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fandomsecrets2015-10-14 06:40 pm
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Don't let anyone pressure you into spending your time on something you don't care about; there are too few hours in the day.
And honestly, your friend sounds pretty irritating; he doesn't seem to know when to give up, so I think you need to flat out say, “I'm not going to try this thing because I don't want to."
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 12:33 am (UTC)(link)He's a great friend, so I guess I just don't want to hurt his feelings because he loves that damn series so freaking much.
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 12:39 am (UTC)(link)I may be a hardcore One Piece fan but I also recognize that people don't like things and that's okay. But as someone who once hated it and now doesn't, I can also say that you haven't experienced the story correctly yet.
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 12:57 am (UTC)(link)I experienced One Piece with subs, and I gave it 30 episodes. I started off neutral and ended up despising it.
I found the art terrible, but wasn't put off by that. It was the story. Guy has a dream and won't let it go. Even though it's dangerous. Even though it's damaging his health. Even though he's putting others at risk around him, and might kill all of them. Not to mention it's a stupid dream anyway and it will be impossible to tell even if he's achieved it.
Sometimes people just have different tastes. No matter how I'd experienced One Piece, I'd have hated it because the central storyline is something I despise and it's repeated every ten minutes in case we've somehow managed to forget. No superior version is going to change that.
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 04:21 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP Here
...Still never read One Piece lol.
While I understand not wanting to hurt your friend, unless you want him to hound you about it forever you're probably going to have to be blunt about it. His inability to let it go is not good for your relationship, even if it is a relatively small matter. (If all he wants to talk about is One Piece despite your objections, that's a step too far. Dude needs to back off and respect your opinion.)
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 05:16 am (UTC)(link)Re: OP Here
(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 05:34 am (UTC)(link)Nah no one's entitled to persist with something they don't want. Maybe this friend is the sort who won't take no for an answer within a fandom friendship so OP thought it was politer/less resistance to say they'd tried it and didn't like it rather than "sampled a little bit of it, got bored, could not be fucked trying to sample it any further to please this person"
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 05:35 am (UTC)(link)* entitled to have someone else persist
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 06:32 am (UTC)(link)Just to make things clear so you understand; it's the lying part I take issue with, not OP not wanting to give One Piece a chance.
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(Anonymous) 2015-10-15 07:02 am (UTC)(link)Whatever, you feel embarrassed, maybe this person in the secret is super rude and pushy. Sometimes it's a valid strategy depending on personality types and energy levels. Friends aren't always ideal, or close, and sounds like OP painted themselves into a corner without meaning to.