[ SECRET POST #394 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #394 ⌋

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Comments

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[geekfreak03.livejournal.com]

Are you also so angry at your brother? I mean, unless she held your brother at gun-point and demanded he give her a child, your brother is as much at fault as she is.

Re: 16

[paperclipchains.livejournal.com]

condoms?!!??! wut?!?!?!

Re: 16

[likespring.livejournal.com]

I BET SHE DID. You know how those sluts are, always tricking poor defenseless boys into those situations.

OP 16

[(Anonymous)]

As mentioned above, she intentionally stopped taking birth control in the hopes that she'd get preggers and he'd have to financially support her.

Re: OP 16

[flowerofsin.livejournal.com]

He could have worn a condom, you know, like responsible people do in this day and age.

Re: OP 16

[pinstripesuit.livejournal.com]

Silly! Don't you know that the only thing to consider about sex is pregnancy? And that's what the Pill is for! STDs and AIDS were eradicated back with Soviet Communism and garter belts. [/snark]

Re: OP 16

[flowerofsin.livejournal.com]

If you use condoms, the terrorists win!

Re: OP 16

[(Anonymous)]

Is it typical for both the girl to be on the pill and the guy to use a condom at the same time?

Seems to me that the the girl was previously on the pill, and then was not and did not inform the boyfriend, with the intention of getting pregnant. Although the guy should have used a condom (which, with the above question, I am thinking is not as common, though I could be incorrect), the center point (which the OP did not mention in the secret, and would have cleared up a few things) was that the girlfriend purposely deceived the boyfriend. For something I'd consider to be a very stupid reason.

Re: OP 16

[flowerofsin.livejournal.com]

My comment still stands. Someone who doesn't want to risk dying of a preventable STD would use a condom regardless of what the girlfriend tells him. Would you really trust someone else with your health? Anyone who does is very foolish. And we only have the OP's word that the girlfriend did this on purpose. If the OP is basing this on the word of the brother, many a guy has made the 'she oopsed me!' claim before.

Re: OP 16

[rainbloom.livejournal.com]

Um... yeah, it is typical to do both, actually. Because, as said before, birth control can fail.

Re: OP 16

[tamburlaine.livejournal.com]

You must be a virgin because I've never heard of that shit being typical. You're in a monogamous relationship and have gotten tested for STIs, the girl's on birth control... why use a condom? It's kind of why birth control pills were invented.

Re: OP 16

[rainbloom.livejournal.com]

Indeed I am. Sorry if it bothers you? But srsly. As a large majority of my friends aren't, just because I haven't done it myself doesn't mean I'm ignorant to this stuff, girls talk, ya know? We're teenagers. And birth control can and does FAIL, not just in movies. Simply because you're happy with your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't mean you want a kid, so yeah, as far as I can tell, using both is typical. At least for my friends.

But w/e, I guess it's just where I'm from, and that fact that there are already so many unplanned pregnancies in our area that maybe the girls are just being extra cautious.

Re: OP 16

[kinneas.livejournal.com]

I'm not a virgin, and I've always used both with sex with men I know the histories of. My gay friend is in a committed relationship with obviously no fear of pregnancies, and they both know histories and STILL use condoms. My STRAIGHT friends are the same.

Your experience =\= all, and neither does mine.

Re: OP 16

[coutureable.livejournal.com]

See, it's obvious YOU are an idiot.

It's TOTALLY typical if you REALLY don't want a child. Everyone who knows something about BC knows that nothing is 100% effective.
So if you're willing to take that chance that you won't be the 2% or 5% that it fails for, then you're going to have to take the responsibility when it comes that you WERE in that margin of statistics.

And not taking the pill does not make him any less of an idiot for just not wearing a condom to BE SAFE. Just in case she accidentally missed her pill a day and she ovulated anyway. The BC pill is not very effective unless taken TOTALLY as directed. Meaning - every day at the same time.

Re: OP 16

[fangirlism]

OT, but with your icon, I'm totally imagining Tsuna saying what your comment. lol

rp journal ftw

[truefail.livejournal.com]

...LOL oh Tuna♥

Re: OP 16

[eyesofbyakugan.livejournal.com]

Is it typical for both the girl to be on the pill and the guy to use a condom at the same time?

What is 'Duh?', Alex?

Re: OP 16

[apocalypsos.livejournal.com]

Is it typical for both the girl to be on the pill and the guy to use a condom at the same time?

Yes. Unless one or both are morons or want to get pregnant or catch an STD.

Re: OP 16

[coutureable.livejournal.com]

DUUURRR.

The pill is not 100% effective, nor is the condom.
Put both together and you have a MUCH better chance of not getting pregnant than if you just use one without the other.
If you're stupid enough to think one is enough - you're stupid. Period. And the fault is THEIR own, not the fault of every other pregnant teenager on this planet.

Re: OP 16

[tealizard.livejournal.com]

FUCK. Someone did that to a friend of mine. That's fucking... ugh. Ignore the haters, hon. Whatever happened to being able to trust your partner? Sex at that age is stupid as is but to actually try to 'trap' someone with a kid?! UGH

Re: OP 16

[pinstripesuit.livejournal.com]

I'd like to know why a young woman feels like she needs to be financially reliant on a man.

PATRIARCHY: FUCKING US UP SINCE 5000 B.C.

Re: OP 16

[tealizard.livejournal.com]

because that is definately the fault of men. You realize that the majority of women in the US and Canada these days plan to have their own carreer seperate from their husbands? just because some stupid bitch thinks that a man should take care of her doesn't mean that it's the guy's FAULT. Women have come a long, long way.

Re: OP 16

[pinstripesuit.livejournal.com]

And we still only make 70% of what a man makes!

Re: OP 16

[tealizard.livejournal.com]

In some situations, sure. Not all.

The point is, women are proactively seeking career-driven futures in today's world. What they make is a moot point, because obviously they're making enough to live off of.

If one teenage girl gets it into her head that she should and can depend on a man to pay her way, that's her problem.

Besides that, there are some guys who would do anything for their S.O., including pay their way in life, and if they both are comfortable in that relationship, I wouldn't judge them. Key word here: BOTH.

Re: OP 16

[seris.livejournal.com]

Because men are willing to do more dangerous, shitty jobs for more hours! Imagine that!