[ SECRET POST #2921 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2921 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Love Actually]


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06. [ SPOILERS for Legend of Korra ]



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07. [ SPOILERS for Big Hero 6 ]



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08. [ WARNING for rape ]



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09. [ WARNING for incest ]

[The 100]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #417.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

Post fucked up non- fandom secrets here!

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

I peed in the pool.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

Recently, or when you were 5?

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[herpymcderp]

You and everyone else. That's why it's chlorinated.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

My brain was just not functioning at work today. So I spent most of the day on TVtropes.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

I was all ready to get angry and judgey about my husband getting so drunk and high last weekend that we (my family) all got worried he had alcohol poisoning or worse because he was catatonic, so we called an ambulance to take him to the emergency room. (Apparently he tried to grab my mom's boobs too?!) But then I remembered that the last time I was really drunk I fucked some dude without a condom and then came home and fucked my husband like the same day, so I think I still "win" the "shittiest drunk act" award. (No stds, don't worry.) So, then I couldn't really be mad at him though he doesn't know why I was so nice the day after. Not like I'm gonna tell him that I'd cheated on him.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly you sound like you deserve each other.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

No. He sexually assaulted your mother. How is that in any way comparable?

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

You are a bad person if true

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

I like how the people responding act like they haven't done bad things due to poor judgement or intoxication. Not everyone lives a perfect, easy life without missteps.

Your life is problematic too, asshats.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[herpymcderp]

Wow. Those are some interesting life choices.

Next time use a condom. I'd also like to take this opportunity to remind you that HIV testing can take up to 6-12 months to give a reliable result, since viral loads can be undetectable for an extended period of time. Please remember to repeat your testing to be sure you're in the clear.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

sounds like both of you should be drinking less, tbh. my bro's gotten some pretty good results from AA, but honestly i think it's mostly the support he's getting from his wife and social circle.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

You guys sound like you deserve each other.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

LMAO a perfect match

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[diet_poison]

Sounds like you and everyone else involved need to lay off the alcohol, big time.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

This is reality: you're a bad spouse. Your husband deserves better than you, but because you're an awful person, you won't ever give him the chance to realize that. You'll keep him trapped for the rest of his life and tell yourself that it's okay. But rest assured, you will cheat on him again. It's who you are.

You are a cheater. The alcohol didn't make you do it. The alcohol is an excuse. It's all a lie you tell yourself to fool yourself into thinking that you're not a bad person. But you are. You always were and you always will be as long as you keep denying it.

The best thing for you to do, if you actually care a whit about him, is to come clean and give him the choice to leave you. But you won't do that, because you're a selfish piece of shit. All you care about is your feelings and your happiness. He's there to please you and make you feel good. So you do what you want behind his back and make justifications for it, when deep down it's just a symptom of the fact that it's all about you. You're a leech.

You're a terrible wife. You deserve to be divorced. You deserve to be alone.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

At one point I was in D/s-ish relationship as the dominant party, and I honestly think I overstepped some boundaries during that time,both for him and for me.

It wasn't so much malice as being young and not knowing what the fuck I was doing but still.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I've been there. I remember one sub who later admitted that they didn't feel like they could use their safeword because that would be like failing. I about shit.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

I shit in the ball pit at McDonald's once.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

Please say you were five.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[herpymcderp]

...Was it an accident?

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[feotakahari]

The online response to that transgirl's suicide disturbs me. So many people are using her as a hockey puck to score points with their various causes, and the ones who dismiss this tend to do so by arguing that she deserved to die (either because committing suicide makes you bad and unworthy, or because she apparently said stupid shit about disabled people at some time in her life.) I suppose it's beside the point to ask people on the Internet for a little human empathy, but seriously, lay off a bit.

BS: For all that, I do think there are things that need to be said about what happened. When her mother did that interview, talking about how "I loved my son" and trying to deflect all the blame away from her own actions . . . I felt like there was something deeply fucked-up in all that. It's not about religion, not exactly, but it's at least about what some people do with religion, and what happens when you keep trying to bend and contort the people you care about so they'll fit in the same box as you.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

this is only technically non fandom because it's about f! itself. It's also a long story so fair warning if you don't like long stories.

