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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-24 03:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #2699 ]


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[personal profile] visp 2014-05-24 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I thought queerplatonic meant queer people with platonic friends?

(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 07:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I always thought it was the SJW acceptable version of Bromance and NO HOMO.

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
why wouldn't you just saw.. um... friends?

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[personal profile] inthecorner 2014-05-25 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
No, from what I've seen, it's "friends so close that they might as well be lovers but not".
Edited 2014-05-25 00:45 (UTC)
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-25 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
That doesn't make a ton of sense, since the word is being used to describe the relationship, not the person (I thought).

(Anonymous) 2014-05-25 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
No, queer in this context doesn't hold the homosexual meaning but rather the 'strange/odd' meaning.

When put together with platonic it means a strange kind of platonic that seems like two people are in a romantic relationship without actually having any romantic feelings for each other. Queer platonic usually has two people that cuddle or kiss or do other 'couple-like' things without being romantically interested in each other.

Platonic = Just friends who don't kiss each other
Queer platonic = Just friends but WOULD kiss each other, just not get romantically involved

It applies to m/m, f/f, and m/f ships. The word queer doesn't imply homosexual in this context.

The only reason I know so much about this is because one of my friends queer-platonic ships my OTP.

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
i always thought queerplatonic was the equivalent of "heterosexual life partners" for when one or more of them isn't heterosexual

but then i googled and found this
http://aromanticaardvark.tumblr.com/post/43139644219
which says anyone of any gender/orientation/etc can be in a queerplatonic relationship, the "queer" comes from it being different from "relationship norms", which
???
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2014-05-24 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I thought the same as your first line until I read this comment. wtf? How is that different from...like...every interpersonal relationship involving real individuals with free will ever?

(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, that doesn't make it obvious that this is a desperate ploy to horn in on the actual struggle of the queer community at all. AT ALL.

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Ughh. I saw that word for the first time a few days ago, on Tumblr. I came so close to unfollowing that person.

[personal profile] ex_mek82 2014-05-24 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
... You know, I came across an image on 'Know Your Meme' that had listed 'How Tumblr categorizes sexual orientations' (or something like that), and my brain still hurts from trying to make heads or tails of these names/titles/labels.

I think I'm just old.

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Anyone who isn't on tumblr thinks it's dumb (hell, even a lot of people on tumblr think it pretty stupid). This is actually the first time in a while I've seen it discussed. It's either become a lot less popular in the last six or so months or I've just been hanging around the right places

(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
lol queerplatonic?

as a gay person, I just can't get enough of these hilarious attempts to get "on the spectrum."

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
They should just call it a transitive relationship. But then they'd be called trannies and you know how well that would go over. Unless you're Ru.
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[personal profile] cloud_riven 2014-05-24 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Nobody in real life says "queerplatonic". It's not a thing, and it's especially not a thing if it's main usage is in regards to fandom.

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
wait what

this is a thing?

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[personal profile] elaminator 2014-05-24 09:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I've never even heard it before, so I'm just confused. As I often am with these things.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
this reminds me of the dumb ass straight people who call themselves "queer" because they're kinky

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[personal profile] dreemyweird 2014-05-24 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
The term is incredibly dumb and everything about it is dumb.

Which is a pity, because "a friend one wants to spend one's life with" is a great thing.

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(Anonymous) 2014-05-24 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
"Queerplatonic" is the definition of "trying too hard." Since when does having a BFF that you are super close to make you queer? Having deep platonic bonds is queer now? That really just gets my goat.

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[personal profile] fleshisyummy 2014-05-24 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I suppose I can understand the term for aromantic people, but, yeah, otherwise I find it a bit silly.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-25 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
I always figured I'd identify any relationships of that nature involving me as moirallegiance. It's really a matter of which group of weirdoes you want to identify with: Homestuck fandom or Tumblr gender/sexuality/relationship special snowflakes.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-25 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
I thought it was an asexual thing? I thought it's what they used for relationships that were romantic but not sexual. And that the queer isn't anything to do with queer as in gay, but the original meaning, strange/unusual/whatever, because non-sexual romantic relationships are definitely considered unusual/weird (or at least uncommon).

I don't think it's necessarily a horrible thing for asexual people to want a word for their relationships. I'm a lesbian and sometimes ID as queer but if people want to use the word in a different context with its original meaning it doesn't bother me.

(Anonymous) 2014-05-25 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
that's because it is stupid