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(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)In America the "Russia Makes you Strong" troupe was interepreted instead. But there's signs.
http://images.phxxgaming.com/images/128326119028_sfz3-end-zangief.gif
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EDIT: when I say trans, I mean nonbinary, btw.
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I find that kind of strange, and I'm not sure why I'm not more interested in Esposito fic.
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Um. Steve Rogers. Tony Stark. Jayne Cobb. Mal Reynolds.
I'm pretty sure that fandom at large will scan any man as gay if he's hot enough.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)Because you are. Everyone is. We absorb racial and gender stereotypes from everything we're exposed to, starting at birth. There is NOBODY who does not have their culturally-conditioned version of this programming. Nobody, period, especially you.
So if you think that you escape that by just saying you're not prejudiced, and following a simple speech code, you're the equivalent of a dry drunk. You still have all the subconscious programming, you still have all the same stereotypes, you're just telling yourself you don't. And they'll come out every time, in little things like thinking "Oh, that guy's less macho, I bet he's gay" or "I just don't think the black guy's attractive, I think his white best friend has way more chemistry with the random villain who was in one episode" or whatever.
Stopping falling into these stupid, embarrassing habits starts with acknowledging that you ARE sexist. You ARE racist. You DO have a bunch of stereotypes and preconceived notions about people based on gender, sexuality, culture, and a ton of other things. Once you acknowledge the programming in yourself, you can see it, you can work with it, you can start to unlearn it.
When you're thinking some character is probably gay because he's thin, neat, and polite, you're acting on a stereotype. If you know you have that stereotype, you can stop and go "Wait... why do I think that?" If you tell yourself you're pure as the driven social justice, then you have no way of checking yourself, and we get another addition to the pile of oh-so-progressive fics and headcanons that bluntly reinforce every stupid, regressive stereotype you ever heard of.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)when i think of all of the huge slash western fandoms and their big pairings, they all involve pretty masculine dudes. i think the least "masculine" big slash ship is sherlock/watson.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-22 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)Generally I'm going by who has chemistry with who, I think? I've slashed Nick Fury and Dwalin (not together)(probably)(go to sleep, self, wtf) with various people. It's hard to get more stereotypically masculine than those two.
Mind you, I'm not sure I'm normal in either the shipping stakes or the accurate-interpretation-of-masculinity stakes, so I'm probably not the best person to ask.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-23 12:20 am (UTC)(link)Although, in fiction, you're more likely to have characters abide by the misconception that gender and sexuality are inextricably linked because it makes it easy for the author.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-23 12:30 am (UTC)(link)I thought it was the latter but apparently not.
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(Anonymous) 2014-04-23 02:12 am (UTC)(link)(On the other hand, headcanoning masculine guys as bottoms gets a lot of "ew gross" comments with stereotype justifications. There's no winning in slash fandoms.)
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Related pet peeve: when the "smaller" or "more feminine" half of gay ships is automatically super submissive, frail, and incapable of doing anything without his big strong man. No. A thousand nos. (Some parts of Hannibal fandom does this to Will and it breaks my heart. WHERE IS MY SARCASTIC RUDE ASSHOLE? WHO IS THIS DELICATE FLOWER WHO CRIES AT THE DROP OF A HAT?)
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(Anonymous) - 2014-04-23 07:53 (UTC) - ExpandReally? Because in my fandoms EVERYBODY seems to be gay in someone's headcanon.
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