[ SECRET POST #166 ]

[shahni.livejournal.com]

⌈ Secret Post #166 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

- 16.! Your image was broken~ so I replaced it. Sorry. ;;

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 51 secrets from Secret Submission Post #024.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, 0 not!secrets, 0 not!fandom.
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Comments

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

Um no. I do not mind if people dislike characters. There are characters I dislike.

However there is a big difference between I DISLIKE A CHARACTER and that character needs to get over themselves.

The only thing I honestly laughed at you about was your comment that if your parents hated you you'd flip them off. Though I do feel very sorry for you if you've grown up in environment to where you'd deal with something so painful like that in that manner.

I have nothing against you personally, no.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Well... if I'm allowed to have a personal opinion about whether I like a character or not... I'm allowed to have a personal opinion about whether -I think-, based on -my- scale, that a certain character is weak/needs to get over themselves, right? You can disagree. You just can't tell me that I CANT DO SO.

*dies* Re: the parent thing, for me, personally, it wouldn't really even be painful or worth angsting over. If they hate me, ok. Life goes on. See where the totally different scale comes in?

[grayout.livejournal.com]

:/ Actually I probably wouldn't even flip them off, I'm not mean enough. I'd probably just be like "well ok."

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry if your PARENTS said they HATED you and you suffered no emotional fall-out....

[grayout.livejournal.com]

I've never been good enough for them anyway. I mean come on, after a while you get used to it and stop caring! *dies* It's not that unnatural.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

If that's true then I feel horrible for you. If you've grown up in an environment like that the your detachment is horrible.

How about, say a dear friend of yours suddenly starts hating you? Wouldn't you feel horrible?

For my case, someone I love hating me would be terrible because I derive so much from my loved ones. To no longer have that is... It's like losing part of myself.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Uhhh well if a dear friend started hating me for no reason I'd be like "well uhhh ok, can I do something to make you not hate me? No? I guess you hate me then." I care for my friends, care deeply, sure. I LIKE my parents. They're cool people. But if people decide to hate me then well uh. I guess they hate me. I mean wtf am I supposed to do, is angsting about it going to help me?

*dies* Sorry, you just kinda have to understand that you're talking to like 75% robot here.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

It's not about what you do, but how you feel. It's not 'angsting' to feel bad that you've lost something.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Well okay, why feel bad? What good does that do me? >>" Same reasoning applies.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

You can't change how you feel.

And since I think friends and family outweigh everything...

[grayout.livejournal.com]

*dies* Can't change how I feel, if it's "Well that sucks, friend X hates me. Oh well :/" and that's the extent of it... well. That's just it I guess. I'd give my life for a bunch of my friends but I don't think I'd feel all that sad about any of them leaving. But yeah, I'm just weird like that. *dies

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

I think it's sad that you can't form a relationship so deep that it would hurt you to lose. :(

[grayout.livejournal.com]

I don't! :)

[mercale.livejournal.com]

He's a robot, and we love him for it.

[shahni.livejournal.com]

Uh.. *dies* People just have different ways of dealing with the things life throws at them? No need to sound so holier-than-thou about it.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

Sure, you're allowed to have that opinion. I'm allowed to think it's stupid and say so!

*dies* Re: the parent thing, for me, personally, it wouldn't really even be painful or worth angsting over. If they hate me, ok. Life goes on. See where the totally different scale comes in?
... that's all I can say. dotdotdot.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Dot dot dot right back at you. :)

What, are you saying you'd RATHER I feel pain and angst and woe about it? 'Cause that's even weirder to WANT to feel that.

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

No.

But I love my parents. And I can think of few things more horrible to face than someone you love and someone who loved you hating you.

That's just. Horrible.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

I'd be sadder if my dog died. ):

People are different?

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

But that is an extreme case. I don't deny that losing one's dog is sad. But you're parents. Your first bond....

[grayout.livejournal.com]

*dies* Different people, different lives. I'm kind of a robot, I don't really have much in the way of emotion to begin with, and I've never been really close with them. Maybe if I had been, it'd be different, but it's not.

OH YEAH AND re: dog > parents AUUUUGH IM NOT A FURRY OR ANYTHING ahegkjaehtgkjahet

I know some people whose parents DO hate them and like, tell them that they're mistakes and worthless all the time, and surprisingly enough a lot of them are like "... yeah whatever."

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

I know some people whose parents DO hate them and like, tell them that they're mistakes and worthless all the time, and surprisingly enough a lot of them are like "... yeah whatever."
In that case, then it's abuse and the child is using a defense mechanism. It's not healthy or normal by any means to hate your child.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Defense mechanisms that prevent angst and woe and feeling sorry for yourself and a whole bunch of negative emotions, I'm all for it if they can keep it up!

But seriously, your parents have never been all, you're worthless/never good enough/etc? Out of curiosity, are you asian? 'Cause if you are, you got LUCKY with parents. *dies*

[a-white-rain.livejournal.com]

Only it's not a good thing. Often times it stops you from forming worthwhile relationships because your bond with your parents so so profoundly important in all your relationships.

But seriously, your parents have never been all, you're worthless/never good enough/etc?
Never.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

*DIES* Y'know what's weird? I can't tell if you're the minority or I am.