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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-13 08:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1592 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1592 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[BSG]


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[Yu-Gi-Oh 5Ds]


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[Supernatural]


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[Glee]


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09. [repeat]


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[Once Upon A Time In Mexico]


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[Breakout Kings]


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[Supernatural]


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[Ano Hi Mita Hana no Namae o Bokutachi wa Mada Shiranai]


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[Invasion America]


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[Zork Nemesis]


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[Waiting for Godot and Good Omens]


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[Withnail & I]


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[Gorillaz]


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[The Young Riders]


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[Pride & Prejudice]


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[Shantae: Risky's Revenge]


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[bbc sherlock (lestrade)]








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24. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]



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25. [SPOILERS for Ghost Trick]



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26. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey]



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27. [SPOILERS for Death Note]



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28. [SPOILERS for the Tudors]



29. [SPOILERS for Transformers: Dark of the Moon]



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30. [SPOILERS for Portal 2]



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31. [SPOILERS for Portal 2]










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32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, abuse]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse/sexual assault]

[Glee]


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34. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]
[TRIGGER WARNING for parent death?]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, racism, abuse, and pedophilia]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-harm]



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38. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]

[Kuroshitsuji II]




Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #227.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] tawabids.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
Your Dad was a top-notch thinker, he was. Bigs hugs to you.

[identity profile] wldcatsprstr-14.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
But it's pretty annoying to have a kink for something you know is wrong IRL to the point that you already feel guilty about it, and then on top of that have someone call you disgusting and all sorts of other negative epithets.

I don't think the OP is saying that anyone has the right to flame you or make personal attacks on you because you have a kink. The OP is just saying that people also have the right to say they don't like a kink without getting flamed or accused of attacking someone. There are a lot of people who will go on tirades about how disgusting they think a person is for having a kink and those people are out of line. But simply expressing your dislike of a kink doesn't automatically mean you're making disparaging comments about a person and a lot of people take it that way.

I would also like to really point out that the "pedo" thing is particularly annoying when a) the "children" in question are actually teenagers, therefore making it not pedophilia and not even illegal in some places, b) you get off to the age difference because, to quote moot, "I wish to be the little girl" and c) one of the reasons it's a kink in the first place is because you experienced it IRL.

I didn't say anything about pedos...?

So I think it's actually insensitive on the part of some of these people to "call people out" for their socially unacceptable kinks when they were molested, statutory raped, or whatever as kids AND THAT'S WHY THEY HAVE THE KINK IN THE FIRST FUCKING PLACE

It looks like you missed my other comment about this. Again, it's not those people's voices the OP is defending. It's the voices of the people that have had those things happen to them and are definitely NOT into those kinks. When they say that they don't like X kink because X happened, people tend to say "Just don't read the fucking fic!" or "Pay attention to the fucking warning!" or "Some people like them and they had X happen to them too so don't go judging people." The person never even said they read the fic and they probably go to a lot of trouble not to get triggered. They also never said anything about judging anyone or thinking anyone is gross/disgusting/etc. But the fact is that they can't even say they don't like a kink without people assuming they go looking for the fic just to complain about it or that they're automatically saying that people who have those kinks are disgusting and shouldn't have them, when it's often nothing like that.

For instance, if a secret was "I don't know why people don't get off on X kink" or "I really like X kink" and someone commented saying that they don't like it for "such and such" reason (and they were really civil), people would automatically scream "THEN DON'T FUCKING READ IT!" even though the person never said anything about having read anything. If the person said "I personally think that X is gross and I can't get off on it," a ton of people would start flaming them about how they're judging people and "how dare you kink shame!" or "I think you're disgusting for calling people disgusting" when the person never said anything about people being disgusting.

If I say I don't like apples and I find them disgusting, I'm not labeling as "disgusting" every person for whom apples are a favorite fruit. But a lot of people can't differentiate between "general claim" and "personal attack" and they go off on people for no reason, telling them to STFU and all that nonsense when the person has just as much right to express their dislike as another person does to express how much that kink turns them on.

[identity profile] lady-wormtongue.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think I've seen a secret for this movie before! I love it and I love Sands. He really made the movie for me.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, it is.

[identity profile] xenafox.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
Interesting - I will give it a read.

[identity profile] authoressarktos.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
LIKE THIS?

Image

[identity profile] ladyyuna07.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay, Anon. When I was looking for the songs from Macross Frontier, most of the music reviews I found said that her songs from MF were the only good things they'd ever heard from her. (I don't see how, but then again I haven't found much of her music myself)

[identity profile] lulzatyou.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Never say never. (http://www.cracked.com/article_15643_5-scientific-reasons-zombie-apocalypse-could-actually-happen.html)

Yeah, it's a humor site, but that article is unnerving.

[identity profile] anivad.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
O_O

[identity profile] shampayn.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
lol not sorry

[identity profile] to-question.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
In my brain, Ike and Buck were deeply, sweetly in love. Jimmy and Kid had epic hate sex. Cody manslutted around. I came up with this when I was about...eight and I saw the series in syndication.

I kind of agree with you. I never found fic I was interested in reading.

Re: Does the fic attack you and forces you to read it?

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
+1

[identity profile] mfirefly10.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, now I'm a bit disappointed because I finally thought I knew who'd made a secret...

Aw, well...KARA/SAM is on a secret and it's NOT BASHING THEM!!!

Re: ...but that wasn't the assignment.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
She argued to Will it came from childhood trauma, but when he pressed her she described traits of herself from before the event that were signs of OCD. Saying that she was very anxious as a small child and a very fussy baby. Not that that's the same as OCD, but high anxiety in children can develope into OCD in adults. So, theoretically, she may have been "born that way," and deteriorated into what we see today over time.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
UH OH

SHIPPING WAR

[identity profile] lulzatyou.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
...So when do we start calling it That-Comm-Which-Must-Not-Be-Named? Or Lord Voldecomm? Or You-Know-What (that...that sounded terrible)?

[identity profile] diorama23.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, but no (http://www.cracked.com/article_18683_7-scientific-reasons-zombie-outbreak-would-fail-quickly.html).

[identity profile] to-question.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Watch him in Maurice when he was all young and new. He's an extremely attractive man. He's old enough to be my father too, but I don't feel bad about lusting after him. If anything, he's gotten better with age.

[identity profile] ceruleansan.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
THIS.

I'm still waiting for the backlash from the invalidated people.

Re: VIEW ME

[identity profile] master-kogane.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Image (http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=2135) | Image (http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=2464) | Image (http://vdexproject.net/user.php?user=2715)

[identity profile] ceruleansan.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
iltc. <3

just thought you should know.

[identity profile] wldcatsprstr-14.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
"Fear of a name only increases fear of the thing itself."

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
It was also posted at seibertron.com but then removed. There was a follow-up discussion on the seibertron boards, with a listing of all the known plot spoilers: http://www.seibertron.com/energonpub/thoughts-on-the-story-now-we-have-all-the-huge-spoilers-t76157.php

[identity profile] lulzatyou.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
Touche. I totally forgot about that one.

So maybe it would happen. But it would just result in a decade-long cleanup job getting all the stinking corpses out of the street? Kinda gross, but yeah, not enough to kill yourself over.

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