[ SECRET POST #6297 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6297 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Goddamn, if that isn't the shit-filled cherry. I'm so sorry.

[(Anonymous)]

you mean giant corporations, oil companies and dark money? that is where the vast majority of the toxic fallout is coming from.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry, nonny. I can kind of relate. And have been weighing the decision to just start my damn social circle all over again, and be smarter about who I let into my life and let close. It'll be slow but I hope it's worth it.

Re: CW: Cancer and death

[philstar22]

Oh nonny, so, so sorry. You were there for him, and that's good. I'm sorry he suffered, and I'm sorry you are suffering. Cancer sucks. Losing a parent sucks. You aren't a failure, cancer is. He wasn't alone, and that's good. You are an amazing person. I hope you can take care of yourself and forgive yourself.

I totally get the blaming yourself, though. My dad ultimately died of COVID, and I'm the one who gave it to him. I still haven't totally forgiven myself even though I know it wasn't really my fault.

Please find someone you can talk to (having a therapist has helped me so much). Please take time for yourself. Please care for yourself. You matter too. Your needs matter. Grief is so difficult, and especially when guilt is thrown into the mix. I'm so sorry. And allow yourself the time you need. It took me a full year before I really felt functional again. And that's okay.

Re: CW: Cancer and death

[(Anonymous)]

i think he'd appreciate what you tried to do for him and i doubt he would have expected you to wave a magic wand and make everything better. i'm sorry for your loss. please go easy on yourself.

Re: Vent thread

[greghousesgf]

big hugs if you want them. losing a pet is losing a friend.

Re: Vent thread

[tabaqui]

Thank you.

Re: Vent thread

[tabaqui]

Thank you, I'll take it. My poor wee kitty, I was the only person he liked.

Re: CW: Cancer and death

[tabaqui]

His last conscious memory was that his child was there for him. You did what you could, and that was a very good thing.
Please don't think you failed him, because you didn't.
*hugs*

Re: CW: Cancer and death

[(Anonymous)]

You are not a failure! You were there for him and he is so lucky for that. It says a lot about him and about you <3 Cancer sucks, you don’t. And I’d bet that was what he was thinking, not that you were somehow failing him.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

My BIL is an asshole who is killing his mother with internet conspiracy theories and their implementation and I am so tired of fighting him. So is my partner. We’re both exhausted from the daily battles. I hate saying this, but I wish she would give up and pass on.

[(Anonymous)]

I would take yuppies and the materially-motivated 100 times over the current crop of culturally-conservative republicans.

I know what motivates greedy fuckers. Have no clue what's motivating these shitty people. (I mean, I do; there are culture wars so republicans can get elected now that we all know trickle down economics don't work.)

[(Anonymous)]

Ugh, what a shame. Was the character supposed to be bad at fashion?

This dress isn't terrible on its own. It could look nice on someone with dark skin.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh man, no modern struggles and raw emotion for me, either. I get enough of that in real life. :(

[(Anonymous)]

If it makes you feel better, Molly Ringwald hated it too.

Re: CW: Cancer and death

[(Anonymous)]

I am so sorry. I'm sure you know this already, but you are NOT a failure. Cancer fucking sucks, and caring for someone the way you describe is one of the hardest things to do for someone you love. Now on top of that you're taking one for the team by trying to make things better for your relatives. I wish this hadn't happened to you, I wish you didn't have to deal with any of that. I hope you find peace and time to do some self-care.

[(Anonymous)]

No, but being purposefully mean in a public space where the person you're being mean about could see it is... well, mean. And maybe it's just a little bit less mean to try and avoid that.

Like, why are you so opposed to the concept of showing just the tiniest hint of compassion to your fellow human beings?

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

I agree about the shoulders! Mustard yellow can look great on someone with olive or dark skin, but it needs to be more green or more orange to work on a fair-skinned person.

[(Anonymous)]

Discord happened.

[(Anonymous)]

Let's ignore the idea of a community for a moment. In a purely transactional sense, what benefit do you get from being mean about the author in public? She's not going to suddenly start writing what you prefer - more likely she's going to write less or at least not publish it where you can see it.

[(Anonymous)]

Are you ok?

[(Anonymous)]

Man, that thing ended up looking like a bad maternity dress.

[(Anonymous)]

... I actually like it. It's ridiculous, 80s and a bit childish. After looking at all this photos with Millie looking like woman in her 40s with injections I prefer this

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I think it would actually look nice on someone with an hourglass silhouette instead of being straight up-and-down.

[(Anonymous)]

This shape is difficult to miss indeed.