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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-15 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2386 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, I'm so so sorry you had to put up with that. It's inexcusable for anyone, brony or not, to treat another fan of something they like like that.

But I'd have to agree with you on the "Boy's Club." I too am a female fan of the show, but I don't make this known to anyone aside from other female fans and my own family. The treatment I've seen male fans give to female ones is, for lack of a better word, disgusting. Someone will probably step up and disagree with me, and they've probably had different experiences than me, but the majority of the male/female interaction in this fandom I've seen is negative (just look at a lot of the fandom drama).

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Just remember it was MEANT for girls, the main characters are female... they really can't make it a boys only thing.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
That one guy sounds awkward and creepy on top of being plain rude. You dodged a bullet there, really.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not in the MLP fandom and don't know that much about it, but I've heard a lot about how the guys have invaded the fandom and now the series caters to them. If that is true, that is sad.

It's not a silly show, and neither are your feelings about it, OP, it was supposed to empower young girls. There is so little out there for young women and girls it's sad when that is taken away.

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[personal profile] republicanism 2013-07-15 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
do you really WANT to talk to people who are elitist about fucking my little pony?
... i meant to use 'fucking' for emphasis there but depending on what 'clopfic' means i guess you could take that multiple ways

regardless. DO YOU?? no. you don't.

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the solution is simple

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
If I were you I'd have probably enjoyed making HIM feel like shit for reading goddamn pony porn.

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[personal profile] thezmage 2013-07-15 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Creeper doesn't sound normal for anyone in any fandom, honestly. I wouldn't take him as indicative of anything but his parents poor child rearing skill

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
this is why bronies are worse than getting dog shit stuck in the treads of your shoe

(Anonymous) 2013-07-15 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
That guy was just an ass and it has nothing to do with what he is a fan of.

And for the girls: don't ever let men like that take anything from you or dictate what you can like. MLP is NOT a boys club and don't let anyone ever let you think it is.

BTW I love MLP too and have the same nostalgia, the new series is beyond cute and I'm always going to love those things.

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[personal profile] shinyhappypanic 2013-07-15 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a female fan of MLP too and unfortunately I do feel kind of left out. I'm not a part of the fandom, but the real life guys I know who are into it are all high fives and references while only a few of them will discuss the show with me. it sucks.

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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-07-16 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, this is sad, OP. But at least you didn't have to talk to that asshat. And really, the other guy is part of the problem too.

Maybe you can talk with some of the fans here? They seem pretty nice as far as I can tell.
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[personal profile] sootyowl 2013-07-16 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear they were a dick bags to you, OP. Hopefully you'll find better people to discuss MLP with. Preferably people who understand the show and what life lessons it's trying to teach.

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[personal profile] antoj 2013-07-16 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
I'm always too afraid to talk to people first because I'm afraid of situations like this... =_=

but one time I was in a store just looking at the pony merchandise and some guy started talking to me about the show in the store. It was kind of fun... but that was the only interaction i've had with the fandom really.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-07-16 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
I don't watch MLP, but I've experienced the 'I don't want to talk to a girl about my interests' thing (in my case, gaming) and it sucks. Sadly some people are just dicks, and you're better off finding someone who isn't a total asshole to converse with. You should never have to experience that kind of treatment and it is unfortunate, but I'm sure there are plenty of friendly MLP fans too. I hope you find some to hang out with.

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-16 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
If it makes you feel better, Bronies/Men overtaking FiM and being all "this show about cartoon ponies is my due, no women/girls allowed" is just a symptom, not the cause.

The Asshole McDickheads and Misters "I don't want to alienate my friend by scolding him for his gross and bad behavior" of the world would behave this way over anything that they had latched onto that validated them via other members' feedback loops. Maybe it would be another fandom, maybe it would be an enthusiasm for miniature car collections, maybe even sports or other outdoorsy stuff.

There are non-asshole fans of the show, promise! Sorry you ran into the reprehensible ones. :(

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[Picture is the character Applejack from the cartoon series "My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic". She looks younger than in the show. She is an earth Pony with a light orange coat, white freckles on her cheek and light blonde mane and tail, both of which are tied at the end with a red hair-tie. She is sitting down outdoors, in a dark place where it's raining. She has her eyes closed and her head tilted down, looking dejected.]

I've been a big fan of My Little Pony since I was a little girl, and I remember the excitement I felt when Friendship is Magic became a hit. At one point, I saw two male classmates discussing it together and I eagerly joined in. One guy gave me this look, and promptly started talking about grimdark fic as if to scare me off. I like grimdark so I started talking about my favorites. He gave me another look and started to talk about clopfic, which is one of my big squicks. I got the hint and left. The other guy looked uncomfortable with all this, but didn't say anything. It made me so upset, but of course I didn't tell anyone - just a silly TV show right? But I had the distinct feeling that a cherished part of my childhood was being turned into a Boy's Club with no girls allowed. I'm sorry if I'm overreacting.

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[personal profile] cakemage 2013-07-16 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
That guy was a complete asshole to you and you have every right to be upset about it. I really hate how bronies have taken over the MLP fandom, and how so many of them act like they're the only kind of fans who matter and that everything about the show and merchandise should pander solely to them. I know that I shouldn't judge the whole brony subculture by its jerkiest members, but sometimes it's really hard not to hate them, partially because of shit like this.
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[personal profile] silverau 2013-07-16 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously?? Was he, like, a fifth-grader???

I hate when guys act like that. What a creepy dick. Hopefully his other friend will realize that and ditch him and he'll end up friendless like he deserves to be.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-16 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
And this is why bronies suck.
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[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2013-07-16 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Relevent Shortpacked!

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[personal profile] al28894 2013-07-16 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
This is one of the reasons why I dropped from the fandom; that and the Derpy Hooves fiasco. I'm a male, but I was astonished to hear what other male fans are doing to the female fans. It all just soured for me.

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-07-16 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I could say this surprises me but it doesn't (the irony is enormous). And you are not overreacting AT ALL.

I hope you meet nicer fans to share your love of MLP with :)
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-07-16 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
Well you've obviously met some folks you don't need, I hope you won't give up a fandom you've loved so long quite so fast. I am sure a pocket of this fandom is exactly what you are looking for, and that you can find it.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-16 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a shitty experience. I don't want to be in a fandom where a creepy asshole can get rid of women by proudly admitting he reads MLP porn and not only succeeds in driving away the women but never has to hear "dude, you jerk off to goddamn cartoon horses?"

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