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[ SECRET POST #3160 ]

⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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God, Noddly may be an asshole but at least he hasn't been bitching about it and dragging his drama all over forums.

Dude, you've seen no drama save this. Cool it.

you've been making oblique references to it all summer. ni'm not even saying you're unjustified in doing so, from what you say, but you have been dragging it all over.

References so oblique I had no idea I made them! The prefect crime.

Maybe it's not something you did intentionally, but you have made approximately one billion comments about shitty relationships, not being able to trust people in relationships, being unhappy about human relationships, trying to get over people, being angry at people in general, being angry at people as a result of shitty relationships specifically, etc etc etc.

And, I mean, there's nothing wrong with that, everyone should have the opportunity to bitch about anything. But, at a certain point, it's hard not to start connecting some dots and thinking maybe there was something going on.

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Sure you've got a reason, and you apparently do not realise this, but you have made a lot.

Like 2 days ago they had some pithy comment for the "What myths did you believe as a child" thing. It was like, "Everyone is a liar!"

Do you sincerely believe Noodle's the only person I interact with?

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I'm guessing you've never gone through a bad breakup, nor known anyone who has? This is pretty much going to be her normal state for a while. It will taper off eventually, probably.

Who's forcing you to read these posts?

Thanks, but you're missing the point a bit.

My life's good right now. Legitimately good. I'm trying to explain why it wasn't and the only way I have to do so is detail. People need to know it was actually bad, so that people know a certain measure of hostility was understandable. Otherwise it's just this dude saying "I don't know why she's so touchy!"

I think I buried the lede here.

Edited 2015-08-30 03:51 (UTC)

That's good to hear!

That's a better way to describe it. If you're still gonna post this tomorrow, go with something more like that and less wall-of-text.

I wasn't complaining, I don't have a problem with her or anyone else making posts like that. I really don't want to attack Chard here - I don't have any problems with anything she's done and she seems like a decent person.

I just think maybe it's affected her more and she has more shit wrapped up around the issue than she's really acknowledging. Which, again, is completely understandable.

I'd say most of us anons here realise this. We're not hating on chard, but dear lord would we like for her to take a step back and stop bringing the drama here.

That and it has been, what, a year? By all means she might be slower to recover but bringing it up hear all the time is less helpful and more drama stirring.

and NAYRT this is a nice little community, the wank and drama is fun but this is easily avoided inhouse toic drama. Not as fun.

Sorry, your essay is totally reasonable! And yeah, I've seen no drama...until you decided to write a 20 page essay.

You really should switch to a college rule monitor

No, we've definitely seen your bitter comments about him/relationships. You have been dragging it out on FS, even if you didn't attend it. We get it, your cynical. But you don't need to worry at the wounds constantly on this website.

Go outside and have a break. And move on. Get a new group of friends, a new hobby, stop thinking about him.

DA

Okay, real talk: do you think I had no life before and have been living in a hole after?

Not everything is a reaction to this one thing anon.

Considering it all you talk about...possibly.

I have been making very cynical comments, I agree. Very sparingly, as I'm not even here every day. And I doubt the dude you're talking about even saw any of them as I'm under the impression he too has been sparse.

Again: I have a life. I hope you have a life outside current and past relationships as well. If FS was just "that site with my ex" to me I wouldn't be here in the first place.

Edit: Part of this is due to the fact that most secrets are for fandoms I don't know a damn thing about. I need to watch more anime apparently.

Edited 2015-08-30 03:17 (UTC)

I think the only anime to really have a ton of secrets is Utena

which you actually probably should watch tbh

nayrt

It's a combination of us not knowing what happened besides that it was something bad, hearing a bunch of unconfirmed rumors about cheating, then reading your comments sounding very cynical regardless of whether they were directly related to any of this or not. You do comment sparingly but the overwhelming majority of those spare comments are cynical, and from the side of those anons who didn't know the story, jumping to hurt and bitter about cheating looks like the natural conclusion.

You have a life, but they don't hear about it, so they can only go on what you tell them, which is to not trust people and cheaters suck. You know?

As anons above, I would assume you have a life. But we can't tell it just from your comments. So when the majority of your noticable comments are in reply to life or relationship threads with that bitter edge and then you write this essay ...yeah it looks like it's all you ever talk about and that it's eating you up inside.

Noodle on the otherhand is clearly all over the place NOT blogging about a failed relationships or making bitter comments about trust or life.

Obviously you don't intend to come across like this, but it's the only face you're giving us.

Noodle on the otherhand is clearly all over the place NOT blogging about a failed relationships or making bitter comments about trust or life.

Well... you can see that his situation was different, no?

He's apologized, but there's going to be a different reaction from someone who never got hurt.

Edited 2015-08-30 03:59 (UTC)