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[ SECRET POST #2481 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2481 ⌋

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[Star Trek, Sleepy Hollow, Elementary]

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[Junjou Romantica]

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Because you can't seem to see that when people read these things, they don't just say, "Oh this is rape fantasy, I know it's gross but it isn't real". They come in all, well, like you: "This isn't rape, it's romantic and ~tsundere~. He actually liked it, you see."

I've never read the canon myself, but if it's true that the character himself says it wasn't rape, then it isn't rape. That's not the reader making assumptions or justifying it, that's the character themselves coming out and stating that it was not in fact rape.

It doesn't work because, unlike real life, the readers have already been invited to witness the incident and draw their conclusion. The depiction gave them the clear impression that this is sexual assault, so having the character deny it after the fact isn't convincing.

But that's a common trope used in fiction in general. The author shows us (sometimes through the eyes of another character) a scene that looks a certain way with the intent of having the readers draw a particular conclusion about it, only to reveal later on that that particular conclusion is wrong.

It is my opinion that isn't what happened in this series, or else if that was the intent, then it was not well-presented enough to be persuasive.

That's a different matter entirely and also one highly subjective, as this thread proves.

Well duh, that's why I prefaced it with "in my opinion". I'm confident in my belief, and the fact that others in this thread agree with me.

That's nice. I am confident in my belief too, and the fact that others in this thread and elsewhere too agree with me.

DA

Except this is a trope that happens a lot in BL series. Something that is clearly sexual assualt or rape is either handwaved by the character saying it wasn't or saying that if the character enjoyed it then it wasn't rape.

Sounds like you can only accept your own vision. So much that not only you negate what the canon says, you also negate what other readers say.

There are quite a few people in this thread saying that what happened in Junjou was rape, so it seems that, at least in this corner of fandom, you're the only one who thinks otherwise. DA above hasn't read the series.

Nice scare tactic there, good thing there's other corners of the fandom around.

That's fine, because I disagree with those corners as well if they believe what you do. I'm under no illusion that there aren't a lot of people out there who buy into these tropes; that's kind of why it's a problem.

It's a problem that people, who understand the difference between reality and fiction, don't agree with you? Oh boy.

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I haven't read the series, no, but I don't understand why this is even being argued if the character himself unequivocally says that it wasn't rape. "Well, it LOOKED like rape" is kind of a ridiculous argument when the character states that it wasn't. That just means it was badly written, not that it was in fact rape.

Look at it this way. The character being assaulted protested at the time of the incident. When someone says no during sex, you are supposed to stop; if you continue, it is rape. You are repulsive for continuing when your partner protested. If the victim later tells you they were okay with it, does that change the fact that you chose to continue? No. You made the decision to override their protest. You couldn't have read their mind at the time and known how they really felt, you only had the information that was expressly given to you -- which was that they didn't want it -- and you made your decision based on this information. You committed rape.

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That doesn't make what the character says about themselves any less true.

In my opinion, the merit of the story does rely on whether you can convince your readers the action of your characters is consistent with past action. If the author did it badly, the author did it badly, and the readers aren't convinced.

But readers are convinced, or at least many are, or we wouldn't even be arguing now. So for all your trying to speak for everyone, you really aren't at all convincing yourself.

Your argument all hinges upon how the victim feels about the assault, without even considering the action of the aggressor. Whatever happened afterward, consent was not expressly given at the time. Why did he go ahead and do it?

I've addressed this in a comment above.

Man, I'm not even in this fandom and this argument leaves me thinking the guy's a scumbag. "He was told no but he told the person to yell if he didn't like it" He was told 'no', that commonly means they don't like it! And "But Misaki doesn't, and not even out of fear or pressure, just of out of his own stubborness" requires him to be a mindreader to know it isn't out of fear or pressure.

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In Misaki's case, yes, that's exactly it.
But I'm still able to say that it's still a fantasy and most people are not Misaki, nor act or think the way he does. I don't mean it in a bad way either, since I admire how kind-hearted and selfless he is, but hey - he's still an anime character.

So if it's all just fantasy and none of it matters, then why are we having this conversation at all? Assuming you posted the secret, this is apparently supposed to be about your love for the characters and how you believe that the fact their relationship grew should negate what people believe to be an act of rape. Obviously, you care about people's perception of this series. The problem is that others really do think a) it was rape and b) the later development doesn't change squat. Are you now changing your argument to, "Okay but it's just fantasy, get over it"? Because that's a different conversation.

I'm not OP, but I love the series too, that's why I'm defending it obviously.

>The problem is that others really do think a) it was rape and b) the later development doesn't change squat.

Whatever then, I disagree and I stand my opinion. Guess we'll never be on the same page, either.

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