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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-22 07:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #6439 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6439 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
It’s Sunday night for my husband and we haven’t spent any time together. The little bit I’ve been able to get his attention, he’s been short tempered. He’s going through some stuff so it’s totally understandable but still frustrating. And I feel like his terrible sleep schedule on his days off is a huge part of why we don’t get much time together. Idk. I just wanted to spend a couple hours playing a game or watching something. Doing anything that isn’t necessary to running the household or dealing with issues related to our aging parents.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
I feel you as an anon with a partner who also has a terrible sleep cycle (essentially if he has no work the next day he'll stay up until 4am drinking and smoking) so I often don't see him until the evening when it's too late to go out and he's too groggy to do anything fun.

I hope you get some time with him soon, nonny. Have you brought this up in conversation with him at all? Sometimes it's easy to get into ruts and habits and not see it until someone points it out.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Aw I’m sorry this is so relatable for you :(

I do bring it up if it goes on for a couple weeks. This week I didn’t say anything because on his Friday night he got some upsetting news. But it’s still frustrating as I was away last week and just haven’t had any quality time. I’m off again in a couple weeks so not many chances for quality time and it already feels like we’re running out of time and like if I blink it will be more than a month before we have a conversation that isn’t about the household or family.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, that seems so isolating and sad. Your person is right there, yet absent. I hope stuff evens out soon and you get to spend time together.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Right there but absent is exactly right! It will get better but not a great feeling at the moment. Thank you nonny <3