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[The Beach]
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I Am Not A Robot!
Yes, I have a VPN, but I've had it for almost a year, and this just started happening.
I mean, I'm googling an address here in my town, I'm googling a movie that's out right now, I'm googling books/authors.... It's maddening and baffling.
Here's what Google is saying, if anyone is interested....
"Our systems have detected unusual traffic from your computer network. This page checks to see if it's really you sending the requests, and not a robot. Why did this happen?
This page appears when Google automatically detects requests coming from your computer network which appear to be in violation of the Terms of Service. The block will expire shortly after those requests stop. In the meantime, solving the above CAPTCHA will let you continue to use our services.
This traffic may have been sent by malicious software, a browser plug-in, or a script that sends automated requests. If you share your network connection, ask your administrator for help — a different computer using the same IP address may be responsible. Learn more
Sometimes you may be asked to solve the CAPTCHA if you are using advanced terms that robots are known to use, or sending requests very quickly. "
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What seemingly benign 'traditions' do you hate?
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-20 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)I hate the concept of Bachelor/Bachelorette parties. The idea of a "last hurrah", especially of a sexual nature (strippers), is so gross. Like, what is this het bullshit that you can't truly party once you're married? Aren't you supposed to be marrying someone you love? Shouldn't that mean you now have a partner for partying??
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 05:17 am (UTC)(link)bacherlor/ette parties, "giving away the bride", virginal white, throwing bouquets, "games" to determine how many kids they will have, asking the father of the bride for his consent etc etc.
also the "respect your elders" carte blanche.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 08:24 am (UTC)(link)What's on my mind right now, though, is the pile of lying to kids about holidays. Someone was posting rather shyly to a very large atheist forum, recently, wanting to know if people thought it would be okay to not go through the motions of the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny and Santa being real, and as I appreciated that my family never put me through that and didn't feel too isolated having to keep it to myself to not disillusion other kids, I wrote them a comment to that effect. Reassuring them that I don't look back on that with regret at all, and enjoyed the holidays anyway. There were a few of us, saying as much: immigrants from families that weren't trying super-hard to be as Americanized as possible, and a handful of Jews pointing out that, no, they didn't feel like their parents were cruel for not going along with the pop culture version of Christmas, either. But the vehemence from the people who apparently believed having to leave Santa behind was a right and proper childhood right of passage was really repellent to me. One thing is disagreeing, and another is acting like they have to claim every way but theirs is terrible parenting and depriving children of wonder.
And ... atheists here are not generally known for being staunch traditionalists, so the intensity of it surprised me.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 08:29 am (UTC)(link)Venting
(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 12:57 am (UTC)(link)CW: Cancer
(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 01:02 am (UTC)(link)My brain is struggling to process and I'm currently just angry at the world in general. I'm sad for grandad, but I'm completely fucking heartbroken that my Dad will now have to face losing a parent while still coming to terms with his own cancer.
Just feels like the universe is completely dumping on us as a family this year and I don't know how to hold it all together anymore. I want to make things better but I can't see how.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-21 09:01 am (UTC)(link)It's been a fairly crap few months for her, all things considered. If I had the money, and she the time, I'd book her a cruise; god knows she needs it.
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(Anonymous) 2023-08-22 12:31 am (UTC)(link)Also, does anyone or has ever listened to a soundtrack without seeing the original source?
(Latter question inspired by me currently listening through a collection of cds that I had found from shows I haven't watched like Dawson's Creek and Queer as Folk).
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