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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-18 04:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #1720 ]

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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 08:13 pm (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Pedophile.

[identity profile] yuppu.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Uhm, no. Actually, I think you got the thing completely reversed. How you managed to, it's completely unexplicable.

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[identity profile] goobbledigook.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Reverse pedophile?

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Got bored with Homestuck secrets?

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(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
well aren't you special honey

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I think those shows turned me into a lesbian, actually.

tho Bruce Young is still a stone cold fox despite having a dick, ngl.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a lesbian, but I do wonder if all the shows I grew up on about people in their 30s and 40s (including Sentinel and SG-1 - SGA started when I was 23) contributed to the fact that my preferences seems to be for women who are about 15-20 years older than I am.

My ridiculously massive crushes on Amanda Tapping and Alex Kingston, let me show you them.

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ext_81845: penelope, my art/character (bummed)

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
The problem with getting into a relationship with an older man is that they continue to age. So you're stuck with an old man in the end.

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[identity profile] fulgaraverde.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I think I suffer from a bit of this. And I'm fairly certain it's because of TV/movies too, anon. Most of the people I have crushes (fannishly or otherwise) on are anywhere from their late 20s to their early 40s. Nearly all of them are at least ten years older than I am. Oh well.

[identity profile] falconwhitaker.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Ha ha ha, me too, anon, me too. Most of the people I'm attracted to are like twice my age, for serious. I'm twenty, and yet almost all the people I fancy are at least thirty and most of them are in their forties.

But cheer up, anon! Age is just a number! You go for whomsoever you feel like, I say :D

[identity profile] velvet-mace.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, people might raise an eyebrow, but I'm sure if you looked you could find someone who is not a creep who is older than you and attracted to you. Or you could go for a guy who is prematurely balding. They are out there, too, and would probably appreciate someone like you finding them sexy.

Keep your eyes open, be out there and available, let sparks fly when they happen. You are an adult now, you get to pick, screw the haters.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, whatever floats you boat. But it is limiting yourself a bit...

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[identity profile] fickletastictot.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
This is me half the time when I watch a movie/show. Meep.

[identity profile] mjnuts.livejournal.com 2011-09-18 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
If it makes you feel better in any way, I know a girl who started dating her Sociology teacher in high school when she was 17 and he was... 49. They're married now. That's 32 years of difference.

I also know a girl who's 20 dating a 40 year-old guy and another girl who is 15 years younger than her boyfriend. It's not that uncommon. We don't really choose who we are attracted to and we definitely don't choose who we fall in love with.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL, are you me, OP? My first celeb crush was on a guy 33 years older than me, and now I'm 22 and dating a 47 year old man. I feel like... I can smile, feel good about myself and laugh again. He's intelligent, handsome, and has an incredibly quick wit. There are downsides, of course, but I've tried to date men my own age, but those relationships ended very badly.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-18 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Since a fair number of 35 to 40-year-old men would be overjoyed to date an 18 year old, you're in luck!

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(Anonymous) 2011-09-19 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Well, thanks to society young women + old men are not much of a rarity. If you're a guy I guess the age gap would be the least thing society would condemn you for (sadly). But try young man + old woman. People will find you gross and always assume you couldn't score with younger, "pretty girls".

Yes, my bitterness shows. My girlfriend is 17 years older than me.

[identity profile] bip-bebop.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
I feel you OP, but in the reverse. I'm only attracted to younger guys, and I'm pretty sure it's partially due to the things I watched and read growing up. I've tried finding older guys attractive, but I just can't. It sucks having such a specific, age-related aesthetic/attraction; too many people think you're being stubborn and just don't want to get over it. It'd be nice for people to not see me as a cougar-in-training or something like I've heard and understand that it's more or less fighting a battle against your own nature. But you never know who you might meet who is in a complementary mindset! Keep your options and mind open and see what happens. I wish you luck ♥

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[identity profile] etazere.livejournal.com - 2011-09-19 03:36 (UTC) - Expand
ext_19953: (i've frequently not been on boats)

[identity profile] mutantjules.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
hee, it's all good. I have a huge boner for older guys too (the current dude I'm a-lusting over is my age and HONESTLY IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD)

[identity profile] robintheshrew.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
o.o Can we please be best friends XD

[identity profile] mimine.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 08:53 am (UTC)(link)
This is kinda weird to me. I saw the Sentinel in my early teens and I thought Jim was so old! I didn't like Blair either, even though he was closer in age, I just thought he looked weird. I rewatched it at 30 and I wanted them both.

I can't really say about SGA, I watched it at my late twenties and thirties so all my crushes were more or less appropriate.

In short, I think that it's not The Sentinel that made you a pervy older men fancier, you just liked Jim because you like older men in general.

[identity profile] cowgirlmaxwell.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 11:38 am (UTC)(link)
yeah at times I often feel really guilty/bad about myself for liking older men...not a wise option for long term relationships. sigh.

[identity profile] unifilar.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
At first I didn't relate to this secret, but then I remembered that I have the BIGGEST crush on Peter Facinelli (Carlisle from the Twilight movies) and now I get it. Don't feel ashamed, OP. Soooo many people have different standards for who they want to fall in love with or who they feel attracted to. I have like, at least 30 weird standards, so no worries. Fall in love with who you like. ^^

[identity profile] mskye.livejournal.com 2011-09-19 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
You like what you like, man. I'm getting married to a man 33 years my senior. I think he's sexy as hell. Yes, I know that he'll probably die before me, but that's not guaranteed. The way I see it is this: I'd rather marry an old man that I love than grow old with a man that I hate (or only sorta like).

Anyway, the point is that there's nothing wrong with liking older men. Just know that all the rules to having a good relationship still apply. You gotta have intellectual, spiritual, emotional, and sexual compatibility.