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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-01-03 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2558 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2558 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Frozen]


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[Cabin in the Woods]


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[Trailer Park Boys]


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08. [SPOILERS for Elementary]



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09. [SPOILERS for Zelda comic]



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11. [SPOILERS for Dan and Mab's Furry Adventures]
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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #364.
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
I have no good reason not to come out as bi to my family. I'm not afraid to, I just haven't. I'll probably only tell them when I have a girl to take home, but since I've dated so infrequently just in general, that could be 5+ years from now...

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Same here anon. I'm not ashamed or anything, but until I have a partner I just cannot be bothered to come out to people.
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] inkdust 2014-01-04 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Makes sense to me. The people I didn't come out to during my last relationship are going to wait til my next one (assuming it's another girl).
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] lynx 2014-01-04 08:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'm out to my closest family, but since I have a big extended family that celebrates holidays and takes vacations together in a big herd of 15 people or more, I want to come out as a lesbian to the rest of them some day... if I'm an estable relationship that merits risking alienating people I care about.

IDGAF about what "society" thinks, but the idea of making my granny or my grandpa cry because as far as they know, LGBT people have hard, unhappy lifes that always get the Bad Ending is super upsetting to me; and I don't see why should I worry them so if I'm not with anyone I'd like them to meet.

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Not feeling like it is a perfectly valid reason imo
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] sarillia 2014-01-04 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
That was me until I started going out with my girlfriend. Nothing wrong with not telling them, no matter what the reason.
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] ill_omened 2014-01-04 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Sup?

I know my parents would ne bothing less than entirely supporting (and my mom would love the 'edgyness' of having a bi son), but I just haven't felt the need.

My private life is my own, not something I'm comfortable sharing with them without reason.

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
This. Exactly this.
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] nightscale 2014-01-04 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. I'm going out with a man currently as well so I don't think anyone would believe me if I did tell them.
Edited 2014-01-04 01:45 (UTC)

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. I'm bi, and while I'm not particularly afraid or ashamed (a little nervous though) I don't think I'll come out until I actually want to bring a girl home. It's too much of a bother, otherwise.

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 06:22 am (UTC)(link)
This right here is why we hate you.
You have the luxury of making that decision as and when you need to. You are officially "Straight Passing" and you don't even fucking care. and yet you assume you can just tag along on the back of our struggle? Fuck you.

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 06:27 am (UTC)(link)
So, it's okay to hate all bi people because of that? Wow.
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] caerbannog 2014-01-04 08:21 am (UTC)(link)
Bad anon.

Anyone can be straight passing, I'm straight passing and I've been out for years. Their decision and desire to come out is their business and their business alone, it's hardly their fault others assume they're the default unless they date samesex. The fact you've decided this is reason enough to hate on bi people just shows that you're the horrible person contributing to the problems of acceptance within lgBt.

>:[
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Re: Nonfandom Confessions

[personal profile] lynx 2014-01-04 08:31 am (UTC)(link)
You know, I could scream "bisexual erasure!" right back at you and be equally pissed off. I'm not even bi, I'm an out lesbian, and even I know better than to make these kinds of affirmations.

We live in a society in which, unless you're wearing a rainbow pin/scarf/bracelet; or being undeniable romantically affective in public with a same-sex partner; EVERYONE ASSUMES "STRAIGHT UNTIL PROVEN OTHERWISE". We're all straight-passing unless the context and/or behavior screams "not straight".

The fact that we have to hide our sexual orientation, and that that absolutely sucks, ranging from "depressing" to "life-thretenly stressful, because if I don't pass as straight my status as a living person is in danger" is another thing completely; and does not give anyone a free-card to hate on bisexuals.

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-01-04 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
why we hate you

I'm sure you're aware that you can't possibly speak for every gay person, so the "we" here must be referring to assholes.