[ SECRET POST #1986 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1986 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 119 secrets from Secret Submission Post #284.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0- not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - take it to comments ], [ 1 2 - going to have to be a little more subtle than this ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not interested in het, really at all. I'm a straight female myself, but I don't know, I just don't like it. Not just because, but partly for the fact I find het sex disgusting. ;P Two guys, scorching hot for me. Two girls, not hot per se, but I like to read it.

I just don't want to read, see, or hear about het.

[(Anonymous)]

you don't want to read, see or hear about it, but you'd do it in the bedroom? What, with the lights off?

different anon

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know about Anon you replied to, but there's actually a lot of stuff I find hot in action that I find off-putting in writing or visuals. So just because someone doesn't want to read about it or finds reading/seeing/listening to it disgusting doesn't mean they don't enjoy the act itself.

[(Anonymous)]

I've never done anything in the bedroom. I'm a virgin. >.< (anon you replied to.)

not person you replied to

[(Anonymous)]

there is nothing really wrong with that

sexuality and what we like is not so clear-cut as people say it is

[(Anonymous)]

Considering how inaccurate some fic can be, I can understand someone feeling that way.

I can't watch most medical dramas anymore now that I know enough to notice how much they get wrong; my stepfather won't watch police procedurals for essentially the same reason. It makes sense that some people might prefer to only read about sex acts they haven't participated in.

[(Anonymous)]

So… basically you just think vaginas are gross. That's pretty much what you wrote up there. How's that internalized misogyny feel?

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, yes I do. I think they're disgusting. I know it's weird, considering the fact that I'm female, but it's just the way I feel.

[(Anonymous)]

Straight people are *generally* not going to find same-sex genitalia attractive. When you look at genitalia that you don't find attractive, they look like hairy fleshy squishy things (goes for all types of genitalia).

[(Anonymous)]

I'm straight and I'm actually pretty indifferent to vagina in general. Don't find it attractive nor gross to look at... unless you try to shove my face into another woman's crotch, I don't see why I'd find another woman's private bits off-putting.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, yes. I like guys. I like reading about/imaging two guys together. Tbh, het is gross to me. I'm straight, but even thinking about a man and a woman turns me right off. Now, take out the woman and add a man in to the equation... XP

[(Anonymous)]

That's my feeling. I (a straight female) think that purely by aesthetic standards, penises are far more attractive than vaginas. Vaginas are ugly to me. And no, that doesn't mean I hate being female, or even hate my own vagina, it's just that if someone said "you have to pick a set of genitalia to stare at all day" (and no, I don't know the situation in which that would happen), I'd rather look at a penis. They're, just, I don't know, nicer to look at, to me.

What I find kind of odd is that almost everyone I know, including straight women, are like "oh, penises are so ugly, vaginas are such beautiful works of art". The only people I've ever found that agree with me are gay men, which makes sense obviously but I'd think most straight women would find penises more attractive as well, but that isn't the case with the ones I know.

[(Anonymous)]

..I'm gay and fuck you.

I find genitalia gross to look at tbh.

[(Anonymous)]

lmao here comes the SJW

[fenm]

Oh, please. I've heard many men try to justify the disproportionate showing of female frontal nudity to male frontal nudity in the media with "But penises look gross!" Do all these guys subconsciously hate men?

Also, hating to read about het doesn't equal hating vaginas. Like, at all. You can love your vagina--and vaginas in general--and not want to read about stuff getting shoved into it.

[(Anonymous)]

It has more to do with the fact that it is literally impossible to have a serious scene with a penis in it. Seriously, they're hilarious.

Re: troll secrets

[thene]

I want to know how these trolls justify the existence of those of us who don't like het but do like both femslash and slash...

[(Anonymous)]

But they are kind of gross. All slimy and shit. But it's not like dicks are much better. It's just because I'm attracted to men, not women, that makes me more willing to look at/engage with dicks than I with twats.

[(Anonymous)]

Anon above says they may not find women hot (and really, it's okay not to be attracted to everyone), but they read and like femslash. Yeah, that equals vagina hate.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the anon you referenced, and yes, I'm not attracted to women at all. I do indeed like femmeslash. Not as much as m/m, and I don't usually read explicit femmeslash (though I have done so on a few occasions), but I read and enjoy it, and much prefer it to het.

[diet_poison]

lol wat

[(Anonymous)]

OT but this seems as good a place as any to ask. For straight women who enjoy heterosexual video pornagraphy, what is it about it you find arousing?

I'm a bisexual cis female. Most of the het porn I have come across has the women front and center with the men basically being disembodied cocks (unless it's femdom). When I watch, I find myself focusing solely on the woman because the guy might as well be a sentient dildo. Does this make it difficult for you to enjoy het porn?

[(Anonymous)]

I've only watched porn a few times...it was always het. Not much to enjoy at all. I'm not attracted to women myself (I like guys), and the men are indeed always in the background. Usually barely even on screen! And, er, not to sound shallow, but they aren't chosen for their looks...

I find it kind of ironic that, much as I like m/m, I've never watched m/m porn. Huh.

[omorka]

(Not straight, but I'll take a shot at this anyway.) Depends on the porn in question. I really, really like dirty talk, so if a particular actor or actress is good at that, I can watch the scene and get something out of it even if the dude is a non-entity otherwise. Also, there are some better videos that have something vaguely resembling character development for the guy, so he's not quite as much of a dick connected to a blank slate (there were a bunch of these in the late '90s, although they're hard to find now).

I agree that pr0n intended for a queer (or better, queer and kinky) audience tends to be more interesting, though. There's also some female-written-and-directed romance-novel-come-to-life porn that more or less avoids the dude-as-dildo phenomenon, although I often find those hard to watch without laughing my ass off.

[(Anonymous)]

I sort of just like...the act of fucking, if it's done well. I know that sort of sounds abstract, but I look at it more in a voyeuristic way.

I do not identify with women in porn (nor do I necessarily find the men specifically hot - in fact, if I find men hot that's mostly in gay porn).

I won't enjoy watching a girl alone masturbating, but if the porn basically has two bodies engaged in a good rogering, I'm game. I think, in a way, that's why I can actually get off on many variations of porn even though identifying as straight. For het/gay male porn I can pretty much watch them interchangeably - but honestly, I've gotten off on lesbian strapon porn or transsexual porn too. I quite like anal, both het and gay.While also leads me to pegging, which can be awesome. I also enjoy more kinky/bdsm/rough stuff in several variations. So basically I'm a bit of a pervert.

To me it's a fantasy and 99% people in porn I just wouldn't want to have sex with myself anyway.Some of the sex I also wouldn't want to have, some I have tried myself. I'm not so emotionally invested (which is often a huge difference with couples in fandom, where I am totally emotionally invested). Hope that helps and wasn't tmi!