[ SECRET POST #2413 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2413 ⌋

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Comments

[seventh_seal]

You know, I think that if you look back at a failed relationship (or a relationship that was terminated), you can pinpoint a moment when you knew, deep down, that it just wouldn't work anymore and even though you may have ploughed on, it just wasn't the same as before. Sometimes that moment might be something relatively shallow like yours and I don't see much wrong with that.

[hiyami]

I think the deal breaker isn't that the guy can't appreciate geek sexy in science officer costume. It's the fact that this girl went all the way to dress herself in something she considered sexy just for him, and he still brushes it off.

That's either a manipulative douchebag applying those idiots "rules" from the dating guide, or just an insensitive douchebag, period.

Either way, it's safe to say she's better off without him.

[seventh_seal]

Well, yeah, I still consider the guy not appreciating her effort a pretty shallow reason - especially in a long-term relationship there are bound to appear minor incidents like this and it's a bit unfair to write someone off just because he behaves like a jerk once. unless he does something truly unforgivable of course.

OTOH I stand by that dealbreaking theory and good for the OP to move on if that's what she wanted.

[(Anonymous)]

Yep, this. The geeky cosplay aspect of the photo is neither here nor there. The point is that when your girlfriend makes the effort to send you a sexy photo in response to your request, the only decent boyfriend response is some variation on thank you/I love you/OMG YOU'RE SO HOT, etc. etc.

What the boyfriend said indicates that not only is he an insensitive dick, he's an ungrateful one, too. OP made the right decision in jettisoning that asshat.

[(Anonymous)]

But also, not appreciating someone dressing up in a sexy Star Trek uniform is a deal breaker.

There's a million ways in which this guy is not worth going out with, is what I'm saying here.

[anonymouslyyours]

As much as I'd like to say that kind of introspection went on it really was just "What do you mean a starfleet minidress isn't sexy?!? Who the hell am I dating?"