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(Ngl I'm still a bit "really Rose?!" but then again I don't believe in any kind of afterlife so it realistically doesn't actually bother me if that's how you want to interpret the ending.)
But yes, I never thought she did anything wrong. She was in an abusive situation (from her mother AND her intended spouse) and took the opportunity to be free. Good for her. Not her fault everything else happened and Jack sadly died.
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(Anonymous) 2024-08-06 12:00 pm (UTC)(link)Omg don't you understand?? If someone's an asshole, that means it's perfectly fine to use a loved one against them without your loved one's knowledge!! That's showing spirit! And when consequences fall on your unwitting loved one, well...that's just further proof of the asshole's assholishness. You definitely did not do anything wrong.
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(Anonymous) 2024-08-06 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)If Cal had reacted positively somehow, would you be praising Rose for her little prank?
There are consequences to every action (and even inaction), but we have no way of knowing what those consequences will be until they happen. You are putting so much responsibility on Rose's shoulders that it seems disingenuous.
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(Anonymous) 2024-08-06 11:56 am (UTC)(link)This feels perilously close to saying that if she hadn't riled him up, then he wouldn't have hurt her, after all she had to have known what a terrible temper he had and how he liked to be in control, so she should have tried to be as biddable as possible to avoid that.
No. The point is that you don't deliberately put someone else in the middle of a situation like that, especially without letting the person in on what you're doing. That's what the issue is.
While "this man is an abusive asshole" doesn't mean, "you deserve the consequences of pushing back against him," it also doesn't mean, "anything you do to push back against him is okay." And using someone, without their knowledge, to get back at an asshole is a pretty shitty thing to do.
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