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Favorite of 2022
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tv: Right now Andor, though Obi-Wan came very close. Rings of Power is also on the list but not quite the top. But Willow is really good so far, and it may end up beating out Andor.
Album: I admit it, I love Midnights. Anti-Hero has been played on repeat so many times. That song is scarily accurate for how I feel about myself.
Best character (returning): Obi-Wan always wins this. Mon Mothma and Andor are close second and third.
Best character (new take on old one): Number One, with Christopher Pike a close second.
Best new character: Luthen Rael and basically all the new villains of Andor.
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TV Show: Extraordinary Attorney Woo
Re: Favorite of 2022
old: Jennifer's Body
new: Glass Onion
Best Show:
old: MASH
new: Derry Girls Season 3
Best Album:
old: Woodkid - The Golden Age
new: Florence and the Machine - Dance Fever
Best Novels:
old: The Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix
new: What Moves The Dead by T. Kingfisher
Video Games:
old: Animal Crossing New Horizons
new: Pentiment
Podcast:
old: knifepoint horror
new: Bridgewater
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 02:01 am (UTC)(link)Album: Either MUNA by Muna or Home, before and after by Regina Spektor
TV Show: Our Flag Means Death
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 03:00 am (UTC)(link)Movie not from 2022: Jojo Rabbit
Show: Ted Lasso (mainly S1), Succession, and Severance. All phenomenal, but each in very different ways.
Album: I think the only new album that I listened to straight through was Midnights by Taylor Swift, which I do like a lot. Listening to whole albums isn’t my MO, generally; it’s just not how I like to engage with music. But I did listen to Modern Vampires Of The City straight through several times and liked it. I also listened to both AM and Whatever People Say I Am That’s What I’m Not by The Arctic Monkeys several times through and thought they were pretty great.
Best songs I got into this year:
Like I Used To by Angel Olsen & Sharon Van Etten
Run Cried The Crawling by Agnes Obel
The Steps by Haim
Something In The Way by Nirvana
How To Disappear by Lana Del Rey
Flipside by Lana Del Rey
31 And Falling by Chris Pureka
I literally read like three novels all year, so picking a favorite isn't really all that meaningful, but I did just finish Dark Rise by C S Pacat and was surprised by how much I liked it. It managed to surprise me in a couple of places and the central pairing is a deliciously twisty slowburn, which I'm definitely here for.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 04:46 am (UTC)(link)Game: Pokémon Arceus/Violet, Sonic Frontiers, Klonoa Reverie
TV: Puppet History season 5
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 04:52 am (UTC)(link)Best movie:
I enjoyed Glass Onion the most. Everything Everywhere All At Once might be a *better* movie in some senses, but I’m not in a place to emotionally engage with it at the moment.
Best TV:
Slow Horses. I thought it was great. Close second goes to This is Going to Hurt, which was also terrific, but too uncomfortable for me to finish at the time. (Going to give it another try when I’m a little more emotionally stable.)
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 06:24 am (UTC)(link)Favorite older book read this year:
Stone Hotel: Poems From Prison by Raegan Butcher (2014)
Favorite older films watched this year:
Ordinary People (1980), Go (2001), Monkey Love Experiments (2014), Ravenous (1999), Eastern Promises (2007)
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)Also really got into Markiplier's choose-your-own adventure stories on YouTube (especially with the release of In Space With Markiplier earlier in the year) and still enjoying the lore and fan theories behind them.
As for TV series, it would be Don't Hug me I'm Scared.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 01:01 am (UTC)(link)Re: Old comments/secrets thread
(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 01:07 am (UTC)(link)You're fine, my guy. I hope you are doing well, and I thank you for engaging in good faith.
SA
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 03:46 am (UTC)(link)I don’t need characters to be like me, but I need them to either resonate somehow emotionally/mentally or be fun to watch. And the characters of this are neither for me.
Wes Anderson usually doesn’t do it for me, but this seemed like it could be different. I usually find George Clooney charming, the visual style was interesting, and I dimly but fondly remembered the book. But the whole thing made uncomfortable instead. It felt like it was supposed to be a relatable, cute and cozy world (with some faults and cracks that are part of The Message)… but that world was fundamentally alien and hostile to someone like me.
I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with the movie and I can definitely appreciate the technical skill, but it also made me quite uncomfortable to watch.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 04:06 am (UTC)(link)Not anyone's fault but your own that you use the word 'relatable' in a way plenty of people don't. Maybe don't use words weirdly and then complain people misunderstand you.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 09:29 am (UTC)(link)I completely understand! The timing of my response didn’t help at all.
I hope you’re doing well too!
Re: OP of Hawkeye's Kate Bishop 'Not Like Other Girls' Secret
(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 03:05 am (UTC)(link)So I found it a bit presumptive of some comments to conclude that what I thought of my former friend and the comment thread in general to be shallow in some way?
I don't think I need to tell the nitty gritty details of the friendship that I lost to try to get anyone to understand that my friend was a shitty friend/not as woke as she let off because of the way she consumed media.
Of course, there was more to the story than just my friend stans Kate Bishop but kept pitting her against other female characters needlessly, but I was just thinking like, "yeah those small things that sorta bothered me make a little bit more sense now lol".
My friendship did not end because of the way my former friend consumed media/due to who they stanned. This friendship spanned a lot of years and multiple fandoms. A lot of personal things happened and as I took a break from the friendship, I ruminated on some stuff that I used to brush aside and realized that maybe some of them were red flags. The whole Hawkeye/Kate Bishop stanning is a part of something bigger. One example, realizing how this friend and I would have small friend groups that usually end up in a trio and after so many weeks/months of the dynamic this friend of mine usually had a falling out with the third wheel. This feeling of a need to pit people against each other. If not, me needing to choose who is a better friend to me but just as many times I felt like I had to prove that I was worthy of this friend's attention.
And there are a lot of other things that play into my friendship but again, a lot of it is actually not fandom related. It's just some things in fandom/friend circles stuff, I began to notice patterns.
Also, I was not a perfect friend. And I'm not trying to claim that I was. I have my shortcomings as a human being, but I don't think I need to humble myself every time I want to be pissed off at someone for being shitty to me.
If you're feeling called out or something by a friend, I don't think I'm that friend. I just wanted to vent into the void. I swear, I'm not shading said former friend, hoping they read that secret to feel like shit. I don't even know if my former friend visits F!S.
Re: OP of Hawkeye's Kate Bishop 'Not Like Other Girls' Secret
(Anonymous) 2022-12-27 03:49 am (UTC)(link)I think it’s easy for that to happen here, where people are explaining themselves pretty briefly and the situation is actually complex.
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