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⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]

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[Suits]

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[A Song of Ice and Fire]

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]

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[Sherlock BBC]

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[Homestuck]

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[Stargate Atlantis]

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[Cyborg 009]

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[The Amazing Spiderman]

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[Stargate Universe]

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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]

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[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]

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[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]

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[Codex Alera]

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[Wishbone]

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[K-ON!]

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[Magical Diary]

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This is a pretty dumb question, but I have to know... if you're a lady, and you're receiving some sort of sexual what-have-you where the point is your orgasm, how does your partner know when to stop? Do you have to say something (this seems a little awkward)? Or will he/she just know from your body...?

You mean after your orgasm? If you're emotive enough, they should know because of whatever noise and movements you might make, and because most people tense up and then go limp for a while after orgasming. If you have super-quiet subtle orgasms, though, you can just say "okay, okay, that was amazing, I'm done" if s/he's, like, eating you out or fingering you or something (I assume that's what you mean).

If you're talking about having sex with someone and you finish before him/her, I guess that could be a little awkward if you get really painfully sensitive afterwards and can't just lie back and let them keep going until they've finished too, but again you can just say "ow, stop, it hurts" or whatever and quickly offer to finish them off instead after you guys pull apart, so there's no awkward silence where they're left hanging.

If it's oral sex, I touch his head to let him know to stop. I could never figure out if this one guy was just really into it and didn't notice, or what, but touching his head worked. If you're already touching it, maybe tapping or pulling (gently) upwards would work. With intercourse, most guys I've been with could tell. If he's using his hand to stimulate you, you can just nudge it away and he should get the hint. Alternately, announcing loudly that you have orgasmed and his task is now complete ought to be amusing enough to stave off any embarrassment.

My SO says he knows. There's clenching and extra wetness. I don't have to say anything usually. Only to tell him it's okay for him to come. Orgasm denial FTW.

I tell my partner, "That'll do, pig."

LMAO!

Kinky.

Relevant: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vase_de_Noces

...I didn't need to know that

In my case the orgasms I have with partners are more powerful than the ones I have alone, and in any case it's nice to overreact a little, tell them it was good, thank them etc. It's not at all awkward. But a lot of the time they'll know it from your body or voice. Also, I get really sensitive after I come so I have to move my partner away from me for a bit.

If it's during sex, my guy can sometimes feel it, though me flopping on him usually is tell-tale.

If he's giving oral or just doing so from fingers/vibrator alone, I do have to tell him after a few moments because I get too stimulated following an orgasm and it can hurt if he goes a little too long.

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