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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-12-31 05:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #5838 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5838 ⌋

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Re: Question

(Anonymous) 2023-01-01 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Mostly it's people who don't ship any of those things but don't bully those who do. If you're not a proshipper, you're pro-bullying.

And fuck you and your ilk for ruining the purpose of found family. It's not just a cute fanfic trope where everyone decides who in the friend group is the mommy and daddy and brother and sister and funny uncle. It's something real people who've lost their families do when they find others who they connect with. Adopting a sibling or parental bond isn't a part of that.

Re: Question

(Anonymous) 2023-01-01 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
+1000 that's exactly it.

Found family is often people who have lost or been rejected by bio-families (often FOR BEING QUEER) who, as adults, find a family in the deeper sense of a group of people who are committed to each other through thick and thin - take care of each other in illness, will look after each other in old age, etc. It does not have to reproduce heteronormative nuclear family dynamics. It does not necessarily exclude sexual or romantic feelings. (Married couples are "found family" for fuck's sake)

Re: Question

(Anonymous) 2023-01-01 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)
+2000

This, exactly.