit. Nothing gets me hotter than a sub staying put without bondage, or holding their orgasm without any kind of chastity device or any other outside influence, sheerly through the power of their desire to obey. It's so damn good.

Yes! Subs not being forced to obey but willingly choosing to obey because they want to is really hot.

I don't have any. I prefer to read about sex that doesn't sound like people are acting out porn.

I'm curious (honestly! not trying to start anything, I'm just genuinely curious), what does that look like to you? Maybe I've just gotten lucky, but most of the sex I read is very like the sex I actually have, with a little soft-filter fantasy on it to tantalize.

ayrt

I guess it's more that the focus is on the emotional connection rather than what's happening physically. I don't like reading descriptions of bouncing breasts (every book written by a man ever) or a play by play of what goes where and dialogue about how big/hot/tight any of the bits are.

I'd rather hear about how it feels and how they feel about each other.

I prefer the sex to be the result of them having feelings rather than feelings being the result of having sex.

I don't know if I explain it well. I'm certainly not repulsed by sex and sometimes I'm even disappointed when I'm reading something and the author uses the 'fade to black' trick.

I just find kink detracts from what I like about sex.

NAYRT - This is interesting to me, because there are parts of this I totally agree with and parts I feel completely the opposite.

I prefer the sex to be the result of them having feelings rather than feelings being the result of having sex.

I ONE THOUSAND PERCENT agree with this. I've never been the least bit interested in fics where my OTP fucks before they really know each other. The relationship they build between them is why I want them to have sex. Without it, I'm bored. It's just two people fucking. So what?

a play by play of what goes where and dialogue about how big/hot/tight any of the bits are. I'd rather hear about how it feels and how they feel about each other.

This, OTOH, I feel the opposite way about. I mean, I DO like when you can see how much they love each other in the scene by how they are with each other. But for me, loving sex and horny, explicit, filthy sex are not antithetical in the least?

I want all the explicit descriptors. Tell me again about how big/hot/tight/throbbing/aching/leaking/etc the bits are.

I just find kink detracts from what I like about sex.

On the other other hand, this is something I can relate to. I like filthy smut but I've never been a big fan of formalized kink. Like, "A pulls B's hair and bounces B more forcefully on their cock"? HOT. "A and B do a scene where A calls B 'Sir' and does as B says"? I could not be less turned on.

I'm not arguing with you here; tastes are subjective and all valid. I just think it's interesting because you conflate some things I definitely don't conflate myself, which makes me feel strongly the same and strongly different at the same time.

DA

This is very well put, I feel the same way.

General things - bondage, spanking, power play, mutual masturbation, frottage are the big ones. Also it's not really a kink as such, but the concept of people getting really, really turned on somewhat unexpectedly, or almost accidentally, and deciding to just go with it - that's a really good setup for me. So like, the classic example is two characters get locked in an enclosed space together and end up getting really turned on by the proximity and fucking.

More specific things... obedience and borderline worship from the sub in a dom/sub situation. Like a sub actively asking for and seeking discipline, or wanting to serve the dom and being an eager slave, or instinctively obeying a dom's command because they want to. And praise from dom to sub. Brattiness can be OK too but more in moderation. Underwear as gags. Biting.

My favorite kinks tend to change a bit based on my OTP. Right now some of my favorite kinks are:

-Bottom who is preternaturally responsive and multi-orgasmic. Also very inexperienced. Comes at the drop of a hat, but is then ready to go again within seconds. (Benefits of the character being not-quite-human!)

-Bottom who is extremely enthusiastic and kind of filthy, but in a sweet and sort of innocent way? Like, they’re not trying to be filthy, they’re just so incredibly gone on their partner, and so extremely sensitive that they aren’t very in control of their responses, and those responses are kind of filthy.

-Bottom who has a major praise kink.

-Under-negotiated & informal D/s - no scenes or major negotiations, just one character who’s kind of subby, and the other who’s kind of Dommy, and both of them being EXTREMELY into it. Major bonus points if the sub doesn’t really know this about themselves and is caught off guard and confused by their own responses (and maybe tries to suppress them but can’t).

-Extremely generous, loving Doms who are more turned on by giving pleasure than they are by seeking their own pleasure. (I really ONLY like this kind of Dom, tbh.)

-Virginity. I feel a little bad about this one (the whole cultural concept of virginity is slut-shamey garbage, IMO). But “I’m the first to ever have you and the only one you want, how the fuck did I get this lucky?” is hot AF to me.

-Alpha/Omega, if it’s done just right - I.e. the alpha treats the omega as an equal, and the sex is as unrapey as possible. Also, I like it as filthy as possible, with lots of focus on the omega’s slick and the alpha’s knot and lots and lots of come.

yeah!!!!!!

*high fives you enthusiastically*

I like virginity too, but I like it when the dominant partner is the one who is a virgin or in the case of het if the male is the on who is the virgin. Going against expectations with the one you wouldn't expect having more experience and teaching the othr.

Ah yeah. I see it, but it's never really been for me. I'm very supportive of mixing it up in real life of course, but when it comes to smut, I only ever like the stereotypical dom/top/more experienced and sub/bottom/less experienced alignments.

A lot of fics can go way overboard for my tastes, though. If the Dom is too Dommy and, like, aggressive and shit, that squicks me right out. Or if the sub is a helpless little weeping darling with no power or will of their own, that's also very much a squick. I often like when the sub is actually the more dominant personality when they're out in the world.

Are you me because this is 100% my list for my OTP at the moment, omg. Like word for word. ♥ This is all SO GOOD.

Hahaha! That's amazing! And YES, GOOD KINK IS V GOOD. :)

You are welcome to tell me your OTP if you want to. I am curious. Sadly, the smaller the comm gets the more it becomes a thing where there's only one person here who ships something, so naming your OTP becomes somewhat the equivalent of de-anoning. :/

Ahaha, there's still enough people shipping it that I don't feel too conspicuous! It's Noctis/Prompto from FFXV, with Noct being the dom and Prompto being the sub. And like... your whole list applies to them so well, for about a million reasons that I'd feel bad talking your ear off about, LMAO. A big part of it is definitely how much Prompto drinks in praise from Noct, it's soooo nice.

Sadly, I don't know that ship (or the FF universe) at all. But if they fit all these kinks they sound pretty awesome! :)

I have a bit of a thing for an experienced partner gently guiding their inexperienced/virgin lover through sex. If it's awkward, but ends up working out in the end, is an added bonus.

Also, I'm not sure if this could be considered a "kink", but I love stories where a big, tough, strong character gets sick and/or injured, and the smaller, weaker character has to care for them.

God, the gentle deflowering is so hot. Always more recs please!

D/s and obedience - though, unlike other commenters (sorry), i'm not picky about how I get it. My love of hypnosis and mind control probably factors in that.

Not necessarily mutual masturbation, but one party watching the other masturbate - is that the same thing or is there a distinct name for that?

Deliberate prohibition of touch except the requested one (kissing etc), be that cuffs or dom-imposed.

Minor one: height differences.

Fuck yeah, height differences! This is one thing there just isn't enough of in slash pairings. (Though I guess fandom likes the emphasize whatever height difference there is, so sometimes it can end up feeling like a big height difference even when it's canonically only like four inches lol.)

Weirdly enough, my like of height differences usually manifests in making the more experienced man of the two the shorter one (in instances when there's no canonical heights, anyway). Even if only by a couple of inches. Is that weird?

I don't think that's weird! It can go either way for me. Though truth be told, I think all my slash pairings have had a discernible height difference in canon.

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