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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-07 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2621 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2621 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Stories, questions, and other unmentionables.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
shit, do I put it here or the random confessions thread?

I guess here

that stupid high heel thread a couple weeks ago made me realize I have a shoe fetish

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why did I have to answer so fast

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
Rock on. It's a popular fetish, and there's a lot of good stuff out there for you to enjoy. Have fun with it!
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[personal profile] yield 2014-03-08 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
how the hell do you deal with dry skin in your hoochie coochie area? i'm dying lately. i know it's not a uti or something.
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[personal profile] caerbannog 2014-03-08 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
I have a potent bath-oil that's actually for psoriasis but it works just as well for helping dry bits of skin along. Brand is "E-go".

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[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-03-08 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
First of all, stop washing with soap or any feminine hygiene products you might be using. It seems counterintuitive, but it destroys all the natural flora that actually keep your vagina clean. When you bathe or shower try to rinse with just water.

Second of all, dry or cracked skin can actually be a symptom of a yeast infection. If ceasing to use products to clean yourself doesn't work, you can try an over the counter cream and see if that helps.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe a symptom of dehydration? Drink more water. I know I get crazy dry skin when I slack on the water intake.

That sounds super uncomfortable, you have my sympathies.

And if it's a symptom of yeast infection like herpymcderp suggested, plain yogurt shoved on up there is a good solution. Freeze it and it's extra soothing!
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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I like things in porn and porny fics that are the opposite of what I like in real life. And I'm not sure what to do with that.

There is also the fact that while on a moral level I have problems as a woman with how exploitive porn is, I get really turned on by the kind of stuff I have a problem with (het porn where the only focus is the man's pleasure, lesbian porn that is clearly male gazy, kinky stuff without safewords)

Really not sure what to do with that. Those things are an instant turn-off during actual sex, and I don't fantasize about them, but yet they turn me on in visual or written form.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
Try saying this:

We need a greater range of pornography than just this narrow male-gaze stuff. Sure, it's fine for those who like it, but to pretend that this is the be-all and end-all of human desire is just plain silly, and its dominance as the assumed "norm" in porn perpetuates a lot of harmful old ideas. It can be better appreciated as the fantasy it is when it exists within a context of many different kinds of fantasy.

How's that sit with you? Would that be a position you're comfortable taking? Still leaves room for you and all the other folks who dig it, but acknowledges that folks like me, who do not dig it, are being underserved.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 02:44 am (UTC)(link)
If it helps, I really love porny fics and certain types of porn but in 'real life' I am 100% asexual and have zero interest in sex or any sexual relationship. Sometimes fantasy has very little to do with anything in reality.

I saw a comment on here once comparing it to liking h/c or angst fic. You don't have any interest in torture or whatever, but you still get satisfaction from reading those types.
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[personal profile] caerbannog 2014-03-08 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Had a great set of orgasms last night.

That's it.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Me too. And this afternoon. Hooray for sex dreams, though I really wish I was getting some too.

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[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-03-08 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
I passed out and didn't even masturbate. And somehow this was more satisfying than the rest of the entire week.

...Apparently I just really needed the sleep.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
How though?


I try rubbing myself down there , think of sexy things whatever I only get as far as going all stiff and shaky and then its over.....

if that's all there is to it I feel a little cheated. doesn't seem as great as its made out to be.

SA

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
I put a finger in my butt for the first time this weekend and it went all the way in easily. I was not expecting that.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
I can tell you from experience that fics/stories/porn often exaggerate how much prep is needed for anal sex. It really depends on the person. But I think half of it is because people find foreplay is hot.

And on the other hand, some porn makes it out as if no prep (or lube) is necessary at all. Ouch.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, speaking for only myself, I found the amount of preparation in fic to be wildly beyond the realm of overkill irl. It's like people forget that shit comes out that hole, shit that is sometimes pretty fucking large.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, one or two fingers was super easy. Definitely unexpected at the ease. A dick/dildo not so much. But not quite as much as some fic would have you believe. Though I admit to being a fan of the extensive fingering in fic.
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[personal profile] ninthlife 2014-03-08 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure I orgasmed in my sleep twice this week.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
The longer I go being a virgin, the more I worry the first guy I sleep with will think I'm weird or gross.

But worse than that, I'm starting to believe I'll never have sex, unless it's some casual nightclub hookup with a guy who couldn't be bothered to find someone better.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
I'm self conscious about my pubic hair (i'm a girl). I don't shave, though if I have a date or something I do trim it short and "sculpt" a little. But that's not the problem. My pubic hair naturally grows on my inner upper thighs, a quarter down my leg. It's not curly or anything, but it's a lot thicker and darker than my leg hair. I honestly don't shave my upper legs often, only in the summer or if I have a date, and hate dealing with scratchy hair. I feel ugly about it, though.

I also have one beard(?) hair that grows under my chin. There's not a mole or anything, just exactly one hair that grows dark and super long if I don't pluck it. Luckily, no one really looks under your jaw so it isn't visible, and I do pluck it, but it's weird.

:( I am an ogre!

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
A few days before my period, I get a lot more vaginal discharge. It's clear and smells normal but it still really annoys me.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
Um okay

I get kinda jealous when people talk about orgasms and stuff cause I can fantasize and stuff and my parts go all stiff ans twittery but then that's it. Not even rubbing does shit

Can anyone help a girl out with some tips?

(sorry if this is gross)

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