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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 02:53 am (UTC)(link)Conservatives have children, and try to teach them their values. Progressives think having children is bad and oppressive, and when they do have them, they try their best not to impose upon them. What's more, they increasingly view conservative people as permanently tainted, and shy away from the task of actual political persuasion.
This means that the progressive point of view will increasingly become somewhat niche, and it's already starting to happen.
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 03:03 am (UTC)(link)But realistically, I think neoliberalism with safety nets is what will prevail.
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1. Everything is cyclical. Eventually conservatism will become the mainstream again and rebelling against it will be cool again and then those rebels will grow up to be woke scolds, and use their influence to make everything lame and lefty.
2. Lefties don't have children, but they DO become teachers so they can poison and subvert and warp other peoples children.
Edit: You're neglecting the long view, But you're right in the short term conservatism is on the rise, but that's just the nature of the cycle. The wheel never stops turning, and everyone has to spend half the time on the wheel, and half their time under it.
Personally, I'm glad the wheel is turning away from lefty extremism, but I'm not looking forward to the inevitable righty extremism. For the moment, tho, I'm riding the wheel, and I'm learning to just enjoy my time on the top of it. Eat the wild strawberries, etc.
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 03:57 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
Anyway, I've BEEN a lefty. I was a default lefty for years, and I AM ashamed. I was a horrible person, I hated so passionately, so freely, and without rest. I was capable of knowing cruelty and inhumanity that literally sickens me to this day. And all with the clear conscience of someone who knew the people I hated deserved it because they were worse.
Could be I'm not a better person today, likey people don't change and I'm just the same shithead I was in my youth. I'm sure you KNOW I am. But I'll tell you this: I haven't felt real hatred at anyone in years. Nearly decades. I've been angry, I've been angry, sure, sometimes for a second, occasionally a couple of hours if its been particularly bad and personal. But I just dont have it in me to spend days hating people I dont know. I think because instead of being trapped in the sunk cost of needing to prove my hate was righteous and thus needing to force it to double down... Now I just let myself be with the calmness and security's of someone who knows they act in accordance with their conscience.
All of that to ask: Honestly, when was the last time you went a whole day without feeling hate? Righteous or not, fair or not, just a day without even a moments pure personal rage and that destructive vindictive urge and the consuming wish you could just physically or metaphysically unmake a person?
Lie to me if you want to save face, but think on it a little.
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 06:06 pm (UTC)(link)Hate isn't the problem. It's indifference.
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"You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can't control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone."
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"You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."
I CARE about things, but I don't need to be controlled by the things I care about. I still care about injustices, and I still prefer that they be remedied. But I understand a little better these days how injustices happen, and it's NEVER because I didn't hate someone enough.
But you're right, hate is not inherently a problem, it's appropriate to hate bad things. Just like it's appropriate to drink alcohol at a celebration. But have you ever looked around and noticed how many drunkards we have?
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 12:35 pm (UTC)(link)I saw the disgusting self-righteousness, selfishness, emotional immaturity, cruelty, control, superiority, rampant judgment and hypocrisy on full display, with expectations that I somehow be perfect* and not call out anyone on their bullshit. I said fuck that.
*keep in mind, this standard was dependent on conservatives' mood and I also had to be a mind reader
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 08:18 am (UTC)(link)That's not always true. Progressivism is just as much of a spectrum as conservatism. Just like how there are conservatives who are okay with LGBT or pro-choice for the same reason they're pro-gun and are childfree, there are progressives who support the family model and want to have children. My mother was very progressive and so are her siblings. I'm not a fan of painting either side with a broad brush like this. Even then, plenty of people who were raised conservative aren't anymore, and vice versa with people with liberal parents.
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You are wrong in so many ways
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)These are the following reasons some progressives might not be having children:
a) Obvious one: they're a heterosexual couple and infertile, and so therefore they would either be adopting (which can be difficult) or will decide it's okay to not start a family with children.
b) Financial situation. Not that having kids is "bad" or "oppressive" but they can't afford to have kids on their budget. Hits couples even harder in high cost of living areas. Maybe, ideally, they'll have 1 kid. This is becoming more common these days with wild inflation.
c) Gay people and other LGBT couples that cannot biologically have kids. Some trans people can't have kids with their partner, many gay couples don't have compatible anatomy for pregnancy. Either way, biologically having kids will be exceedingly difficult without medical intervention, and adopting kids will be exceedingly hard with conservative Christians' stranglehold on the adoption industry in America (for those that are Americans).
d) Choice to remain single and/or childless. More straight (and bisexual) women are deciding to forgo getting pregnant, whether that means getting tubes tied or deciding to not be with men. Some women are deciding to be single entirely for the rest of their lives. Which, considering the "your body, my choice," might be a matter of personal safety for some women in particular.
These are not really "it's bad and oppressive" to have a family. Many would be overjoyed to be able to have a family, or to feel safe while having a family. Furthermore, a lot of far right peers I'd known came from liberal or left-of-center backgrounds. Being a liberal, progressive, or leftist couple does not mean you will have kids with the same politics.
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-13 01:13 am (UTC)(link)There's absolutely zero good reasons for me to have kids and every reason NOT to. It has nothing to do with thinking it's "bad" or "oppressive" to have kids and everything to do with it not being a good idea for me OR for the potential kids. The only people who should be having kids are the ones who want them with 100% of their heart and soul, because all kids deserve parents who want them and will love them.
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(Anonymous) 2025-03-12 03:58 pm (UTC)(link)I'm now a filthy trans lefty gay lmao