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[ SECRET POST #7037 ]
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(Anonymous) 2026-04-12 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)I think it can be healthy/fun to dissect the things you love, even be critical of them (I'd certainly rather be able to acknowledge the faults in a thing I love than knee jerk insist they don't exist), I have LOTS of complaints about things I genuinely enjoy, but like... I *do* enjoy them and I'm not trying to shit on other enjoyers if I say 'man, this aspect could have been improved'. Meanwhile there is one guy who certainly... like, vocally proclaims himself a mega fan of my own main fandom, while taking the meanest and most uncharitable lens towards every little thing. (from as far as I can know just based on what he says publicly, he does also seem to be one of those people who rails against the idea of getting better, re: depression, and I'm not surprised those two views go hand in hand, it's all focusing on misery)
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(Anonymous) 2026-04-13 02:01 am (UTC)(link)I'm not made that way. If I get excited about media, I go in all heart-eyes like puppy love, brush aside what I don't like, and squee about my feels.
I stopped doing fandom.
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(Anonymous) 2026-04-13 09:42 am (UTC)(link)It's like being part of a family you can't turn your back on. Or working a job.
You're not happy with the circumstances, but there are factors keeping you around. So you spend your time bitching rather than leave.
With that in mind, I don't engage much with fandom complainers. I have enough family members and coworkers who think being in the same space means we're here to bitch and shit talk together.
I get needing to bitch and vent every now and again, but if the majority/all a fandomer does is bitch about what they hate in the fandom, I'll try to avoid that.
It can get so boring bitching and complaining.