I've been visiting F!s for YEARS. I remember back when it was like 29 secrets/day and 3 pages of comments. I had a livejournal and used to comment under the livejournal's name. Probably no one here would recognize the name if I told it (except possibly dethtoll but afaik we never interacted), but I'm not gonna tell it anyway. You young'uns weren't there, but back in, like, 2011 or so F!S would go through phases where it was like insane nutjob SJW central. The REAL kind of insane nutjob SJW, the kind that go around taunting previously suicidal people and telling them they deserved to be that way because they disagreed with the insane nutjob SJWs on what percentage of representation was acceptable for whatever demographic.

Anyhoo. I discovered F!S shortly after arriving at college, which was the first time I had ever had unsupervised access to the internet, because I grew up in a super sheltered highly religious family. There were a lot of things out there that I hadn't heard of before, that most people have experienced, and practically every day was a learning experience for me. One of the things that I failed to learn, until the events I am about to relate, was that it is a stupid thing to get involved in fandom-related wank (or any wank) online, especially if you have a lot more zeal than experience being involved in wank.

One day someone posted a very angry secret about how they headcanoned some game character as transgendered and hated that people disagreed with them because obviously that meant those people were transphobic. I had literally never encountered the concept of transgender-ness in my life before I saw that secret, and I was greatly confused and commented on it asking what the secret meant. Several people threw a fit at me for being ignorant (and therefore presumably transphobic) but didn't bother to enlighten me. So I asked them to explain the concept or point me in the direction of resources that would explain it, and you might have thought I set them on fire for the incandescent levels of hatred that poured forth - for you see, I had unwittingly angered a pack of "EDUCATE YOURSELF IT IS NOT MY JOB TO EDUCATE YOU OMG JUST GOOGLE IT ALREADY YOU SHITLORD WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU THAT YOU DON'T ALREADY KNOW ABOUT THIS STUFF" types.

I tried explaining that I didn't trust blindly googling to take me to a resource I could trust because I would have no way of telling if it was a good source or not, because I DID NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT TRANS PEOPLE OR EVEN WHAT THEY WERE, REALLY, but I had already been perma-labeled a hatemongering anti-trans bigot by the "EDUCATE YOURSELF IT IS NOT MY JOB TO EDUCATE YOU OMG JUST GOOGLE IT ALREADY YOU SHITLORD WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU THAT YOU DON'T ALREADY KNOW ABOUT THIS STUFF" types. At least one, possibly several, of them thereafter stalked my f!s comments and repeatedly harassed me about it and accused me of hating trans people and wishing them harm all the time and generally made my f!s experience so unpleasant that I just ended my LJ and took to browsing F!s anon without commenting. I don't think Case necessarily noticed this because he had about a million bigger fish to fry (threads like the one where I got dogpiled happened daily, often multiple times daily in fact, and frankly I have no idea how he managed to wade through it all and keep F!s functioning. I never complained to him about it anyway because half the users in the comm got harassed/verbally attacked by nutcases all the time (some of them worse than me, on a whole bunch of topics, I just wasn't used to dealing with it and gave up much easier) and ain't no one got time for that.

Eventually I did go back to commenting (anon) once the comm began to see an overhaul of users and calm down a lot. Obviously I'm still doing this, lol. I think that the person(s?) who whines and bitches that f!s is dyyyyingggg because it has less users than it used to needs a reality check because I remember when F!S had a crapload of users AND IT SUCKED MONKEY BUTT OK, 2/3 OF THE USERS WERE ASSFACE JERKOFFS AND THERE WAS NOTHING BUT WANK FOREVER. I may admittedly be somewhat biased here, and I can admit that being younger and stupider and less experienced in the ways of the internet, I did not always resist the urge to get involved in the wank. (A few times I was even an assface jerkoff, although I tried not to make a habit of it.) But my point is that even with less users now, F!S is truckloads better place than it used to be, and nicer, and more fun, and way way way less wanky and dramatic in very bad ways, and I'd just like to take this opportunity to say thanks a million to Case for not saying "fuck this shit" and nuking the comm back when it was Loud Angry Hateful Jackass Central.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

I don't care how much you hate a user, following them around to harass them or provoke them so you can get them banned is pathetic.

Like shit, there's NO excuses for that.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets: Fucked Up Friday Edition!

[(Anonymous)]

I give it fifteen, twenty years (maybe less) before today's social justice activists are the ones saying, "Now wait just a goddamn minute. I'm all for tolerance and acceptance, but this is just ridiculous, you're going too far!" to some 'marginalized group' who'll be saying the same things about their crackpot cause that those activists are saying about being 'genderfluid' or 'demisexual' or whatever the fuck they're going on about today.